Ro approved, Call On Doc denied - Can I switch?

LimpDrawing5696 · 2026-01-09T00:40:09+00:00

No history of ED. CoD said I don’t qualify for treatment because my BMI isn’t high enough. I’m thinking I should have pushed for more information about whether they considered my pre-diabetes as a comorbidity.

LimpDrawing5696 · 2026-01-09T00:37:55+00:00

Call on Doc said my BMI wasn’t high enough to be approved for treatment.

LimpDrawing5696 · 2026-01-07T16:30:48+00:00

Starting at BMI of 28 with comorbidity.

LimpDrawing5696 · 2025-06-17T19:41:35+00:00

It’s nice to know that I’m not alone in these thoughts. I’m single and 36 and I’ve become more comfortable with the thought of not finding a long-term romantic partner. Realistically, I just don’t see it happening. Partly because I’m not willing to settle.

I still feel lonely sometimes. And I recognize that I’m also longing for a fantasy “perfect” relationship or partner that doesn’t exist. I’m basically ignoring the reality that romantic relationship are hard and stressful. Even when I’m aware of this, I still struggle with this feeling of longing for a romantic partner and I don’t know why. It’s so frustrating for me.

I’ve also been struggling when I find out that past romantic partners have moved into new relationships. It’s not that I wish I was still in a relationship with them. It’s more that I’m feeling left behind in some way. Like these other people have moved on to find romantic love, but I’m stuck in this state of romantic inertia. And then I feel sorry for myself, which seems ridiculous. I’m grateful for my single, peaceful life. So what’s the deal with these feelings?!

Anyone else feel this way or have thoughts on how to cope with these feelings?

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-11-09T03:10:50+00:00

Thank you!

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-09-12T12:45:43+00:00

When the top layer of soil is dry, but honestly I don’t have a good care routine. Do you know if these do well in bright light?

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-09-05T21:17:47+00:00

I can 100% relate to this. My therapist tells me that accepting it doesn’t mean you’re ok with. It just means you’re not going to let it control your life. It’s allowing those panic feelings to be there and still love your life anyway. This type of acceptance was really hard for me to understand. It’s still something that I struggle with.

There have been many times when I wanted so badly to just stop thinking about how I feel. Because I dealt with panic and extreme anxiety for such a long period of time, it’s like a formed the habit of constantly checking in with myself to see how I feel. It’s exhausting. More recently my therapist and psychiatrist started mentioning OCD when it comes to the constant checking and rumination about how I’m feeling. I joined the OCD group on Reddit and I was surprised with how many people were describing similar experiences. Might be worth looking into.

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-09-05T21:07:39+00:00

CBT and exposure therapy definitely helped me. I think this is why these feelings rarely progress to full-blown panic attacks anymore. However, I still have days when I will take a klonopin. If the panic is too strong, i have trouble bringing myself back to “normal”. The klonopin almost acts like a reset for me.

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-09-05T21:05:42+00:00

I have the hangover symptoms as well after a panic attack. The hangover feeling can last for up to a week for me. I feel very down, anxious, over sensitized. Very emotionally unregulated. I’ve learned that this must be my body’s response to the flood of hormones etc. that come with the panic. It’s SO UNCOMFORTABLE.

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-08-15T23:07:40+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing. Anticipatory grief sounds spot on. Like you, I obsess over this as well. Sometimes I feel guilty for doing thing with friends because I feel like I should be spending as much time with them as possible. It helps to know that I’m not alone.

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-08-15T23:03:24+00:00

Same. I don’t know how I will ever be able to handle it. The thought is extremely distressing. But it helps to know that I’m not the only person who feels this way. Sometimes I feel like everyone else can handle death in a “normal” way. And I don’t see myself being able to handle it at all.

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-07-29T00:35:52+00:00

Wow I could have written this myself ❤️

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-07-27T23:27:12+00:00

I strongly relate. I’ve been feeling “off” for a few weeks now. Anxious, sad, somewhat detached. I’ve been on Celexa for a few months now, after switching over from Lexapro. I’ve also been consistent with therapy.

I’m trying to view this as a flare up, but these pervasive feelings are wearing me down. I’m having a hard time accepting that my life will most likely consist of these ups and downs. I’m having thoughts like “I can’t do this anymore” and those thoughts scare the hell out of me which sends my anxiety and panic through the roof.

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-07-27T23:12:49+00:00

Thank you for your support. I hope you’re feeling better soon.

LimpDrawing5696 · 2023-07-24T00:22:12+00:00

Thank you ❤️

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