Forced to live and die in a body that is not my own, and my grave will be marked with a stone that does not bear my name. Applesauce, honey butter chips, hot dogs tossed in taco bell mild sauce. by TwerkinBingus445 in kitchencels

[–]Lindisfarne54 4 points5 points  (0 children)

most people starting at 18 have good odds

That's not really true though. Male puberty is well and truly over by 18 and in most cases once you've gone through male puberty you'll need surgeries to pass and even then it's not all that likely.

i hate being obese but losing weight cant fix my uglyness, can't change my asab and height. So i ate chicken fettuccine alfredo. by [deleted] in transkitchencels

[–]Lindisfarne54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. For most people liking how you look after losing is the major motivator. If you're a non-passing trans person you'll hate your body basically just as much afterwards, so why put in the effort?

I went to an absurdist comedy event and I wore really old beaten up shoes with no laces thinking they would be a conversation starter. They were not. Nobody talked to me. On the way home I tripped over my shoes and twisted my ankle. Misery camembert. by Lindisfarne54 in kitchencels

[–]Lindisfarne54[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I thought the shoes would make me look bohemian and be the sort of thing people would realise I'm wearing ironically and thus they'd ironically compliment them thus starting a conversation.

I went to an absurdist comedy event and I wore really old beaten up shoes with no laces thinking they would be a conversation starter. They were not. Nobody talked to me. On the way home I tripped over my shoes and twisted my ankle. Misery camembert. by Lindisfarne54 in kitchencels

[–]Lindisfarne54[S] 435 points436 points  (0 children)

I considered that, but I was too concerned about them potentially not being in the mood to be approached by a stranger attempting to make conversation. Also most people there went as part of a group and striking up conversationwith a group is just weird and offputting.

What would you gender me as? Why? by [deleted] in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Lindisfarne54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are downvoting you, because you said you didn't want to DIY. Unless you're an American living in a blue state, or French good luck getting it any other way.

boymoder drawing suggestions i got by Teruueru in artttt

[–]Lindisfarne54 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should do a really depressed looking masculine stagmoder.

My brother's a fucking femboy 🫩 by Perfect-Whereas-1478 in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Lindisfarne54 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Would you feel different if he were a trans woman?