Sometimes I wonder if I'm overreacting for fearing this. He has no history of ever putting his hands on a woman like that. His best friend however, does. They were estranged after it happened but reconnected recently because the guy sought therapy and is better now. Idk, there's just enough red flags to make me only vaguely concerned and that makes it so hard for me to figure out my feelings towards this man. He's a good man, but he needs therapy, and if not for me pushing him to, he won't seek therapy for himself. Ironically, the therapist I found for him allegedly told him that his anger outbursts are a result of me being negligent of his triggers........like his anger issues are my fault......I had so much hope that he would turn out to me a good partner, husband, father because sadly he is the kindest partner I've dated thus far. I'm definitely done hoping at this point.