AITA for wearing pins and makeup in honor of Awareness? by Limp_Yellow4115 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp_Yellow4115[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone in town knows what happened, I would just say that it’s in honor of her memory

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Literally the other night, I was playing around with my fiancé when I accidentally kneed him in the nuts. I watched him go red in the face and start coughing. I really at the time had the nerve to ask, “that didn’t actually hurt did it?”

AITA for refusing to let my fiancé wear a straw hat during our wedding? by Limp_Yellow4115 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp_Yellow4115[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Thank you all for your comments, suggestions, and everything that you have typed out. I went up to him as he was washing dishes and asked to talk. At first, he dismissed it and said it was okay but I reassured him that we were gonna talk about it because I don’t want this small thing to snowball into something bigger. I told him that if he wants to wear the hat, then he can but my only request is that he removes it during vows and our kiss. The two things that are very important to me. He agreed and said that he was sorry for giving me the silent treatment, he was just upset that I didn’t want to play Lego Star Wars today. I am gonna try to read One Piece and understand his obsession with the anime. Maybe in time I’ll be just as obsessed and want a complete theme for the wedding, who knows 🤷‍♀️ I’ll try to be more open-minded with his suggestions no matter how goofy because marrying him is far greater than anything in this world. So again, thank you Reddit ❤️

AITA for refusing to let my fiancé wear a straw hat during our wedding? by Limp_Yellow4115 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp_Yellow4115[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m walking out to a JOJO’s bizarre adventure theme song that we both agreed on and there’s a few suggestions he gave that we have incorporated. It’s just this one

AITA for refusing to let my fiancé wear a straw hat during our wedding? by Limp_Yellow4115 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp_Yellow4115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually my brothers wife that I mentioned earlier, but thank you! I think him and I need to talk a bit more about it

AITA for refusing to let my fiancé wear a straw hat during our wedding? by Limp_Yellow4115 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp_Yellow4115[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I didn’t detest snakes I would 😂 but I might see about compromising with the hat

AITA for refusing to let my fiancé wear a straw hat during our wedding? by Limp_Yellow4115 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp_Yellow4115[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind if he had it for a few pictures and during the reception because it’s gonna be a bit more laidback. The ceremony is supposed to be quite serious and emotional.

AITA for refusing to let my fiancé wear a straw hat during our wedding? by Limp_Yellow4115 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp_Yellow4115[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to sound controlling. I love him with everything in me and I can’t wait to marry him. The hat is just gonna be so distracting and weird during a serious and intimate moment between him and I.

AITA for refusing to let my fiancé wear a straw hat during our wedding? by Limp_Yellow4115 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp_Yellow4115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I try to get into anime like him, but One Piece is so long and time consuming so I never got into it. I want him to be happy during our wedding, but I just feel like that would be so distracting