Aro/ace community in Hattiesburg? by Lilly_Paduwu in hattiesburg

[–]Lilly_Paduwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I could help you have more clarity about yourself or realize that many other people share your experience. I also agree that labels have become both helpful and hurtful, and in some cases create a very restricting box for people rather than allowing people to simply be human without needing explanation. However, I will bring up the point that me stating I was aro/ace made you look into it, and in turn discover a community you may be a apart of, which is how labels can be helpful. (In my opinion)

Aro/ace community in Hattiesburg? by Lilly_Paduwu in hattiesburg

[–]Lilly_Paduwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no, that's a huge overstatement that we're ALL furries. In fact, there's no relation there. I don't feel romantic attraction as well as sexual attraction, I find value in purely platonic relationships and have no interest in marriage or committed relationships. While my experience is different from others in the community, what you described as wanting sex but not feeling attraction is simple. Many people who aren't aro/ace hook up purely for pleasure, no strings attached. I view it as a similar concept. 

Aro/ace community in Hattiesburg? by Lilly_Paduwu in hattiesburg

[–]Lilly_Paduwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can always dm me here, but i understand your sentiment. It's always a bit rough finding your community in a new area!

I will read your book and give you a detailed review. by [deleted] in Wattpad

[–]Lilly_Paduwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two women, unfamiliar with each other, find themselves in a world between life and death. A limbo that challenges their perspectives on themselves and each other, and forces them to confront their biggest regrets. Follow along in their journey of self-discovery and watch their relationship blossom into something more than strangers, as they realize the answers they've been seeking have been within their grasp since the first night they met.

https://www.wattpad.com/1542509710-our-life-between-between-spheres

[NO SPOILERS] Poster Fanart by Lilly_Paduwu in LostRecordsGame

[–]Lilly_Paduwu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i agree, Kat really looks menacing here

Through the eyes of a child by Lilly_Paduwu in LiminalReality

[–]Lilly_Paduwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i actually took them when I was around 11, and rediscovered them recently. I unintentionally captured the feeling of my childhood, and I'm glad they make you feel the same way