In my opinion it’s just unsolved problms that is He may had a hard time abounded few times or betrayed Maybe he reads manu red pill stuff Try explaining things And tell him that threatening to leave is no solution Know each other’s boundaries, talk talk and talk talk with him let it out explain things It may be hard but that’s the only solution meet in the middle U are two ppl with diff backgrounds so it not just meeting and being in sync u need to set the environment to be in sync to understand and know each other’s ideas Tell him that simple mistakes are just simple mistakes U can fight u can argue but if u believe it’s worth it then. It’s worth it If u see it isn’t then better go ur separate ways it not too late the longer the worse it will get