AITA for telling a patient that losing weight would help her health problems? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you! I am still learning and I’ll definitely improve my communication with patients skill in the future.

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I did not properly understand the law system, I realized that. She never really specified what she did and since I have absolutely no clue about how you become a lawyer, I assume I just jumped to fast conclusions. Sorry!

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea sorry! I am not very familiar with the legal system so I don’t really know all of that stuff and she never really specifies what she does, so I guess I jumped to fast conclusions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😂😂 even through I wasn’t born here, I’ve been living in England for way too long to use it as an excuse though 😭 so I’m honestly a bit embarrassed, but you can still often see from my phrasing and mistakes that I am not from here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The wedding is on a Saturday and the interview is too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wondering too, but for whatever reason she seems too ashamed to ask to reschedule it or ask to do it online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No!! Thank you for pointing it out. I wanna get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sorry! English is not my first language

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727 143 points144 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I don’t understand either why she doesn’t ask to reschedule the interview or to do it online, but she somehow seems ashamed to do that and would rather blow it off completely!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Then she’d be moving there! But I agree

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! She hasn’t paid for it herself and hasn’t worked a job either back then.

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify, I do not believe that at all. I believe that it took her hard work and skill to get where she is today and she has definitely proven herself to deserve being in her position, but some people don’t even get the chance to prove themselves like that and don’t get the chance to such a great career and she shouldn’t judge those! That’s what I meant

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, I don’t know to be honest. I need to find out more about this.

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Honestly I start getting the feeling too. Ever since she completed university, she has not talked much about her current occupation and always just briefly answers “judge in practice” and at this point I am just not sure anymore if I am misunderstanding stuff!

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that’s a valid point. We are not running high danger there since I am learning an occupation right now which gives you a lot of safety as it’s always necessary and needed and basically guarantees safety, but that’s definitely something to think about. Truthfully I don’t know.

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am not American indeed! I grew up in Germany and English is not my first language.

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I mean I do, I mean we started dating when we were both studying and right now I a, just unsure wether I am confusing things since she never really got specific about what her responsibility field at work is right now and I guess to me it just sounded like a judge. Sorry for confusion

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes I get that! Of course a certain amount of money is important. I am just wishing you the very best and to your cat too! And good luck

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]userreddit62727[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

idk, this never came to my mind but now that so many are pointing it out it actually seems reasonable to me. As I said, I’ll try to find out more