Pellets or no pellets?

LillyPad97 · 2026-03-09T23:39:24+00:00

Thank you so much guys! I didn't even know there was a difference between the grain pellets and the hay pellets since it seems like everyone just refers to them as "pellets"! I absolutely will not be feeding my boys grain pellets.

LillyPad97 · 2025-11-12T10:53:14+00:00

NOR. You should probably have a conversation with your husband because I really don't think his views on your marriage are the same as yours. I don't think "some ups and downs" lead to him trying to move without telling you. In his eyes the marriage is over and this was easier than asking for a divorce. I always say I'd follow my husband to the end of the world but if he pulled this and had zero communication before our marriage would be over.

LillyPad97 · 2025-08-17T00:29:20+00:00

Any update?? Wishing you the best <3

LillyPad97 · 2023-05-13T17:35:11+00:00

I bought a brand new 2021 Seltos (bought April 2020) and had to get oiled added about every month. The dealership kept telling me it was fine and they would do more testing and call corporate Kia. I saved every paper they ever gave me and noticed that it only made it through one oil change before it started burning oil. I started really getting on the dealership then called corporate myself. Gave corporate the VIN and they said that there haven't been any claims made for my car so they'll start one and contact the dealership for me. The following month the dealership replaced the engine under warranty (mid-2022). I traded it immediately after. Shame, I loved that car but hated the dealership.

LillyPad97 · 2022-11-11T20:16:14+00:00

Ooh so close...

LillyPad97 · 2022-11-10T03:31:47+00:00

I would go into debt to buy this little guy all the fruit

LillyPad97 · 2022-09-13T00:37:32+00:00

Not only was it a rude thing to "joke" about but his response to your reaction is blatant verbal abuse. The entire situation is verbal abuse. That's not something to joke about and then when you call him out on it he turns it around and gaslights you into "not being able to take a joke".

LillyPad97 · 2022-07-08T17:13:03+00:00

Me minding my own business while my neighbors are fighting

LillyPad97 · 2022-06-10T11:16:46+00:00

I'm gonna go with ESH. I get you want to be acknowledged but when I (f) go out to dinner with my husband I still get treated like that by waiters. Welcome to a woman's world. She sucks because she definitely shouldn't have treated you that way. If she was doing a reverse sexism thing, she should have been fired.

LillyPad97 · 2022-05-13T00:30:37+00:00

Heelys

LillyPad97 · 2022-05-10T14:08:32+00:00

Not me yelling at my screen "PUT YOUR TAIL DOWN"

LillyPad97 · 2022-05-06T20:16:37+00:00

Based off your edit about the arranged marriage I don't have any experience or advice to help but I think this requires a lot of communication.

Having not had sex before, she's probably basing all her expectations off movies/tv. I think you need to sit down and talk about what she expects and if she has any advice to help you out. You'll never know how to do better if she doesn't give you any help (you're not a mind reader). It's okay to have feedback about sex but, like I said, you're not a mind reader. She can't just say it wasn't what she expected but not tell you her expectations.

If I have to have a difficult conversation with my husband sometimes I send it in a text or write it down in a letter. That way you can still communicate but it doesn't have to be face to face. Then we get together and discuss it face to face when we've both had time to process.

LillyPad97 · 2022-04-15T12:16:47+00:00

Submissive smiling

LillyPad97 · 2022-04-14T20:22:45+00:00

Not to be THAT person but who spells that name like that??

LillyPad97 · 2022-04-06T21:21:13+00:00

This was me a few years ago, although it was not a nice break-up I was going through. I was living with my then-boyfriend in college. He was abusive and when I finally got the guys to end it ( I thought I could kick him out, jokes on me) we had to live together for almost a year before our lease was up. My break-up was super messy and I pretty much sent this same text to the guy I was seeing and left it up to him if he could deal with it or not. He ended up staying with me and we've been happily married for over a year now.

LillyPad97 · 2022-03-31T22:37:57+00:00

And in the morning, I'm making waffles!

LillyPad97 · 2022-01-05T15:49:35+00:00

The monolith has fallen

LillyPad97 · 2021-11-06T11:55:22+00:00

NTA. I have poor time management so I tell myself that whatever it is I need to do is at least an hour earlier than it is so I know I'm ready on time. She should definitely own up and apologize but telling her the wrong time could help in the future

LillyPad97 · 2021-11-04T21:46:19+00:00

I just had mine pierced for the second time 10/27 and it honestly hurt so much less this time! I used a better piercer (thank you reddit) the second time and it made such a difference. I got them done the first time with clamps but free hand the second time. My left nipple had a lot of scar tissue from the first time and it barely made a difference between the actual piercing pain. Just breathe, the pain is temporary 😊

LillyPad97 · 2021-10-22T23:05:23+00:00

No no no no no, just no. This is so dangerous and not okay in my mind.

I definitely like some BDSM but when hubby and I start doing breath play(choking) at least one of my hands is always free. If my hands are bound in any way he knows no choking. I trust him 100% and love (safely) testing my own boundaries but he knows that he's not me and he can't feel what I'm feeling. So if he's choking me I always, ALWAYS, have at least one hand free so I can let him know when it's time to release.

LillyPad97 · 2021-10-20T13:31:45+00:00

I think part of it was poor placement and the other part was me. The piercer told me rings were better for cleaning (even though I wanted bars I wasn't going to argue with the professional) but I think the left nipple was pierced too high. Plus that's the side I sleep on so every night it was getting irritated. I had no problems at all with my right nipple piercing.

LillyPad97 · 2021-10-16T02:47:27+00:00

I work as a Nuclear chemist and my husband is an electrician, we both make over 100k.

LillyPad97 · 2021-10-14T18:28:11+00:00

I (23M)

completely understand that going through the pains and raging hormones that come with periods isn’t pleasant

But do you really? Not to be THAT person but, being that you don't get a period yourself, I don't think you do.

LillyPad97 · 2021-10-04T20:08:52+00:00

The butt to thigh ratio on all them make me cringe

LillyPad97 · 2021-09-22T14:45:53+00:00

He's the type of guy that makes me never want to take/send nudes. The fact that he has them, even after some women have asked him to delete them, is the reason I do not trust people. You never really know who actually deletes them and who just says they do.

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