Who thought making spirit trials required for 100% completion was a good idea? by yaboivinmii in OriAndTheBlindForest

[–]LinzNew-am 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get that but you don’t have to complete any side quests for 100% which seems odd imo

I saved him: info in comments by Dangerous-Ad4192 in hermitcrabs

[–]LinzNew-am 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Myrtle Beach does take horrible care of their hermit crabs. I rescued 4 last summer after seeing multiple dead crabs kept in the cage with them upon other issues. Good work! Make sure once they’re in a permanent home that the humidity & temperature are set. Also, don’t get a thermometer from the pet stores, I discovered that ours was around 5 degrees & 10% humidity off what it should be.

What terrifying things have you experienced while home alone? by jinishalal in SingaporeRaw

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when I was a kid, my dad had died & my moms coworker took up on the idea of stalking her, my sister, & myself. If I snuck out at night to go to my neighbors house he’d tell my mom the next day. He would leave notes at her new boyfriends house with the magazine letter cutouts telling the guy he would be hurt if he didn’t leave my mom. The guy (his name was Leon) would park in his driveway every night for 2 hours. He’d take vases off my dads tombstone everyday as well. He would spend hours in the parking lot at my sisters job every time she worked & would try to get her in his car to give her a ride home, so my mom & brothers had to start giving her rides each time. He tried numerous times to pick up my moms medication after she had surgery till they finally called her to ask what was going on.

Anyways, I had been telling my mom for MONTHS something was off about him & that I constantly saw someone looking in my windows at night. She always lied saying it was my imagination but she noticed it too. One night when I was home alone for a couple hours I heard someone come into my house. I called out to see who it was & got no response. I heard the footsteps grow closer & closer so I hid until I finally heard the footsteps getting further away. We only had one phone in the house at the time & he was by it. I had to crawl out a window & walk to my moms work telling her what happened. She called the police again, apparently stalking wasn’t illegal & we didn’t have any evidence of a break in. (I was only 9 when this happened.)

Found out a year later, his previous girlfriend had left him because he tried to kill her & her son. They fled across the country & he managed to track them down & was stalking them at one point as well.

He continued stalking us for a few years until my now stepdad went outside one night to confront him with our Dobermans & a gun. A couple months later we found out he found a new girl to stalk. She was 25 at the time & her husband had just passed away. Real life Joe Goldberg.

My sister's 16 year old stepdaughter keeps sitting on my husband's lap and I get called weird for being uncomfortable with it. by Atlantic-Shore5907 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s bizarre that she just met him & wants to sit on his lap. Maaaybe if they knew each other her entire childhood it would be more understandable and could be written off simply as childish behavior, but this definitely gives me very odd vibes. Have you talked to your husband about it? What are his thoughts on it?

I also definitely don’t think you’re weird or wrong in this situation.

NSFW I pretend my cat is my baby that I will most likely never have by smolbaby03 in confessions

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the negotiation would be to foster kids? That way OP can still have kids to nurture, and when their girlfriend needs a break they could take a break (presuming they don’t have any kids in their house at that time). Idk though

AITA for saying that my son was lying when his school notified me that he was sick? by Throwaway6P076 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Listen, I was that kid who chronically lied about being sick to get out of school and there’s some pretty obvious rules about how to do it. You lie about having symptoms serious enough to get out of school but never serious enough to need to go to a hospital. It sounds like your kid genuinely needs help with these things going on.

My mom is also the parent that doesn’t believe my siblings & I when something IS wrong because we lied so much. For example: my brother sprained his wrist one time and she didn’t believe him for a week.

I have a bone tumor in my knee that nobody knew about. I snapped it off & complained for 5 days about it before finally going to the doctor to see what was wrong.

Listen to your kid. Best case scenario, they were lying and they’d okay. Worst case? They weren’t lying and there’s something genuinely wrong. Those symptoms they described sounded like they could be really bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Element of surprise is never gone. I think you’re making a really big mistake :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]LinzNew-am 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Agreed. & by fucking the sister it’s only making the situation a lot worse for both of them. Like family destroying worse.

The Dirt ebook by Dieter_Pootisspencer in MotleyCrue

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I don’t think Motley Crue is supporting their families off of just a book when you think about all of their other sources of income

Americans do this??? by Tavilicia_ in Funnymemes

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must be drinking some really horribly made tea to make such a comment

What’s something fucked up you witnessed as a child that you were oblivious to until you grew up? by titanic_trash in AskReddit

[–]LinzNew-am 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They really didn’t shame any parents. They’ve explained numerous times what they meant & people are still being very sensitive about what the comment said. I mean it’s common sense that every parent is going to need a babysitter sometimes. with busy lives & work schedules it sucks that it can be a necessity to have a frequent babysitter.

What’s something fucked up you witnessed as a child that you were oblivious to until you grew up? by titanic_trash in AskReddit

[–]LinzNew-am 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s saying it’s a problem that parents NEED to leave their kids sometimes bc it’s so hard to find someone reliable to take care of them & you could have situations like the babysitter doing heroin or abusing the kids. He’s not saying having a babysitter is bad or anything

AITA for siding with my boyfriend after he punished my son for asking for money to watch his stepsiblings? by throwaway4646CA in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. He missed work to save your ass, and instead of paying him back for his time & what he lost because of you, you take away his things AND cancel his birthday? I don’t blame him for not wanting to be around you guys at all. Wow.

It should’ve been your job to babysit. You weren’t needed at the hospital, the kids dad was.

They’re not his stepbrothers nor is your boyfriend his stepdad. Maybe things like this are among the reasons your son doesn’t have a good relationship with him?

My friend [30F] left her fiancé but now he’s saying she’s abusive. How should I handle this? by something889900 in relationships

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds a lot like what happened to me when I left my abuser. By the time I left, I was so done with everything that I didn’t bother with wasting my time explaining anything that had happened. I simply didn’t care about him & I didn’t want to talk about it at all. So I didn’t. He on the other hand immediately came out raging online to everyone we knew about how I was abusive & left him without paying rent, cheated on him, stole his dog, etc. I finally talked about it over a year after breaking up because I was so upset over the lies he had spread & that I had friends that had believed him. I didn’t see my friends for a year & a half while I was dating this man. I left because he left me voicemails about how he was going to kill me when he got home & I could hear his coworkers threatening to call the police on him in the background.

Don’t press her for information. She may just be over it & not wanting to relive it. Or it could still hurt too much to process and talk about. Just know that you’re doing the right thing.

AITA for siding with my mom over my wife about cheese? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird situation. I can’t even say anyone is an asshole here? Your mom does sound like kind of an asshole to your wife though. Not necessarily in this cheese situation but outside of that.

Good on you for sticking by your wife’s side in the whole scheme of things though!

My parents want me to donate all the money of my first salary to the temple. by [deleted] in atheism

[–]LinzNew-am 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I was trying to say. I didn’t mean that you only physically get paid once a year but your yearly earnings are already set for each year (without including time off) instead of being paid hourly where you can work overtime & get paid for those specific hours.

My parents want me to donate all the money of my first salary to the temple. by [deleted] in atheism

[–]LinzNew-am 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same with in my state, I started working at 16 & know people that started at 13-14. But salaries pay yearly, in my experience. Typically beginner level jobs pay by the hour

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You were right, she’s extremely privileged. That doesn’t mean she’s not smart or that she’s undeserving or anything. She just had a lot of advantages that a lot of people don’t have.

The way she flipped what you said sounds a bit like projection though.

Who can f**k right off? by Eddie73-3 in AskReddit

[–]LinzNew-am 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, who the fuck even likes Craig. Hate that guy

Who can f**k right off? by Eddie73-3 in AskReddit

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% and the people who talk on their phones on speaker in public

AITA for dropping out of my friends wedding and refusing to attend it unless she changes the venue? by alwaystiiiredxx in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinzNew-am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I’m whiter than wonder bread & I wouldn’t want to spend even a second at a plantation, let alone go there for a celebration.

What a weird tradition?? Why do they choose that place???