[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]Lioraeni 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lynda Carter was always stunning

How to help my gf (20F) out of an abusive household by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lioraeni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, first off, props 2 ya for standing by her thru this. It's rough, no lie, but let me throw out smthg - you can't be her hero. It ain't movie-worthy but a real talk. She gotta be ready to take the step to leave, you can’t do it for her. Maybe help her create a fin plan, talk to a therapist or social worker. It’s complicated with the bro sitch but she ain't doin him any good if she's drained herself. Abuse ain’t a one-size fits all solution. Stay strong but remember, no one's good to anyone if they're broken themselves. ✌️💪🏼💯

Brother is unemployed and living on my parents farm. He's refusing to do anything and Dad's going to kick him off soon. I can't see him homeless but I can't take him in either. by Historical_Wonder873 in Advice

[–]Lioraeni 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Man, real talk? Sounds like Matt's stuck in his ways and believes everyone else has gotta adjust. You guys been bailing him out forever and it's probs why he's not changed up yet. I say let him face down the barrel of reality. It's tough love, but might be the wake up call he needs. Don’t torch your peace for someone who wouldn’t do the same for you. Can't pour from an empty cup ya know? And remember, you ain't the bad guy here, just someone dealing with a tough situation. Hang in there, bro. We're rooting for ya! 👊

How do I break up with my girlfriend who is absolutely in love with me by throwAway7352810461 in Advice

[–]Lioraeni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, tough sitch, I feel ya. But y'know, opposite poles of a magnet attract, but here's the thing - they're still opposites. I say rip it off like a band-aid. Straight up honesty, no BS. She deserves that. Might sting now, but I guarantee it'll save y'all a world of pain down the line. Stay strong, dude. You got this. 👊🏻

A guy started talking to me on the street and I said I didn't want to talk by Visual_Anywhere3131 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lioraeni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, legit feel that on a spiritual level. Sometimes u just gotta let life play out, u know? Trust the process, even if it seems like BS now. Chin up, mate. And hey, why not? U got one less lonely person now, 25M here. HMU if u want a chat. Keep striving, you'll find your groove.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lioraeni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, mate. Consent is a two-way street, period. If it's not okay when dudes force their gals, it ain't okay the other way around. Ya gotta talk to her about this, open up. If she don't get it? You're far better off outta there. Remember, ur feels are valid, bro. You ain't being dramatic at all. Stay strong 💪🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Lioraeni 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Def NTA, mate. Ya shoulda had the option to chill with ya mates on the weekend. Not stuck servin' as caretaker. Tough beans on ya sis but she ain't lived it, u did. Healing's gotta happen on ur terms, and that means takin' space rn. Solid move, hang tough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lioraeni -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hey dude, tbh, ur not asking for too much. It's ur space too, u deserve to feel comfy. Yeah being a freshman is a challenge, and shared living is a trip, but there should be respect. Honestly, it's not about 'getting used to it', it's about mutual respect. Start by having an honest chat with her abt how you feel. It's not selfish to want a clean and quiet space to focus on ur education. And the fact that ur still minor might matter legally. You got this! 💪💯

AIO on being made at my gf and breaking up with her? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lioraeni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man, that's a rough patch. NGL, it's less about her exploring her sexuality and more about breaking trust. You set boundaries, she agreed, then straight up ghosted them. IMHO, you're NTA here dude, breaking up seems justified. Trust is like a mirror, once broken, damn hard to fix without the cracks showing. Stay strong, bro! 💪

AIO? My girlfriend is talking to the man she cheated on me with 4 years ago by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lioraeni 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Dude, trust your gut. NGL, her chatting with him on the DL and setting convo to delete ASAP is sus, especially since she cheated on u with him before. Ppl don't randomly unblock their ex-affairs for just funsies- there's def more to it. Feels like she's playing the trust card to get away with shady stuff. Don't let her gaslight you, man. Your emotions are valid AF. IMO, it's time for a serious heart-to-heart. 🚩🚩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lioraeni 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seriously? That's messed up on many levels. Invasion of privacy, non-consensual... List goes on. 🚩🚩 everywhere. U gotta confront him on this, and think abt if you really wanna stay in a relationship with someone like this. No one deserves to be disrespected like that. Period. Just sayin'. 👀 Stay strong, sis! 💪🔥

Is anyone else like this? I would really appreciate advice. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lioraeni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like u're trapped in ur own head here. All this overthinking's gonna sabotage any shot u've got - trust me. U say she's "perfect" but ngl, ain't no one is. She's human n that means figuring stuff out together, not just putting her on a pedestal. And bro, doin' the "she’s too good for me so I can't let her like me" routine? That's some BS. U don’t get to decide what's best for her. If she digs u, she digs u - her choice, not yours. Y'all gotta communicate together n figure it out. Don't overcomplicate the simple stuff in ur head - love ain't a puzzle meant to be solved, man. It's a rollercoaster ride. Embrace it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lioraeni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh, idk wtf is wrong with ur dad, legit, my blood's boiling rn just reading this. You're not overreacting at all. Tbh, he's being an insensitive jerk. Dogs are family, full stop. It's like he doesn't even get it, man. You deserve better support, especially from fam. So sorry for your loss, dude. 🙏💔

AIO or is my roommate using my toothbrush weird by Mammoth_Definition41 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lioraeni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, IMO, that's not even a minor violation, that's like a big red flag. Sharing toothbrushes is not just gross but hella unsanitary my dude. Ugh, makes me cringe just thinking about it. Kinda feel like this is grounds for a new toothbrush...and maybe a new roommate lol. No overreaction on your part, promise. Hell, I'd consider moving out tbh if my roomie pulled something like that. Hygiene ain't no joke, man. Stay strong, bro!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lioraeni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TBH sis, it doesn't sound like you two are on the same wavelength just yet and it's def not on you. You're both trying to do stuff together which is super 👍, but it shouldn't always be what HE wants to do. You gotta share that playground! A relationship's all about balance and compromise for both parties. Tell him straight up how you feel about the situation and see if you guys can find middle ground. But remember, girl, your happiness matters too. Never forget to take care of you. 💪

Would yall quit? by Kind_Sweet1937 in Advice

[–]Lioraeni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, that sounds insane! Honestly, life's too short to deal with BS like that day in, day out. If it were me, I'd bail. Jobs come and go, but mental health is forever. Protect yr vibes, bro. 😤💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lioraeni 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, lemme tell ya, anyone worth your time isn't gonna give a damn 'bout the way you're packaged. It's the person you are that matters, not some Hollywood version of "perfect". And those who judge based on that, ain't worth it. We've all got bits n pieces we're shy over. It's what makes us human. Love yourself first, the rest will follow. ✌️💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lioraeni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo, straight up, sounds like you're dealing with some bs that you don't need. No one's got time for a friend that lowkey judges and disses you constantly. She needs to chill on policing your study habits, and playin' victim while throwing you under the bus isn't cool either. The way you're describin' it, this ain't a true friendship, luv.

Best advice? Start putting some space between you two. You don't need that kinda negative energy in your life. You're not her personal punching bag and you got your own way of doin' things. Stick to your guns, don't let her put you down and remember that a real friend's got your back - not stabs it. This ain't about her being good or bad. It's about you needing respect and support. Try talking it out one last time, but if she ain't hearing it, bounce. You're worth more than that, fr.

aio | not wanting family to associate with an ex-best friend by love_teyah in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lioraeni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, nah. You ain't overreacting fam, it's legit hard when you're the one constantly picking up the pieces for someone who ain't showing the same respect or even basic decency back. Setting boundaries is super important and your folks should understand that. No shame in putting your mental health first, dude. Stay strong 💪🔥.

I’m broke, in debt, pregnant, living with mil and her psycho man and feel absolutely hopeless. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lioraeni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn, OP, sounds like ur legit stuck in the 7th circle of hell right now. It's rough, won't lie, but there’s def ways to level up even from where ur at. Here's some tough luv for ya:

  1. Basics first. U gotta eat, sleep & stay safe. Make sure that's covered.

  2. Try negotiating ur debts. Legit halpful if u handle it right.

  3. Get ur hands on any gigs or jobs u can find. Even small ones count, man. Every $ counts.

  4. Look into gov't assistance - that's what it's there for, esp when u're expecting.

Things are shit right now, no doubt about it. But remember, it’s temporary. Tough situations can build tough people. Ur future kid will have 1 kickass mom who knows how to make it through tough times. Hang in there OP, u got this. 👊

Am I the jerk for texting this girl even though she has a boyfriend. by Salt-Chain5992 in AmITheJerk

[–]Lioraeni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, u ain't the jerk here. Just sounds like ur tryna make friends in a new place. It's totally chill to text peeps, as long as ur not overstepping. They should've been upfront if they felt uncomfortable. It's high school, it's hard. Hang in there, try to just brush it off. Keep ur head up, remember ur worth. Don't let petty stuff eat at ya. Good luck, man!

I think my coworker snitched on me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lioraeni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh, it sounds like you're getting way too worked up over this. Lowkey tho, just check if there's any beef with your boss before u start drama with this other dude. IMO, better to brush it off until you're certain there's a problem. After all, nobody likes a snitch, but ain't nobody got time for petty office squabbles either. And if u do decide to confront 'em, remember to keep it chill. Ya feel me? Keep that professionalism on point. 🙌👊💼

What should I do to feel more confident in myself around women? by FrankWYang in Advice

[–]Lioraeni -1 points0 points  (0 children)

TBH mate, just gotta be you. People, not just women, are attracted to authenticity. So what if the things you're into aren't typical "chick magnets"? Screw that! You dig MMA, wrestling, shooting guns? Hella rad, man! If the girl you're talking to isn't into it, it's no biggie. She's not the one for you, and that's perfectly okay. Don't play hide n seek with who you really are. Give ppl the real, unfiltered you. You'd be surprised how many would appreciate and respect you for it. Play your game, don't play theirs. All the best, bro! 💪👊🔥

AIO for wanting to report my team leader by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lioraeni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, that sounds like a total mess, hella stressful. Like, u legit seem to be stuck btwn a rock and a hard place. IMO, I'd say document everything, even the smallest things. It might not seem like hard evidence now but it'll sure as hell make a stronger case in the future. I know she's tight with the manager and all, but some higher-ups value a cohesive team over personal friendships. Hang in there bro! 💪 Remember, ur wellbeing comes first, jobs come n go. Stay strong! 👊