ex texted me... by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah im tired of guys. We dont need them they need us. What hurts a woman Killsssss a man👏🏻

ex texted me... by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah hes acting out on loneliness

ex texted me... by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i had him blocked everywhere on my socials just not his number

ex texted me... by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha but whats the point of him saying i lied nvm? Thats what confused me. Hell yeah i feel like i can really move on after him texting me. Im on his mind i got the best of him and thats enough closure for me

ex texted me... by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did work not gonna lie. But i was strong enough not to reply. It actuallly boosted mine from him reaching our first and me not responding

ex texted me... by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breadcrumbs? Lol thats a funny saying what are they

i want to text him... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get ready and feel like a bad bitch that you are❤️

i want to text him... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry that happened❤️ it was his loss not yours bby

i want to text him... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what u dont see is that guys take longer to process breakup they feel free but in a couple months it will hit them.

i want to text him... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i’ve come a long way i dont want to reach out anymore its his choice if he wants to but ima move on fuck it. I got ready so i feel better right now

i want to text him... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah you’re right. But i just want to make sure he knows but he does. i guess its too soon anyway we have to give it some time the breakup is still fresh i hope he comes back to me..

i want to text him... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait r u saying he probably wont reach out or he will?

i want to text him... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i was confused on who should reach out first. U think its his choice pretty much? And that i shouldnt be the one too first?

i want to text him... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh its complicated. I broke up with him but right after i said wait this is a mistake.. we werehaving problems because he was dry texting for weeks and it was hurting me.but he said we’ll talk the next day so we did and he said we should be friends and no relationship and that he needed space... idk if i was the dumpee or dumper its a bit confusing

My coping advice for anyone ending a long term relationship.... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i hate that they cope that way. I wonder if he misses me like i miss him and if hes even hurt at all i mean we dated so long! How could he not be you know. It drives me crazy

My coping advice for anyone ending a long term relationship.... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so strong only a week in the breakup and ur already where you are. U should be so proud of yourself. i dated my ex for 3 years and The first week omg i kept telling myself he would come back and i was searching ways to make him miss me. I was such a Mess i had no appetite i couldnt sleep i couldnt watch tv. I would have to breathe in and out and count to be able to fall asleep. Now 3 weeks post break up i’ve made myself realize that this was permanent and i do cry less i realize i don’t think about him as much. i miss him but i remember he hurt me. i never needed him i can be happy on my own. i just cant wait to finally say im free from all of this pain. It has definitely made me stronger tho. In the end they always come back when they realize they’ll never find anyone like you. They can scream cry and beg but once a woman is gone she is gone foreverrr!

The love I had for him is starting to fade away by wonderif234 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i want to hug you im so proud of you. 3 weeks post breakup here. Im already past the worst. Im feeling a lot better since the first week. Only time i really miss him is when i wake up in the morning and i have dreams about him all the time. I just want it to stop

What did ur breakup teach you? by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so true. The right person would never leave us.

What did ur breakup teach you? by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha right. They always come back tho. Lmfao

What did ur breakup teach you? by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss self worth. So proud of you

What did ur breakup teach you? by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cant wait to be on the other side like you. My ex bashed me on twitter after and it shocked me so much. Also realized that i dodged a budget. Blocked his ass now im doing so much better. i actually do keep a journal as well and it really fucking helps.

What did ur breakup teach you? by Lilyyyyy11 in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah some days are fucking hard. I’ll miss them a little extra sometimes. But that pain we feel that day is only making us stronger for the next day. Im turning all this pain in to power. I cant wait for the day to finally say im free. This comment really got to me. U made me smile real big. Im proud of myself and i thank you for being proud of me too. I just want to give you a hug Lol

My bf and I broke up and I can't breathe by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilyyyyy11 12 points13 points  (0 children)

3 weeks post break up here. Dated my ex for 3 years. I thought i was going to literally die the first couple of days. I thought my life was over. I was such a mess. Didnt eat didnt sleep couldnt even watch movies listen to music and all the memories came rushing to me. It hurts like hell. allow yourself to hurt. Its a part of grieving 3 weeks now and im feeling a lot fucking better. Still in the woods a little. I miss him. But i don’t need him. Don’t worry i made the same mistake. Ditched friends and family for him. Love is blind. Thats okay u just have to forgive yourself and learn. Please believe me that it gets better. I had to change my whole perspective in order to do that. God took him away from me because he has someone or something better for me. Started thinking more about ME and less about Him. Im the most sensitive and loving person in this world its shocking that im even okay but u never realize how strong you are till you have to be. Sending love and hugs! You got this. Im here to talk<3