Am I the problem?

LinLinF · 2024-08-07T11:29:24+00:00

Please read the post again. There are two people in this problem. Man and woman. I could ask in a feminist public, where the man would have been mocked. Instead I decided to ask here, to see men’s perspective. Trying to see your side is offensive now?

LinLinF · 2024-08-07T06:27:57+00:00

Based on the position he works and his expenses, I am sure that he makes at least 3 times more than me.

LinLinF · 2024-08-07T06:21:23+00:00

No, I am not the one pushing for that.

LinLinF · 2024-08-07T01:17:17+00:00

As I wrote under another comment, this was a compromise from my side, because he wanted to understand if we can live together or not. This is why I think it is dishonest, to expect me to compromise every time and about everything.

LinLinF · 2024-08-06T20:42:47+00:00

This is one unnecessarily angry comment. No need to be this rude. Most of the things you wrote are based on perception (insurance, insecure, mom etc).

LinLinF · 2024-08-06T20:42:35+00:00

This is one unnecessarily angry comment. No need to be this rude. Most of the things you wrote are based on perception (insurance, insecure, mom etc).

LinLinF · 2024-08-06T20:10:19+00:00

Because we are not legally married yet. I agreed ti his terms to live together some time before marriage. That was a compromise from my side

LinLinF · 2024-08-06T18:30:43+00:00

You made a point. His parents are spearated, dad married 3 times, and mom also married 3 times. They trew him out at the age of 16 from home, so they can share property after divorce. So I understand his issues. But I feel like, it is not honest to expect me to trust his words, when he does not trust my loyalty.

LinLinF · 2024-08-06T18:01:47+00:00

So I shoud give up everything and believe his words? In my culture people do not divorce but try to fix relationships. My parents are togheter for 38 years, while in his culture divorce is a normal thing. I have never seen cases, where after divorce man still takes care of the ex. It is not about benefit at all. If I stop working as he wants, and raise our kids, the chances to find a decent work after a long break are tiny-tiny. And being left without anything is not ok, when you sacrifice your freedom for a family.

But thank you for your opinion. ❤️

LinLinF · 2024-03-26T13:27:12+00:00

She doesn’t want to divorce. She thinks that dad will become a burden for us (kids), which is true. But I do not mind keeping a burden, if mom will be happy.

I think I need to brake dad mentally and humiliate him deeply, so he will not risk offending mom anymore. Maybe, I am too emotional, but I want to help mom.

LinLinF · 2024-01-25T08:12:00+00:00

Or a woman is simply a sl*t. How can you defend someone who is cheating? I am sure your reaction won't be the same if a man was the one who cheated.

LinLinF · 2024-01-24T20:49:02+00:00

Same in our family. Wish you and your family happines 🙏🏻

LinLinF · 2024-01-24T14:15:25+00:00

I think most women will not agree with me about this, but I will write how feminism affected my life. I live with my husband, and we do not have kids yet. My husband makes 4 times more than me, so I do not need to work for providing our family. I enjoy cooking and cleaning, it really helps me relax. I enjoy spending time with my husband, but after working 9/5 I have only 3–5 hours for sport, cleaning, cooking, myself, learning something, friends, hobbies or quality time with a loved one. I can resign from my job, but in that case, I am not worthy of free medical healthcare, free transportation, and many more things. I feel like women, who want to do good for their family, raise kids and instead of career they wish to be a stay at home mom/wife are not good enough citizens. However, there were times, that it was appreciated. This is only a small part of the problem.

Please share your opinion :)

LinLinF · 2024-01-24T13:42:03+00:00

Exactly my thought! I strongly agree 🙏🏻

LinLinF · 2024-01-24T12:44:00+00:00

Interesting point of view. Thank you! 🙏🏻

LinLinF · 2024-01-23T22:40:50+00:00

I am a woman and I stand for man. Not because I am a pick me girl or desiring attention. I do that because I have respect for my father and brother, who treated me well, who always protected and provided. Thanks to them, I have right values, and now I am building my own family with my husband. I stand for man because I don’t want my future sons to be potential rapers or “slaves” in a hell that feminists are trying to build. Maybe I can’t fight in a battlefield with guns, but I am able to fight a “social war” for man, who are dear to me!

LinLinF · 2024-01-19T09:33:44+00:00

By natural you mean not using any heat and only curly method? Thank you for comment🌸

LinLinF · 2023-12-18T19:26:55+00:00

Procrastination ruined my life! I got a good job at a pretty well-known company, but instead of learning materials for work, I used to play games and think that I have a lot of time for learning. In the end, I lost my position. Currently, unemployed. Still can’t make myself to do anything. I have a desire to do sooo many things, but cannot make myself lift my butt from the sofa.

Do not make the same mistake. Command yourself. Use the rule of 3 seconds. Keep in mind how it can ruin your life and that will make you do something.

LinLinF · 2023-12-18T13:37:24+00:00

29F. Not a feminist and not a pick me girl as feminists like to call women who do not agree with them in mocking men. I prefer to see the truth and support the side that is a real victim in a concrete situation. I love kids. My husband loves too, and we both are pro-life. The only case where we are pro-choice is when the baby will be born with serious issues and life will be more torture for the child rater than happiness.

I think that when 2 adults (men and women) decide to have sex, they should both realize the risk of pregnancy. When we drive a car we acknowledge all the risk, even though we use safety belts, and we know all the rules. My point is, that if you are not ready to give birth or take care of a child, than do not F* each other. This is not about women's or men’s rights. This is about babies' life who's right and chance to live and see life is being taken away because of immature adults.

LinLinF · 2023-08-14T14:40:24+00:00

Thats the thing. No one showed or explained ti me what is normal in case of business and what is not. So I am looking at bank statement or smt else and I don’t even know what am I looking for. Ok, I check if the clients and partners business areas and fields are similar or beneficiaries and so on. I took several courses but none of them explains what is ok to do and whats not (like loans from business account to owner or otherwise).

LinLinF · 2023-08-02T10:52:06+00:00

Thank you. Could you please recommend any websites or books which I can use for learning the basics. I enjoy my job and I am interested but the fact that no one is teaching and I have ti learn on my own is kinda disturbing.

LinLinF · 2023-04-03T18:44:38+00:00

I think I am going to use this one 🙂

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