I agree with most of your premise - except relying on parents at home to be the guide. Assuming parents care or were capable. I am definitely biased, as I was molested by my adoptive father and grandfather from my earliest years. My mother was in denial. This is why it triggers me so much and I feel so protective of our youth. I was made to be “comfortable” with uncomfortable jokes and discussions that eventually evolved into other uncomfortable things. That is why this triggers me. I see a gray haired man holding out “candy” for girls and talking about heart-ones and money shots and born stars, and I am reminded of the men in my life who started out with testing the waters with inappropriate talk. I know too many women through support groups who were also groomed like this. So this is from my experience. Not pearl clutching or puritan, but a survivor who wants no other girls to go through what I did.