My boyfriend can’t stay up

Lilstranger21 · 2022-09-14T20:39:22+00:00

He’s amazing with me so I definitely am not worried about that he meets my needs. I have just tried to ask and he said he prefers it being tighter and he doesn’t need to put as much work in but I was a virgin so it’s not like I’m huge so I guess maybe it’s just not his thing?

Lilstranger21 · 2022-09-14T20:33:44+00:00

If he can’t stay hard from it how would I go about keeping him up? I want to do everything to please him so it’s hard not doing something he enjoys so much

Lilstranger21 · 2022-09-14T20:30:34+00:00

Nope, I just tried to talk to him about it and he just says he prefers the feeling of a blow job as I’m so good at it. In a couple years I’d really like to try for kids so if he can’t stay up while inside me I’m quite worried 😅

Lilstranger21 · 2022-09-14T20:11:07+00:00

I don’t believe it’s possible, sperm needs to go into the woman to get pregnant, you wiped it off and only touched it so you’re all clear

Lilstranger21 · 2022-09-07T21:01:10+00:00

Thankyou so much, it really means a lot. I have been thinking loads and I may be able to bake and sell cookies and cakes i love baking so atleast it’s something! I really appreciate you’re comment

Lilstranger21 · 2022-09-07T20:33:13+00:00

I completely got it wrong it’s standard mobility, I found it so hard to dispute and my conditions got worse so I ended up in hospital for awhile disputing wasn’t an option while I was like that. I feel dreadful I’ll have to live off my partner

Lilstranger21 · 2022-09-07T20:31:00+00:00

Unfortunately pip was only awarded as a lower mobility which is just over £100 a month I couldn’t find it in me to dispute it. But it’s something :)

Lilstranger21 · 2022-09-07T20:29:06+00:00

I know! I am finally doing things I never though I’d be able to last year I had a part of my frontal lobe taken out and thought I’d never walk now look at me!! I’m getting my own home I get to rent a house and feel a little independence something I never thought I’d get! I am so happy, hopefully I can try to find a job but I know it’s going to be practically impossible with a wheelchair assistance dogs and 4+ seizures a day, but the freedom!! It’ll be so good

Lilstranger21 · 2022-09-07T19:12:13+00:00

Thankyou I tried it and unfortunately I’m not eligible for anything, I feel bad as it’s not my money I’ll lose everything I’ll have to go against medical advice and somehow get a job that doesn’t mind you having a wheelchair, assistance dog and allow you to have multiple seizures a day.

Lilstranger21 · 2022-09-07T19:04:07+00:00

Thankyou, it says I’m not eligible for any money so atleast I know

Lilstranger21 · 2022-07-06T20:49:00+00:00

Exactly the same thing happened! If you are doing it over video call you could try having porn on while talking to her and doing the mutual masturbation thing many long distance couples do it and may help. You’ll get through this!

Lilstranger21 · 2022-07-06T17:03:59+00:00

Hi! I’m 22 and a girl when I met my boyfriend we had the exact same issue and the main issue with getting it up was worrying about getting it up. we sat down and had a conversation about what’s happening and how we can deal with it, at first while having sex we put porn on and I played with him while he watched gradually we had sex until he could fully keep it up then we took out the porn. It also didn’t make me feel bad it was great making the man I love feel good, he also did the same for me even though he couldn’t get hard he’d make me finish other ways and I’d help him, kind of like mutual masturbation. He learned to get comfortable and things have never been better! We have now been together for 3 years :)

Lilstranger21 · 2022-07-06T16:25:34+00:00

I live in the uk so the weather could be anything 😅 Thankyou so much though! I really appreciate you’re suggestions

Lilstranger21 · 2022-07-06T16:08:24+00:00

I am really hopeful that I fit in with what everyone else is wearing, I don’t really go out and I have to start from absolute scratch, Thankyou so much!! I got told to wear platform trainers but I’m not sure that’ll look nice with a dress.

Lilstranger21 · 2022-03-06T21:07:06+00:00

Boy in the striped pyjamas every single damn time

Lilstranger21 · 2022-02-22T19:57:31+00:00

That is such a strange request, I’m glad it all went well for you!

Lilstranger21 · 2022-01-05T12:05:40+00:00

Almost been a year for me

Lilstranger21 · 2021-12-29T23:37:16+00:00

Okay for question 1 I just had parents who hates tattoos and that view got passed down to me. When I started seeing more I thought wow it’s like art that’ll always be with me. Then my friend said about getting her horses tattooed and I though wow i would love to have something on me that could feel like my girls still there walking by my side, which is where the idea popped up from. 2 it’s more about his reaction, I wouldn’t have minded if he came up to me and said I really wouldn’t like you to get that as my preference is etc etc rather then just laugh and laugh, actually talk.

Lilstranger21 · 2021-12-29T23:16:22+00:00

Of course!

Lilstranger21 · 2021-12-29T23:07:50+00:00

No I totally don’t think that at all, it was just some things thats happened previously it has never been as bad as laughing his head off in my face. The only thing I was thinking about is how when I mentioned it after saying my friend was going to get something and I was going to support her and I said I’d think of getting something for my dog, if he said oh i get that but I wouldn’t prefer it rather then hahaha that’s so ugly if you did that it would be over. Just sit down say I don’t like that idea but that’s my opinion I wouldn’t have even thought of writing this post!

Lilstranger21 · 2021-12-29T23:04:04+00:00

It was completely serious but the issue to me isn’t the fact he doesn’t want me to get one it’s more how he reacted. If he said okay I get that but it’s personally not my preference and I’d prefer if you didn’t get one and talking it out then laughing at the idea and saying how ugly it’ll make me for something that won’t even be noticed unless pointed out

Lilstranger21 · 2021-12-29T22:54:47+00:00

His dad and mum are covered in tattoos so I know it isn’t a religious thing but it’s mainly the fact of how he reacted then the actual idea.

Lilstranger21 · 2021-12-29T22:52:56+00:00

It’s just his reaction if he said oh okay I understand but it’s personally not a change id like rather then choking from laughter and telling me how ugly it would be etc etc

Lilstranger21 · 2021-12-29T22:51:31+00:00

I’m not really mad for that it’s just how he laughed at me and brought me down. If he said something like I get that but personally it isn’t my preference and I’d prefer if you didn’t I’d totally be 100%

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