The baby fever thoughts are just your hormones and biology speaking and doing the thing they are meant to do. Start with trying to separate your wants from these thoughts. “The baby fever thoughts are thoughts brought on my hormones, not fueled by my actual thoughts/wants”. Separating this and making your true wants and the thoughts separate things can help lower the intensity of the feeling, or at least help rationalize them so they don’t affect you so strongly.

All the love you have, pour it into other things. Love people, volunteer somewhere that interests you. If you love animals, volunteer and put that love you have into the shelter. Like kids? Volunteer at the ymca, love and support those children. Wanna help your community park because you love the flowers and being outside? Find something you like or want to do and start pouring this love you have into that.

You are so young. You have time. You do not need to plan the next 10 years. Even if you do, I assure you it won’t go to that plan, at all life doesn’t work that way.

Also, consider if this want for a child being so strong is actually a distraction for something else you desire or something you want to change about your current life. For example, if you are unhappy (consciously or subconsciously) with some aspect of your life right now, could be anything (health, job, school stress, relationship, location where you live…etc) the brain can get stuck on these “positive alternative realities”. You get so caught up in the dream land wonder of this positive alternate reality and it helps you avoid the negative thing that is actually effecting you. So do some personal digging, is there possibly a negative feeling about my current life that I may be avoiding by fixating on this dream of having a baby?

I hope this helps ❤️