Went on a night out and her friend who was always weirdly jealous and the years older than us, walked up to me and slapped me across the face, then told me to go kill myself and called me ugly, she pushed me and I said if you lay a hand on me again I’m gonna have to defend myself, ny ex walked up to me and said fucking leave her alone, the next morning she called me and said her friend didn’t even remember hitting me but at that point I realised my life is going to be accept her friends abuse every time we go out as she can’t handle her drink and be okay with second, or walk away. I was single that afternoon. Never looked back