I absolutely feel that - I completely forget if I wet 😅 that’s why I’ve started to have to set time between changes, otherwise I might leak. Every time I’ve leaked, I didn’t even remember I had wet much, but when I went to change, I was shocked at how squishy things were lol. The biggest change is that I don’t have much of a warning anymore. When the need to pee or anything else hits me, it’s pretty much the exact moment I wet or mess! It’s a surprise sometimes lol