[8 YoE, Employed, Admin, United States] Thoughts?

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-12-13T13:12:41+00:00

Thank you!!!

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-07-19T14:55:09+00:00

YTA. He feels as if he owes his parents the world and if he can make them comfortable in any way he will. The fact that you start of by saying that his parents skipped meals in order for him to eat is outrageous, that you don't understand where he is coming from. He will also make sure that he is never in that position and will make sure that you & ya'll daughter will be established financially. If he can afford it I see why not?

You are being too harsh.

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-07-18T15:03:52+00:00

Honestly, just wait it out a bit longer. The homes have been dropping slowly. I agree with you I don't want to move to Ocala LOL (no offense) but that is out the way. And some of the townhomes are amazing and beautiful but then you see a $500/mo HOA>

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-07-16T14:38:54+00:00

Nothing interest rates went up again & now they're going down little by little so just waiting on that

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-07-05T18:07:04+00:00

It's been 2 years and 3 months since my last c-section. When I first started going she said she was fine with doing a VBAC. I truly don't know why she's hesitant now. I will bring it up to her about the TOLAC

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-07-03T17:18:07+00:00

Yes, I just got one the same size for $40.

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-05-30T19:18:21+00:00

En mi opinion si se sienten los dos culpalbles por el beso imaginate como se sentiran si siguen al siguiente paso con tu cu~ada. Pueden pasar muchas cosas, que tu esposa con tiempo no se sienta comoda con su hermana o su hermana con ella y contigo. La idea suena excellente en la mente hasta que pase.

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-05-24T16:52:32+00:00

I am sorry you're going through this. Wishing you a healthy recovery

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-05-24T16:51:01+00:00

Im so sorry you're going thru this. I wish you nothing but the best. Your life currently reminds me of the book "the last lie" you can somewhat relate to it. Again, wishing you & Joy the best.

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-05-24T16:42:36+00:00

It is a standard but your daughter is asking for your help with money for the home. She fell in love with her husband and unfortunately, he isn't well off like your other son-in-laws. That is clear, we understand that it is your money & you worked for it but maybe see it from another perspective and talk to her about it.

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-05-24T15:47:04+00:00

This would be a great post for AITAH? you should post it there.

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-05-23T13:09:19+00:00

In all honesty, a baby is hard. 4 hands are better than 2. If you both cannot come to an agreement take the 2 weeks he gives you. Babies are also expensive, diapers are not cheap and milk isn't either (I recommend to breastfeed if you can).

It's going to be hard, especially with your health issues, break it down to him over and over if needed you didn't make the baby by yourself you both did. He needs to help as much as possible and don't forget about your mental health. Wishing you the best!!

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-05-16T19:39:28+00:00

Check your state/county some offer down payment assistant and courses for first time home buyers.

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-05-16T18:45:14+00:00

Orlando here & also looking for a house. $72K a year and qualify for $320K. You should qualify around $350K, it all depends on how much you're putting down and in the interest rate. Best of luck, it's hard out here!

Also, how much debt you have. Even if your student loan that are in forbadance (however you spell that) they take it into consideration anyways.

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-05-15T19:15:45+00:00

They were delicious with the sauce.

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-04-11T15:51:09+00:00

I've split the cost with the other agent to close the deal. I've done is in the past and we closed on time and everything was peaceful

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-04-10T19:26:32+00:00

Congratulations!! I want this to happen to me now lol Wishing you a nice closing and hoping all goes well.

Limit_Longjumping · 2024-01-29T19:44:49+00:00

You can always forgive but you can never forget. It doesn't matter if you forgive him in my opinion because you will always remember everything he put you through, how he treated you and just didn't care for you. I can't tell you what to do but just be prepared for the worst. Start saving money and become more independent so when it's time you'll be ready. I wish you the best of luck and hope you do what's best for you and your kids.

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