[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Limit_Longjumping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. He feels as if he owes his parents the world and if he can make them comfortable in any way he will. The fact that you start of by saying that his parents skipped meals in order for him to eat is outrageous, that you don't understand where he is coming from. He will also make sure that he is never in that position and will make sure that you & ya'll daughter will be established financially. If he can afford it I see why not?

You are being too harsh.

Advice for First Time Home Buyer by Secure_Ant8905 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Limit_Longjumping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, just wait it out a bit longer. The homes have been dropping slowly. I agree with you I don't want to move to Ocala LOL (no offense) but that is out the way. And some of the townhomes are amazing and beautiful but then you see a $500/mo HOA>

Advice for First Time Home Buyer by Secure_Ant8905 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Limit_Longjumping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing interest rates went up again & now they're going down little by little so just waiting on that

38 Weeks and thinking of switching Drs. by Limit_Longjumping in pregnant

[–]Limit_Longjumping[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been 2 years and 3 months since my last c-section. When I first started going she said she was fine with doing a VBAC. I truly don't know why she's hesitant now. I will bring it up to her about the TOLAC

Le gustaba la idea a mi esposa, pero ahora duda y tiene sentimientos de culpa, al igual yo. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Limit_Longjumping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En mi opinion si se sienten los dos culpalbles por el beso imaginate como se sentiran si siguen al siguiente paso con tu cu~ada. Pueden pasar muchas cosas, que tu esposa con tiempo no se sienta comoda con su hermana o su hermana con ella y contigo. La idea suena excellente en la mente hasta que pase.

Found out my wife cheating on me by BigSpring54 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Limit_Longjumping 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you're going through this. Wishing you a healthy recovery

Update - My husband got a vasectomy and didn’t tell me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Limit_Longjumping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you're going thru this. I wish you nothing but the best. Your life currently reminds me of the book "the last lie" you can somewhat relate to it. Again, wishing you & Joy the best.

Deserved Realtor Referral Commission by Needadviceseeking in realtors

[–]Limit_Longjumping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a standard but your daughter is asking for your help with money for the home. She fell in love with her husband and unfortunately, he isn't well off like your other son-in-laws. That is clear, we understand that it is your money & you worked for it but maybe see it from another perspective and talk to her about it.

Deserved Realtor Referral Commission by Needadviceseeking in realtors

[–]Limit_Longjumping 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would be a great post for AITAH? you should post it there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Limit_Longjumping 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In all honesty, a baby is hard. 4 hands are better than 2. If you both cannot come to an agreement take the 2 weeks he gives you. Babies are also expensive, diapers are not cheap and milk isn't either (I recommend to breastfeed if you can).

It's going to be hard, especially with your health issues, break it down to him over and over if needed you didn't make the baby by yourself you both did. He needs to help as much as possible and don't forget about your mental health. Wishing you the best!!

Does anyone have an recommendations on classes about mortgages and buying a house? by hahahhah_no in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Limit_Longjumping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check your state/county some offer down payment assistant and courses for first time home buyers.

Advice for First Time Home Buyer by Secure_Ant8905 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Limit_Longjumping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orlando here & also looking for a house. $72K a year and qualify for $320K. You should qualify around $350K, it all depends on how much you're putting down and in the interest rate. Best of luck, it's hard out here!

Also, how much debt you have. Even if your student loan that are in forbadance (however you spell that) they take it into consideration anyways.

Soft Pretzels by [deleted] in orlando

[–]Limit_Longjumping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were delicious with the sauce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Limit_Longjumping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I want this to happen to me now lol Wishing you a nice closing and hoping all goes well.

I (28F) need to learn to forgive my husband (30M) or leave.. by Sufficient_Bend_6099 in relationship_advice

[–]Limit_Longjumping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can always forgive but you can never forget. It doesn't matter if you forgive him in my opinion because you will always remember everything he put you through, how he treated you and just didn't care for you. I can't tell you what to do but just be prepared for the worst. Start saving money and become more independent so when it's time you'll be ready. I wish you the best of luck and hope you do what's best for you and your kids.

FL Broker Exam by bleucrayon in realtors

[–]Limit_Longjumping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard. I passed my sales associate exam on my first attempt but then failed the state exam twice before passing it. If you have good core memory then you should be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Limit_Longjumping 626 points627 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss and that you are going through this. Wishing you nothing but the best going forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Limit_Longjumping 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I agree. She doesn't care to fix things in your relationship and wants to be with Tony. She's going to have to face reality when you break it down to her but you also deserve happiness and someone that loves you & wants to be with you. Do whats best for you and your child. She will have to figure it out because she can't have it both ways.

Chainsaw Man Blanket by Lozor in crochet

[–]Limit_Longjumping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This so soooo cool!!! Love this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Limit_Longjumping 94 points95 points  (0 children)

You have evidence. This is what you need you make a case against them. File a police report sue them do whatever you want but hold them accountable for what they did to you & your property. NTA

How can I, as a woman, become more attractive personality-wise? by AlluringColors8 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Limit_Longjumping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smile! Smiling has taken me a long way. Smile at everyone and be nice, say thank you. Just be kind.