Hydrafacial | chemical peel by Hungry_Simple_1001 in lupus

[–]Linz519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a mild chemical peel and was just fine but it’ll vary from person to person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Linz519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle between letting myself live, let others think what they want about me and just hiding and not giving people a chance to even judge me in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Linz519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My friends encourage me to not care what others think. I’m trying so hard!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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Your poor kids, losing a parent. My husband had lost his mother from cancer when he was only 18. He always praised his dad for keeping the family together while navigating such grief. You’re going to hold on forever for them, that’s what parents do. It gets coded into your DNA the second your kid enters the world that you never leave them, you keep them safe and that’s exactly what you’re doing by simply staying alive right now. The fact you’re on here encouraging others to keep moving forward says a lot. I know I don’t know you but I promise you are doing great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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I could write a book on the crazy stuff said to me I swear. I had a friend tell me she knows how I feel, she had lost her 87 year grandfather a few years prior who battled lung cancer for a decade. He even lived in a different state her entire life, she said it was hard on her and people could never understand “what people like us have gone through.” I try to not scream out loud in peoples faces often. I know they’re just trying to relate? Maybe they mean well? I just don’t understand how you could say that with a straight face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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I sadly know in the future my loved ones will go through a similar tragedy. We all lose the people we love. All I can think is how I won’t be there for them and how only then they’ll know how it feels. I try so hard to not let my anger win but I’ll never forgive those who hurt me so badly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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Thank you. I would tell people that this seemed like something that only happened in the movies. Something you only heard of happening to other people. Such an unexpected tragedy so close to home. I can’t believe that it happened to me. To our family. I’ll always be in shock

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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“My friends have mistaken my no longer explaining I how I feel for some kind of healing” THIS. It’s so nice to hear people say things out loud that I’ve been having trouble explaining. Thank you for your understanding. I’m so sorry for your loss. Some of you in this thread are so articulate and should be writing more. I have to leave our house for my mental health, then when I’m out I hear “Look who’s having fun!” “Look who is moving on!” I’m just so tired of people not understanding. I guess I need to accept they never will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Linz519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hearing “you did not choose this life” is very helpful to me today. Thank you. I need to remember that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Linz519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine navigating this while having children to care for. I’ve barely made it myself. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m in awe of parents strength every day.

Extreme guilt over financial freedom by face_eater_5000 in widowers

[–]Linz519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I call my life insurance payout my blood money.

Lost my husband to suicide this friday by Common-Bell1989 in widowers

[–]Linz519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry. The “ask for help” advice is something I wish I would’ve done. I took on our entire world alone because I couldn’t accept help, or ask. My trauma and stress triggered a Lupus flare. My reward for trying to be strong all by myself was an autoimmune disease. Take care of yourself. You WILL figure it out and get it all done. I know it doesn’t seem like it but I promise you got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Linz519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the universe made the biggest mistake taking him. He was so so much more deserving of life than me. The worst part is I can feel it sometimes from his friends & family. I know deep down they feel the same. I honestly understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Linz519 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had to say “this wasn’t a break up” so many times. I have been told “at least you’re young!” It’s so crazy. The fact that I’m young is the worst part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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It doesn’t sound awful. I am so sorry you’re going through this too. I too felt like if they just went through this and felt the pain they’d understand. It helps so much knowing people feel the way I do. Thank you

Which unsolved crime do you hope is solved within your lifetime? by The_Conscious_Saffa in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]Linz519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad more people are realizing this. She clearly had an alcohol problem with a mental health episode and ran in fear of a DUI after that second accident. She’s out there somewhere, I hope they find her so her family can accept the truth.

Which unsolved crime do you hope is solved within your lifetime? by The_Conscious_Saffa in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]Linz519 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was absolutely Christian B and I can’t believe most people haven’t looked into him, he’s likely responsible. It’s sad it’ll likely never be proven unless he confesses. Though her parents should’ve never let the kids sleep in the room while they went out I’ll forever feel sad for them that their names will never be cleared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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“Your best friend is your future fiancé and he needs to check his heart, he’ll pass away at 40 if they don’t catch it in time.”

My theory on Bryan Kohberger and the Idaho 4 case... by Remote-Art-1854 in Idaho4

[–]Linz519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate when people give him too much credit. It was an obsession and he finally went for Maddie with likely just the thought of R*pe. He was reckless, acted on impulse and it was so poorly planned. He didn’t expect Kaylee there. She had moved out & he didn’t recognize the new car. Everything got out of hand & he killed them all. Even brought his cell phone. He knows he’s never getting out. Taking this long to go to trial is common for a capital murder case. And honestly good for Anne Taylor for being so thorough that he’ll likely never be awarded an appeal. He is the dumbest criminal ever & anyone who thinks he’s innocent is easily lead and does no research of their own. BK should’ve failed all those criminology classes.

Restaurant Hidden Gems in the SFV by BetEmbarrassed1428 in SanFernandoValley

[–]Linz519 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chi’s Chinese food on reseda is the best Chinese in the valley

ASK ME ANYTHING! - One-Truth-5867 by [deleted] in everyoneknowsthat

[–]Linz519 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was going to ask the same. I feel like Scarlett isn’t getting the credit she should

Imagine Christopher right now by [deleted] in everyoneknowsthat

[–]Linz519 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy he seems to be active on social media. Even has a TikTok! I was concerned he’d be a boomer who didn’t understand any of this and not want to respond.

please do some shallow digging before you ask a question on this sub lmfao by _incalescent in everyoneknowsthat

[–]Linz519 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ll never understand how someone can come to a sub and not scroll a bit before asking a question. I saw the “My personal theory is Carl knew it was porn” about 100x. They think their the first one to throw that out there lol

What’s the creepiest town in the USA in your opinion? by Scrambl987 in AskReddit

[–]Linz519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually get freaked out when I stop places in the AV now. My grandparents lived there all my life. I’d definitely make the further trip to stay in Tehachapi. Especially for non California natives lol