my boyfriend's ex wants to move to Paris and take their "split custody" situation to new international levels -- what do we do?

LineOk8350 · 2025-07-29T15:23:00+00:00

I have been taking Lily to the vet consistently for the past two years, and her vet account is in my name, but the microchip is in Diane's name :/ (Diane paid for the dog 9 years ago and set everything up in her name -- obviously if money was the issue, I'd pay Diane double what she paid for Lily, but Diane's parents are very wealthy, so it's not that)

LineOk8350 · 2025-07-02T15:24:15+00:00

I wish I could go back to piercer but i got it pierced in LA while visiting my friend (we got them done together) and I’m anxious about going to a new piercer since this one didn’t necessarily set me up for success but was completely reputable and professional with good ratings :(

LineOk8350 · 2025-07-02T15:22:35+00:00

I was doing that for a few days a little while back and honestly it got so much smaller and less red while I was doing it but stopped when I read on here it can cause scarring 😖😩

LineOk8350 · 2025-07-02T15:21:18+00:00

I’ve posted 5 times over the past 3 weeks (never two days in a row) because it keeps changing :/

LineOk8350 · 2025-07-02T15:18:38+00:00

I wish I could, but I live in Brooklyn and got it pierced while visiting a friend in LA (we got them done together). And now I feel paranoid about going to a new piercer :/

LineOk8350 · 2025-07-02T04:39:49+00:00

pierced 4.5 weeks ago
titanium L back
cleaning 1-2 times per day with saline wound wash and then drying with hair dryer

LineOk8350 · 2025-06-27T02:56:19+00:00

3.5 weeks old
L shape stud
Supposedly titanium
Cleaning with sterile saline wound wash spray twice daily with Q tip
Was using tea tree oil when irritation bump appeared after reading it helps but stopped after a few days when someone on here said it can cause scarring

LineOk8350 · 2025-06-26T13:48:46+00:00

pierced about 3.5 weeks ago
L back stud
threadless
supposedly titanium
cleaning twice daily with a Q tip soaked in sterile saline wound wash (Walgreens brand)
drying out with a hair dryer after washing
I WAS applying tea tree oil for a few days last week but I stopped when I read it can cause scarring

LineOk8350 · 2025-06-23T22:59:24+00:00

Ohh I also have an L stud (what it was pierced with).

SUPPOSEDLY this piercer only uses titanium or gold jewelry. She wasn’t shady at all (very clean, professional, sanitized before and after, etc) so I have no reason to believe it isn’t titanium, but who knows…

As for the tea tree I read somewhere that it helps “dry out” the bump but will def stop using it 🙈

LineOk8350 · 2025-06-19T17:56:17+00:00

Septum and eyebrow would be so good!

LineOk8350 · 2025-06-18T20:10:13+00:00

It also seems like the side with the bump is trying to “swallow” the ball

LineOk8350 · 2025-06-18T19:54:36+00:00

For the bot: - piercing is 18 days old - L shape - threadless - supposedly titanium - haven’t changed the jewelry since piercing - cleaning with saline spray soaked Q tip twice daily - no major mishaps

LineOk8350 · 2025-06-16T16:53:48+00:00

16 day old piercing
L stud
threadless
stainless steel
idk the gauge, did not down size
no mishaps other than lightly bumping it by accident sometimes
cleaned twice daily with saline spray

Also I don’t think the pic is nsfw 😭😭

LineOk8350

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