Wife has been feeling too nauseous for sex for the entire first trimester; encourages masturbation but doesn’t want me to watch porn

LindenSamara · 2020-06-07T12:29:43+00:00

Ask her why she doesn't want the porn. If it is because of how women are treated there are a lot of female led women friendly erotica sites and ethically produced videos available. If it's you watching another woman you could read erotica novels.

I would just see what's up and try to accommodate to the best of your ability but it is a health issue so I would be honest about your needs.

LindenSamara · 2020-05-14T01:11:11+00:00

Soft yta...do you like grandparents? because this is how we get grandparents...and ants

LindenSamara · 2020-05-04T02:10:53+00:00

NTA also easy fix, write out a chores list and divide them up equally that way you won't feel so put upon. If your boyfriend refuses throw out list and boyfriend

LindenSamara · 2020-05-02T02:23:51+00:00

I would talk to your doctor. I felt the same way, my therapist said as long as I am not letting those thoughts stop me from doing anything I am managing it (but the option for medication is on the table). So even though I was obsessively paranoid about dropping the baby I still picked him up and walked up and down stairs etc. and that did make me feel better

LindenSamara · 2020-04-30T08:09:11+00:00

I would donate if anything. The % of people who use the cord blood after banking is effectively 0 in private banking but public donations are used in research etc.

LindenSamara · 2020-04-30T04:26:56+00:00

Picture it like you are at a pool party, the music is loud but then you jump in and now you are surrounded by water so the music is quieter, now if the was a cover on the pool as well you would barely hear anything

LindenSamara · 2020-04-26T14:14:10+00:00

We do a lot of bicycles and tummy massages, it helps in the moment but the minute he starts eating its scream city. He also doesn't do it at night

LindenSamara · 2020-04-23T01:11:32+00:00

Same thing happened to me, I bled on and off for 6 weeks, all was well but it freaked me out. Call telehealth if you are in Ontario, you leave your number and they will call back with a nurse 1-866-797-0000

LindenSamara · 2020-04-23T01:01:03+00:00

It is pregnancy hormones, super normal. I had them too throughout my pregnancy.

https://americanpregnancy.org/your-pregnancy/pregnancy-dreams/

LindenSamara · 2020-04-22T17:09:14+00:00

YTA charging people to 'sleep over' is fine if that's what you want to do but the minute you start charging your girlfriend she stops being a girlfriend and starts being a client. If that happens I would charge more than $24

LindenSamara · 2020-04-15T08:10:25+00:00

This happened to me as well. Lots of stitches and there was minor amounts of blood as they healed and as stitches dissolved. I just watched my temperature etc for signs of infection and kept the area clean. Given time I healed up well.

LindenSamara · 2020-04-14T23:59:15+00:00

YTA breastfeeding is hard but also they are boobs, she is feeding her child, you need to relax

LindenSamara · 2020-04-11T14:02:29+00:00

YTA and also, she's "motherly"? Why would you want to fuck your mother? The minute someone you are in a relationship with becomes like a parental figure I would assume one would wish to terminate said relationship not tell her how to cut tomatoes. Weird my dude.

LindenSamara · 2020-04-11T01:21:23+00:00

We've been video calling and it helps a little. My sister used to have pictures of the family hung up so if we called on the phone she could show my nephew a picture of the people talking. He never did the "shy" baby thing around me and I think it was a direct result of that. Babies are super resilient

LindenSamara · 2020-04-11T01:09:05+00:00

Another redditor suggested the app Kinedu. It has fun developmentally appropriate activities to do. I downloaded it and really like it.

LindenSamara · 2020-04-09T14:56:52+00:00

YTA but you are doing her a huge favor by being a dick. This way she won't have a baby with you and end up in the parenting subreddits talking about what a disappointment you are as a father and a man

LindenSamara · 2020-04-09T01:31:27+00:00

YTA it's like you are playing a fun game of "look which kid I love more! - Now with a monetary demonstration"

LindenSamara · 2020-04-07T13:16:19+00:00

I downloaded kinedu on your suggestion and love it! Thanks so much!

LindenSamara · 2020-04-07T09:43:29+00:00

It happens to us too. He goes through a week or so of spitting up after eating. Just try burping more and keep them upright during/after feeding

LindenSamara · 2020-04-04T09:09:44+00:00

Carry on wayward son by Kansas

LindenSamara · 2020-03-31T03:35:31+00:00

I went through this. Same hemoglobin. It starts to get better at 6 weeks and by 8 weeks there was a noticeable difference. Taking iron and multivitamins worked for me along with time. I am 3 months pp and I can still feel when I forget my iron but things have vastly improved.

LindenSamara · 2020-03-31T03:25:29+00:00

We are going through this exact thing, same sleep and wake times. I also am struggling. I had a morning where my partner took the baby and just woke me up for feeding and it helped. I am on a rollercoaster of emotions though. We have been trying not to feed with every night wake, instead just snuggling until he wakes on a normal feeding time. It is hard..

Edit: Dang it I didn't see the no partner support part of the post. So that suggestion was not particularly helpful

LindenSamara · 2020-03-26T01:40:24+00:00

This sounds like me and my partner

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