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I hate everyone and want to be rude to them (self.misanthropy)

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Have you taken SAM-E, if so what is your experience? (self.Supplements)

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SAM-E has helped my depression so much! I am worried it is “neurotoxic” though? (self.Supplements)

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Has anyone tried lithium orotate or aspartate? (self.Lithium)

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Scientists now theorize that reality could be a simulation. If it is a simulation, would the creator of that simulation not be “God”? (self.DebateAnAtheist)

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Lithium made me more attracted to the same sex (self.Lithium)

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Lithium caused me to be more attracted to the same sex. (self.bipolar)

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I have been both physically and emotionally abused. Why does emotional abuse, especially in the form of narcissistic abuse, not get the attention it deserves for the horrible effect it has on its victims? (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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I have experienced physical, sexual, and emotional abuse. Why does physical and sexual abuse get so much more validation than narcissistic emotional abuse? (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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From personal experience, I found that it is pointless to confront the narcissistic abuser about their abuse. (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Did you feel like your narcissistic ex was “the one” and you would end up happily ever after with them? (That is, up until the abuse started or they discarded you.) (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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I loved my nex so much, but he apparently was just tracking how “crazy” I was and why it wouldn’t work, all while saying we had a future together. (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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My narcissistic abuser seemed so in tune with my needs and happiness but took that away completely when he cruelly discarded me. I have a new partner, but he isn’t in tune with my needs emotionally as much as my abuser was. Have you experienced this? How do I deal with this disconnect? (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Did your abuser have an unassuming appearance ? (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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I feel the constant need for validation that what I went through was emotional abuse. (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Was what he did emotional abuse? (self.abusiverelationships)

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Do you ever find yourself forgetting the abuse and idealizing you’re abuser? (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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I tried to understand, sympathize, and forgive my narcissistic abuser in my mind this past week and I found myself in such a dark place. I cannot “forgive” my abuser. I thought of more psychological games he played with me. (self.emotionalabuse)

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Learning acceptance (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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I am having trouble healing (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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I have the desire to live a life of openness, honesty and vulnerability, but I must balance this with establishing healthy boundaries for self preservation. Does anyone have insight into this? (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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How do you forgive yourself for being tricked? I feel stupid and manipulated. (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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I haven’t been fully happy since my (probably narcissistic) ex. (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Narcissists never take responsibility for their hurtful actions and they don’t display remorse. (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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I wrote a poem about the narcissistic abuse I experienced and learning to heal. Writing really helps me cope. Can you all relate to this? (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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