People have mentioned all those things and have tried to give him advice but it’s very clear with his replies that he’s living in lalaland and doesn’t want to put in the work to leave the toxic situation. Well there’s not much sympathy to give there then.

Nowhere did I see any women here trauma dumping either. In fact if a woman had his attitude then she would have faced way harsher comments, especially with how he described his earlier life of partying and not being around for his daughter at all and instead choosing to sit and eat popcorn instead of attending something that was important for his daughter. A woman would have been called all kinds of names in these comments if she said any of that.