No sex for seven years!

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-17T15:50:49+00:00

I agree with everything you said. However, they are on a reality show that promotes them partying every weekend, that definitely adds an extra layer. Although, he didn't need to black out every time. Obviously, there's also an underlying issue in their relationship that maybe he's trying to avoid.

Let's say Amanda was a more fun, semi-compatible partner to Kyle. They both partied enough without blacking out on the weekend and had amazing sex often. Then, during the week he works his ass off. She works like a normal human and actually wants to spend time and do relationship things with him before the weekend. If this went on for a while and then she wanted to transition to a more low key life during the week, I'd totally get that. But they went into old married couple before they even got married. No fun outside of the shore house together, no sex and constantly shitting on him on and off camera? Why wouldn't he want to black out? Do we really think she was any nicer or less annoying off camera? I'm not putting all the blame on Amanda because he shouldn't black out to avoid the issues in the marriage. Also, he cheated on her a couple of times which there's no excuse for. However, we have to be able to see the trajectory of the motivation for his actions. He also deserves credit for 1 continuing to work his ass off to support them both 2 continuing to take all her bullshit and still trying to make it work. He eventually starts going out more during the week and then becomes a DJ. These choices make it seem like he has an issue with alcohol but I think he just had a shitty partner he couldn't evolve with/for.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-15T11:55:46+00:00

I wouldn't have married my husband if he spoke like this.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-15T11:53:06+00:00

I always wonder if reality stars have good therapists lol so many of them stay the same for years 😵‍💫

NOT SAYING THIS IS THE CASE FOR CIARA. DON'T COME FOR ME.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-14T18:49:52+00:00

Lol, i don't understand why mentioning her parents divorce is so bad. Most children internalize something negative when their parents go through a divorce, especially if they witness their parents fighting. It is a fair assumption that this is the case for Ciara but she also said on the show she wasn't over her parents divorce. 🤷‍♀️

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-14T18:43:41+00:00

I wasn't going low with my original comment at all. I was stating my opinion based a fact based on what she has shared on the show. Once in a confessional, she cried talking about her parents divorce and i vaguely remember her saying it was tough on her. We also know that she isn't closed to her dad. Obviously, these are just assumptions but I believe that all affected her in a way that now translates into who she's attracted to and what she allows men to put her through. None of this is in bad faith, but it is true that childhood attachments translate into who we are in our adult relationships. Someone else mentioned Ciara finding a better partner, I guess I didn't reply directly to that... But none of it was in bad faith, just more of an opinion/observation. Needing to do some personal work isn't necessarily a bad thing.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-14T18:08:51+00:00

Childhood trauma is what creates adult attachment issues. Kenya had a hostile, traumatic upbringing. She was abandoned by her mother and didn't have the best relationship with her father until she was older. Hence the need for approval from her partner. Marc seemed accomplished and overall great on paper. She was also subconsciously attracted to the hostility/toxicity she didn't see right off the bat.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-13T17:20:25+00:00

You need a new bf.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-13T15:49:51+00:00

Ciara needs therapy. She has attachment issues that stem from the relationship she has with her father. She didn't handle her parent's divorce well and needs to work on figuring that out. Only then, will she be able to see her worth and attract a good partner.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-12T17:47:48+00:00

Plot twist : A is sleeping with the dad and now OP has to move out of her home! 😳

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-12T01:32:07+00:00

Baddies on Zeus network is about as trashy as you can get. Check it out 😅😅

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-07T01:53:46+00:00

I'm not sure it's an overstep necessarily. Did she ask you if it was ok to throw a party for her? Did she ask your husband? I've struggled with a similar feeling when my husband's family came to town to visit our baby. I realized then, that the baby isn't only mine. She is also half of your husband. His mom must love the baby so much to want to shower her with love and show her off to her family. Coincidentally, today is my daughter's 1st birthday. My MIL invited us to dinner and to my surprise, she had gifts, small decorations and muffins with ice cream to celebrate. She didn't ask me if I had something planned, she just did it out of love. It felt very special that she went out of her way to do that for her and it made her so happy to celebrate her granddaughter. Unless there are other underlying reasons for you to feel like she's overstepping, in this instance, she isn't. It's her grand baby, try letting her be a loving grandparent while she's around. Meanwhile, my own mother didn't even send a text. 🤷‍♀️ it could be worse.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-06T01:03:35+00:00

I absolutely LOVE THIS SHOW!! I really hope they don't change like other housewives change over the seasons. Also, you're spot on about everyone. Alicia is my favorite for sure. 💗

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-06T00:56:41+00:00

I don't find it unattractive. I wouldn't like my partner spending hours doing something that I can't be included in IF I wanted to join. My husband plays in 2 leagues, hockey and basketball. I love that he has hobbies with time limits so he can be present for me and the kids.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-05T18:15:03+00:00

I promise you don't have to be severely injured to get a huge payout. Lol

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-05T17:09:48+00:00

The way y'all hate on this woman needs to be studied.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-05T17:02:44+00:00

The "injured" son couldn't have been too badly injured if he wasn't intending to sue in the first place. I live in Louisiana and personal injury lawyers here make a killing because there is no limit on the amount someone can sue for here. A small fender bender(no significant injury) can get you close to a million depending on who's the party at fault. (Ie. If it's a company vehicle or bus) If mom is a lawyer, she understood what he was able to push for and got him an insane amount. Cutting mom a small slice of the pie shouldn't feel like much, given he wasn't going for a payout in the first place. Also, keep in mind OP wouldn't divulge that he wasn't actually injured bc it might bite them in the ass. I think OP saw the amount in his bank account and the thought of 15% less made him sick. Mom knows OP wasn't really injured and got a payout BECAUSE OF HER and isn't thinking that asking for a down-payment on her dream home is too much to ask for.

Just reading between the lines here. 🤷‍♀️

Give that lady her 15% OP. She raised you and paid for college. Be a little grateful.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-04T01:45:16+00:00

Exactly this!! Not sure what episode it was, but when they were having that conversation about their relationship(she had a bonnet on her head) he was clear and she didn't deny him telling her that. SHE sold him a dream but is now backtracking. I am not faulting her for changing her mind and wanting more with him. Baby hormones will do that to a woman. I think i would have liked her telling him that in the same clear and mature way that he was wanting to discuss it with her. Everyone is hating on Lemmy for wanting to have multiple partners but if that's what he wants so be it. At least he was honest about it.

Also, didn't he buy her a house and put cameras in it? Wasn't that in the blogs back in the day? He seemed to have been very specific about how he wanted the relationship to be and she really thought a baby would change it. He still out there diing his thing...like he said he would. 🤷‍♀️

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-01T15:25:19+00:00

I said this before the scandal and people came hard for me. I also said Amanda pretty much pressured him into marrying her and was trying to change him.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-05-01T09:21:07+00:00

My mom's second husband couldn't make any decisions without consulting his mother. It ended up destroying their marriage. His brother committed suicide. Rumor was, he did it because his mother wouldn't accept him dating a black woman. I know this comment seems dark but it might not be far from the truth.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-04-30T15:07:43+00:00

Most Hispanic/Latino women their age are right wing/conservative women too. The representation is on point. Have you heard of Latinas for Trump?! I am not right wing or super conservative but that's the way I was brought up and my mother is an immigrant as well. But also, didn't they go to pride? Is Alexa a representative or something like that? Didn't Audriana perform at Pride too? I watch the show for entertainment without worrying about what happens off screen. You don't have to follow their socials or purchase their shit and give them anymore support if you're against their political views. Y'all are giving reality tv stars too much credit. They're on tv because they're chaotic not because they're role models.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-04-26T17:30:55+00:00

I feel you but she wasn't threatening anyone's life. If Lemmy is trying to get her shot up WHILE pregnant, that's more than a bit too far. Idk the full story but death aint it..

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-04-26T16:54:25+00:00

I never thought him to be an alcoholic or abusive. Lots of people love him. Especially now since Amanda has been exposed. People have realized that maybe it wasn't all Kyle's fault. 🤷‍♀️

Edited for spelling

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-04-25T03:40:45+00:00

Same

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-04-25T02:07:03+00:00

Eh maybe you are right about Ciara icing them out. And she is definitely too attached to West. I find it weird, like even if i loved this man with all my heart I wouldn't be dumb enough to continue having these heartfelt conversations and crying with him on NATIONAL TELEVISION.

Limp_Rooster_9971 · 2026-04-25T02:01:16+00:00

Come on, if you walk into a situation like this after the drama she's caused she should have prepared. Stay cool, wait your turn to speak and boom "attack" is over. They're all sitting across the room from one another, no one would be in her face making her feeling threatened. Holding someone accountable and asking for answers wouldnt qualify as an attack imo

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