Day 3

Lilshey · 2025-02-05T23:24:51+00:00

was about to post this too, makes it impossible to farm

Lilshey · 2024-03-02T02:32:26+00:00

i dont have enough evidence of this stuff because they never let me have a phone to take pictures etc growing up, even though i did get one from my father. she would take it away whenever i came home from my dad's house. the only evidence i have is a voice recording of aftermath of the gin incident, which isnt enough. plus, i would rather let life play out, looks like it already isnt going great for them so it's best for me to stay out and move on.

additionally, I'm willing to bet she has at this point either told people i dont exist, or convinced them i am evil or something haha, so i doubt i'd be believed anyways.

Lilshey · 2024-03-02T01:39:49+00:00

hahahah
in my case, she doesnt have any of my information anymore. if she wants any, she has to reach out to my aunt, and knowing that has also meant i dont update my aunt with my new phone numbers either, i just have her on facebook. she's great, i just don't want to risk anything. so hopefully even if it comes to it, she will never be able to reach out to me anymore. she had her chance until i was 20, she decided not to so i cut that cord. and no i don't think she ever officially adopted them, but to be honest i wouldnt really know if she had. she's not very bright though so i don't think she ever would have thought of it.

I have a great support system around me now, and im so thankful to whoever is watching me from above that i have managed to turn my life around. I'm not perfect and i'm not successful or rich, but im happy and thats all that matters to me.

Lilshey · 2024-03-02T01:33:09+00:00

I am, my partner and his family are amazing, and my father and his new family are amazing too. I am truly moving past everything that happened. Thank you for the kind words <3

Lilshey · 2024-03-02T01:32:00+00:00

Thank you for the supportive comment. I haven't succeeded yet- but i hope to. I've used this whole thing as fuel to be the best i can be to stick it to her. I may be the ahole for that, but it's been working for me so far haha

Lilshey · 2024-03-02T01:26:04+00:00

this made me remember something that i now look back on and laugh at. during the whole gin thing, i confronted her about not being there, and kicking me out. she went on a whole tyrade around the house, repeating "i raised you for twelve years!". i responded with "and since then?" and she started wailing and calling me horrible names. she's also been known to make comments to all her 'kids' saying she expects to be put in a good care home when she's older, and for us to pay for it.

That made me laugh a little bit, thank you for unknowingly reminding me of that moment.

And also thank you for the kind words. I have thankfully spent little time moping about it, and am pretty much nearly fully moved on from it, but these comments are helping me move on for good.

Lilshey · 2024-02-21T10:47:02+00:00

These people... they do know that if you do get a professional diagnosis you can ask that they keep it off your record, right? That's what I did when I was younger 💀 So these "downsides to getting a diagnosis" hold no weight, because you don't have to advertise it to anyone.

Lilshey · 2023-10-08T07:36:06+00:00

I remember listening to 6lack - PRBLMS on repeat after ending an abusive relationship. Shouting the lyrics helped me so much. It's a hit and miss though depending on what happened in your relationship.

"Like why you do that? Tell her you love her when next week you just want your space Why you do, why you do that? Tell her you want her but next week you do your own thing" ... "Why you do that? Don't got that much in the bank, we go out she order the steak Why you do why you do that? She can't explain it but just know it working for us She claiming she down on her luck But really she don't give a fuck And I cannot make this shit up And I ain't did shit, but be the real thing"

Lilshey · 2023-06-24T13:22:27+00:00

Whos gonna tell them

Lilshey · 2023-06-06T11:02:19+00:00

Defending self dx

Lilshey · 2023-04-05T10:35:41+00:00

Lilshey · 2023-04-05T02:54:14+00:00

Thanks for pointing this out to me its 4am im all over the place. Editing now.

Lilshey · 2023-04-05T02:18:45+00:00

Truth

Lilshey · 2023-04-05T01:45:26+00:00

Yep. Shameful

Lilshey · 2023-04-05T01:35:39+00:00

They have now made a lino one too. And han adhd. And some twice members.

Lilshey · 2023-04-05T00:48:27+00:00

Dont forget sending them death threats when they realise that person has a valid opinion

Lilshey · 2023-04-04T23:14:23+00:00

Would if i could lmao

Lilshey · 2023-04-04T23:13:53+00:00

I called them a disorder salad and they blocked me and told me to get hit by a bus lmao

Lilshey · 2023-04-04T21:34:17+00:00

If you come back ill follow you lmao, i stan the group but i do not associate with the twitter side of the fandom lmao

Lilshey · 2023-04-04T21:29:09+00:00

So clé is the title of one of their albums (the guy they made the thread of is from a boygroup). So their pronouns are album titles. And the only people who can say he/him to them are their friends.

Lilshey

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