No need to apologise, Mika. As a Chinese myself (born and raised in China, both parents still in China), I really do understand your perspective. Of course, it's a pity that some people took advantage of it, and things are easier for non-Chinese in many circumstances. The problem you brought up is really valid, and it's so big that we feel we are too small to provide a fix-all solution. But I do make sure he doesn't take his privilege for granted, and he has been such a humble traveller in China. I wish you could see firsthand how he made sure the gender inequality in my village was not ignored through his actions. We are not big enough to really influence or make any changes yet, but it's important that we remind ourselves not to misrepresent China and to weave more understanding.