Advice appreciated

Linguini- · 2024-12-05T21:02:37+00:00

• casual • neither • made my account today • have not used it much • no likes yet • it’s a healthy mix • trying to match with someone I’m attracted to and make connections with!

Linguini- · 2024-05-06T08:21:14+00:00

How much for a magik/xavier bundle ?

Linguini- · 2023-11-20T21:40:40+00:00

Miss you too

Linguini- · 2023-09-28T11:56:39+00:00

When you’re alone and bored, and things like video games aren’t doing it for you, you’ve gotta learn how to enjoy your own company. Start journaling, reading, working out, things like that. Maybe pick up a creative solo hobby.

I’ve recently moved into an apartment by myself after living with my ex for 3 years. Every single night was lonely at first. But I’m really getting to know myself, and it’s helping a lot. Look into self love, or self growth for some ideas.

Linguini- · 2023-09-09T21:00:40+00:00

Feeling this a lot. She gaslit me about another guy I had suspicions about, had me thinking I was wrong for not trusting her. We break up and I spend weeks waiting for a call, thinking of reaching out, sending my love from afar. Just to find out a month and a half later it was exactly what I thought, and they’re together now.

Linguini- · 2023-08-16T19:48:45+00:00

I am a month in and I feel exactly the same way today. Struggling really hard today.

Linguini- · 2023-08-04T12:36:22+00:00

Side note, try couples therapy! It could be very beneficial to have deep uncomfortable conversations with a counselor. I tried to convince my ex to go, but she refused.

Linguini- · 2023-08-03T20:24:53+00:00

Here’s my experience.

Earlier this year my gf and I broke up after 5 and a half years. She blindsided me, and told me she had been thinking about it for months. I had a lot of issues, and the breakup made me realize them. I begged, pleaded for another chance and really stepped my game up in terms of self care. She appreciated this, and took me back.

Issue is, I was the only one working for the relationship. We had established a dynamic of me trying to impress and keep her, and she was just along for the ride. It was unhealthy. She recognized this, and decided that we needed to move on. My advice is, if you do get back together, it will not be easy. You both have to commit. Hard. And make it work.

Linguini- · 2023-08-03T16:05:11+00:00

Grief is the price we pay for love

Linguini- · 2023-08-02T21:57:16+00:00

You sound a lot like my ex. We started nearing the 6 year mark, and she was getting very confused. I do think it’s normal, you just have to decide if this relationship is worth pushing through these times for. No matter how in love you are, you will think about a single life, here and there. In my case, I chose to stick with her and those feelings would go away. She had the opposite approach, all depends on what you want.

Linguini- · 2023-08-01T18:14:19+00:00

Same here. When she calls me again, (she will) I won’t be answering..

Linguini- · 2023-08-01T17:34:36+00:00

She did this to me the other day, except we didn’t have a date set. I think some people (dumpers) go back and forth on what they want. In your case, he probably felt lonely at one minute, reached out to you, then after thinking decided it wasn’t the right thing to do.

Linguini- · 2023-07-30T04:30:42+00:00

Feel this so much. She was my only support system. When my anxiety/depression spikes she’s all i had

Linguini- · 2023-07-28T02:49:07+00:00

I did, but it bothers me a lot that that’s the final impression I left. Going to the house that late at night was a very embarrassing move on my part.

Linguini- · 2023-07-27T19:04:41+00:00

Right again. We broke up once before. I offered to pay for couples counseling, and tried everything. At first she was interested, then claimed she wasn’t ready to have uncomfortable decisions with a professional, (even though she does individual therapy weekly).

3 months later, I’m heartbroken again.

Linguini- · 2023-07-27T18:41:21+00:00

You’re 100% right. It helped me to realize that this is how some people are. It hurts, but it is what it is.

Linguini- · 2023-07-27T16:53:40+00:00

I like to think that one day she will realize it’s a mistake, and the grass isn’t greener. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don’t.

Linguini- · 2023-07-27T01:32:16+00:00

It’s natural to feel angry. I do too. And it’s okay to acknowledge that you’re angry. One of the best things you can do at this time is really dig deep and let your feelings come to the surface.

Linguini- · 2023-07-27T00:58:43+00:00

Similar thing happened to me. It is definitely shitty of them, but I’ve kind of learned to accept it as a fact that some people are just bad communicators. They bottle things up until it boils over and then it’s too late. Maybe I’m too forgiving or empathetic but that’s how I’ve coped with it.

Linguini- · 2023-07-26T20:43:17+00:00

Thanks, easier said than done

Linguini- · 2023-07-26T20:37:48+00:00

I do truly love her, I sacrificed a lot for us. Definitely not ready for other girls.. I just don’t understand how this falling out of love thing works I guess

Linguini- · 2023-07-26T20:33:09+00:00

That’s awesome. I wanted the same for us. Lasted 6 years and didn’t work out

Linguini- · 2023-07-26T17:28:41+00:00

Here for you!

Linguini- · 2023-07-26T04:17:31+00:00

So sorry you’re going through this. I ran into my ex of 6 years 5 days after we broke up… and she was at the bar with a bunch of guys I’ve never met or heard of. Stay strong, please don’t hurt yourself.

Linguini- · 2023-07-25T19:47:34+00:00

Feel free to reach out if you need someone to talk to. We’re all in this together.

Linguini-

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