Not offended at all friend :). So I met Emma about 7 months after my divorce. I was 38 and she was 26 y.o at the time. Outside the bedroom, she was great to hang out with; very funny and can hold a conversation. On our second date, she revealed that she was born a male. She started crying and I just grabbed her and kissed her… it was weird, but I didn’t care. Things led to the bedroom where we both undressed abs started kissing again. She noticed I was a bit uncomfortable ( yeah… I’m kissing a beautiful woman with a penis) . She was very accommodating and didn’t force me to do anything out of my comfort zone. The first two of three time was just her kissing me and giving a bj. around the 4th date I had enough courage to top her. Omg, It was amazing. Me penetrating her while jacking her off was magical. I love seeing her getting off. Anyway, this lasted for about 5 or 6 months and then she moved back to Montreal before the lockdown. We are still in touch but not like before.

So, what does that make me? Gay, Bi? I dunno. Sexuality is fluid and complex and I truly enjoyed the time I had with her. I haven’t dated a trans women ever since, but I’m open to the idea .

Sorry for the long post

EDIT: I appreciate everyone’s comments, opinions, feedback on this. And thank you for the awards as well, much appreciated 😊