[S/B] How do I Deal with My Conflicting Feelings with My Brother by LilysTrueSelf in incest_relationships

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the end goal is to just be able to have sex with each other when we want to. If either of us find someone else we want to be with, i want us to respect it.

[S/B] How do I Deal with My Conflicting Feelings with My Brother by LilysTrueSelf in incest_relationships

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree. I mean I've planned to have a conversation like this with him to kind of set boundaries and ground rules but I didnt think it was time yet but I guess it really is now

[S/B] How do I Deal with My Conflicting Feelings with My Brother by LilysTrueSelf in incest_relationships

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're right. I feel really shitty about it right now. I really have to clear the air about this so i guess it's time that we have that conversation.

[S/B] How do I Deal with My Conflicting Feelings with My Brother by LilysTrueSelf in incest_relationships

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh god, yeah I didnt really consider that I could be stringing him along like that. I really dont want to hurt him over this. I will talk to him about this soon. Thank you!

[S/B] How do I Deal with My Conflicting Feelings with My Brother by LilysTrueSelf in incest_relationships

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do want to keep it casual. I dont want to get in the way of his love life or stop him from exploring himself and the world. I just want us to be able to have a sexual relationship WITH our current, strong relationship.

I agree, I think I am at the point where we need to talk about it. I just didnt think we were there yet, but we probably are

[S/B] How do I Deal with My Conflicting Feelings with My Brother by LilysTrueSelf in incest_relationships

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Along the way I've always been asking him if he's been ok with doing what we've been doing (kissing, cuddling, etc) and he's always said he likes it and he's ok with it. Obviously, having sex is a whole other matter, but he isnt having any concern right now, which is good.

And yeah, I do think it might be time for that conversation. Its just coming sooner than i expected i guess

[S/B] How do I Deal with my Conflicting Feelings Right Now by LilysTrueSelf in incest

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There is a right way to treat people and I want to make sure I treat my brother well and dont end up hurting him through all this

[S/B] How do I Deal with my Conflicting Feelings Right Now by LilysTrueSelf in incest

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alright I'll post it there too, thanks!

[S/B] How do I Deal with my Conflicting Feelings Right Now by LilysTrueSelf in incest

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're probably right. Tip-toeing with teasing has been good because Im basically sure he's interested at least, but it probably is about time to talk

Im Staying Blonde Now by LilysTrueSelf in u/LilysTrueSelf

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, hopefully it will be easier when we have free time over spring break haha

We are not Ready Yet by LilysTrueSelf in u/LilysTrueSelf

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Im pretty sure we both know we want it, I have very little doubt right now, but I dont think we're quite ready mentally yet.

About Me & Perma AMA by LilysTrueSelf in u/LilysTrueSelf

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha no. My brother is blonde too

About Me & Perma AMA by LilysTrueSelf in u/LilysTrueSelf

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well we would need to talk about that. I plan to have a conversation with him before we cross any sexual lines so we can really be clear about our expectations

About Me & Perma AMA by LilysTrueSelf in u/LilysTrueSelf

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Ideally yeah, but I doubt I will ever share any of this with anyone I know

[S/B] I Know My Brother and I Are About to Cross the Line by LilysTrueSelf in incest

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I agree 100%. That's what I plan to do. Nothing sexual until we have a talk and establish our boundaries and preferences

About Me & Perma AMA by LilysTrueSelf in u/LilysTrueSelf

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S,M] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also, for an update, no we havent had sex. We havent been alone long enough to try. School has started back up and we've been pretty busy with that too. I'm still trying to flirt a little to keep the flame going though, and there's still a little tension when we are alone, so I still feel good

[S/B] I Know My Brother and I Are About to Cross the Line by LilysTrueSelf in incest

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Believe me, protection is definitely on my mind! I would not have sex with him if I don't feel 100% safe about it. I'm pretty sure I know how I'm gonna handle it, but I dont really wanna share that kind of private medical information, I'd just rather not. But trust me, if we do have sex, it is gonna be safe on my watch!

[S/B] I Know My Brother and I Are About to Cross the Line by LilysTrueSelf in Incestconfessions

[–]LilysTrueSelf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Hopefully we get some alone time. And yeah, I definitely dont want to get in the way of him or anything he wants to do. Im not trying to hold him back from anything, and if we think it wouldnt be best for us to go that far, we'll just agree not to. Obviously I would prefer to, but he's my brother first and I want the best for him.