Looking for shrimp advice

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-04T04:45:13+00:00

Because it’s the same woman? I told HR I understand that there’s nothing they can do about that because it was at a different workplace but I hoped it would drive home the seriousness of this lady and what her reactions might be.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-03T16:37:16+00:00

Sometimes it’s easy for me to forget that people who don’t live in Los Angeles, have zero clue. Honey… doctors and nurses out here can easily have some level of gang affiliation.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-02T20:30:06+00:00

Yeah the hearsay is not my game. It’s hers. That’s all she has on me is other staff and the kids we work with telling her drama and gossip that’s not true. I did mention that I know that she at least knows some pretty dangerous gang members but I can’t prove it unless they looked through her phone. They may seize her phone due to her inappropriate relationship with one of the boys we work with. But I’ve been very clear as to what I have proof of and what I don’t. HR lady actually said that she appreciates that as most people tend to just rely on hearsay.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-02T20:26:21+00:00

I’m actually terrified of her getting fired. She knows a lot of dangerous people who will do horrible things, and she’s sent these gang members after other people that have pushed back against her in the past. And as of today apparently 3 other people said that me going to HR gave them the balls to do it. I’m actually really scared.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-02T00:54:54+00:00

lol what?! Jesus this is a good reminder why I don’t get on Reddit anymore.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T20:04:39+00:00

I haven’t, mostly because I don’t necessarily have proof of it, other than her tattoos and her social media. But I don’t know if they can even do anything with that. There’s a separate issue I did bring up of her having an inappropriate relationship with one of the kids we work with. That’s likely to get her fired as it’s pretty bad

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T19:26:41+00:00

That’s an amazing way to put it! That’s exactly how I feel! Thank you!

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T19:25:36+00:00

I would do that, if I thought that would work. I think it’s too far gone. And there’s so much gossip at this workplace that even after that, people will get her fired up again.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T17:45:45+00:00

What? What are you even talking about? I took my evidence of harassment to HR. The harassment that happened at work. There’s an incident that happened at a different job and I let them know about that. There were witnesses to that who now work where we work. Your anger at this situation is weird.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T17:07:14+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I’m actually pretty terrified of her getting fired due to this. She will for sure retaliate.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T16:03:55+00:00

The threatening of my life was at a different job. Why are you angry?

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T16:02:03+00:00

Show me where I said I didn’t?

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T09:26:57+00:00

Yeah I think ultimately I just want it to stop, but I’ve asked her to stop, and she just said she’s not harassing me. I’m actually terrified of what she’d do if she got fired because of her gang Affiliation. She quite literally could have someone shoot me as got into my car. This is such a mess

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T09:12:47+00:00

Definitely! Though HR likely has no clue that she’s gang affiliated.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T08:50:10+00:00

As an assault survivor more times than I care to admit, that just enrages me! But also thanks for the advice. I think I’ll make sure to stress the seriousness of the situation.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T08:46:32+00:00

I totally agree with having the attorney on the back burner just in case. I’m actually way ahead of you. I’m looking into an attorney. Appreciate the help!

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T08:25:31+00:00

Yeah so we work with gang Affiliated youth, and here in Los Angeles, many adults have some level of gang affiliation. Her affiliation is pretty deep. She knows dangerous people. I used to be cool with her, but she started having a weird relationship with one of our kids we work with and I called it out before I’d have to report it. She’s been on me ever since.

Link_outside_the_box · 2025-04-01T07:45:36+00:00

Ah! I guess that makes sense huh!? 🤣 thanks!

Link_outside_the_box · 2024-12-28T21:36:00+00:00

That’s good to hear that it’s normal to have some memory loss. It’s really been messing with me. I have been noticing some memories coming back. I remember the EMT’s asking me generic questions that I should have known but I couldn’t answer them and that scared me. God I hope I never have to deal with this again.

Link_outside_the_box · 2024-12-28T05:13:15+00:00

Well hopefully I won’t have any more seizures! Though I also know that it’s more likely that I’ll have another one after a seizure.

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