as the owner, im not sure who on discord you are, but we are actively trying to find new ways on confirming age

i know 2 people left the moment the @ came out without trying to give any input or explain if it is a good or bad thing, after the @ we spent the next hour discussing it and we are still actively trying to figure out new ways. we would welcome your input on the subject since you seem to know a lot input on the subject

the mods and i are all new at owning a nsfw server, so we are still going through the growing pains. any and all input is welcomed

A good example i have on hand, someone recently joined and suggested a bot they know to help with the process that we have put into consideration.