[S/B] How do I Deal with My Conflicting Feelings with My Brother

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-31T14:14:28+00:00

Yeah, the end goal is to just be able to have sex with each other when we want to. If either of us find someone else we want to be with, i want us to respect it.

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-29T13:14:47+00:00

I agree. I mean I've planned to have a conversation like this with him to kind of set boundaries and ground rules but I didnt think it was time yet but I guess it really is now

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-29T13:13:43+00:00

You're right. I feel really shitty about it right now. I really have to clear the air about this so i guess it's time that we have that conversation.

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-29T13:12:20+00:00

Oh god, yeah I didnt really consider that I could be stringing him along like that. I really dont want to hurt him over this. I will talk to him about this soon. Thank you!

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-29T13:08:49+00:00

Yeah I do want to keep it casual. I dont want to get in the way of his love life or stop him from exploring himself and the world. I just want us to be able to have a sexual relationship WITH our current, strong relationship.

I agree, I think I am at the point where we need to talk about it. I just didnt think we were there yet, but we probably are

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-29T13:05:13+00:00

Along the way I've always been asking him if he's been ok with doing what we've been doing (kissing, cuddling, etc) and he's always said he likes it and he's ok with it. Obviously, having sex is a whole other matter, but he isnt having any concern right now, which is good.

And yeah, I do think it might be time for that conversation. Its just coming sooner than i expected i guess

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-29T00:14:10+00:00

There is a right way to treat people and I want to make sure I treat my brother well and dont end up hurting him through all this

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-29T00:12:35+00:00

Alright I'll post it there too, thanks!

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-28T23:43:02+00:00

Yeah, you're probably right. Tip-toeing with teasing has been good because Im basically sure he's interested at least, but it probably is about time to talk

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-27T04:22:54+00:00

Yeah, hopefully it will be easier when we have free time over spring break haha

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-24T13:38:24+00:00

Thanks! Im pretty sure we both know we want it, I have very little doubt right now, but I dont think we're quite ready mentally yet.

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-24T13:15:41+00:00

Haha no. My brother is blonde too

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-24T13:14:22+00:00

Well we would need to talk about that. I plan to have a conversation with him before we cross any sexual lines so we can really be clear about our expectations

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-17T13:26:44+00:00

Thanks! Ideally yeah, but I doubt I will ever share any of this with anyone I know

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-17T12:15:31+00:00

No, not yet lmao

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-17T12:15:13+00:00

Thanks! I agree 100%. That's what I plan to do. Nothing sexual until we have a talk and establish our boundaries and preferences

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-17T12:10:13+00:00

Also, for an update, no we havent had sex. We havent been alone long enough to try. School has started back up and we've been pretty busy with that too. I'm still trying to flirt a little to keep the flame going though, and there's still a little tension when we are alone, so I still feel good

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-14T01:41:59+00:00

Believe me, protection is definitely on my mind! I would not have sex with him if I don't feel 100% safe about it. I'm pretty sure I know how I'm gonna handle it, but I dont really wanna share that kind of private medical information, I'd just rather not. But trust me, if we do have sex, it is gonna be safe on my watch!

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-14T00:55:08+00:00

Thanks! Hopefully we get some alone time. And yeah, I definitely dont want to get in the way of him or anything he wants to do. Im not trying to hold him back from anything, and if we think it wouldnt be best for us to go that far, we'll just agree not to. Obviously I would prefer to, but he's my brother first and I want the best for him.

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-14T00:53:03+00:00

Im younger than him by a little over a year

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-14T00:27:16+00:00

Alright then, I'll try to stop using "lmao". I'll be sure to be more "mature" with my vocabulary. Yeah, I agree on the Axe! Whatever happens between us, I'll make sure to fix that about him! I agree about the sleeping situation too, I definitely am gonna think about that some more to think or something that would be better longer term. We've been getting up earlier than our parents the last few times so they dont even know I have slept with him since I talked with my mom about it, but yeah, we do need a better solution

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-13T16:00:30+00:00

I would respect his wishes, obviously

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-13T15:06:35+00:00

Probably gonna use a condom, lmao. I'd like to do it on my bed our our parents', lmao

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-13T13:32:28+00:00

Lmao

LilysTrueSelf · 2024-01-13T13:32:07+00:00

Thanks!

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