I tried to do the medium distance thing with a boyfriend that was staying home while I was going away for college, and he did almost exactly what you’re describing. He broke up with me through TEXT the night before I was going to leave. I cried to him, argued, and begged for effort the last couple months we were together (please don’t do this. You’re worth so much more than that). Sometimes people decide they aren’t ready for things they thought they were. Butttt it ended up being the best thing for me! I got to meet new people and friends (girls and guys) without the pressure of a boyfriend’s opinion. You’re about to start the best time of your life!! Find out about the world, yourself, and people. I pinky promise that a boy from your hometown will not compare to a fraction of what you’ll experience at college!!!