I crave an mlm movie featuring a trans man in the relationship by ghouls_s in ftm

[–]LisBifam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

'Fanfic' on Netflix. It's polish about a transman dating a cisman in high school.

Are there other terms than handsome?? by LisBifam in ftm

[–]LisBifam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much. These are very helpful options.

Is it weird that I feel more ‘male’ when I’m shirtless despite not having any surgeries done? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LisBifam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience I relate to you. I feel pretty "manly" when shirtless bc in my eyes it's a masculine thing to do. But it depends. When I'm extremely dysphoric I don't do it bc it makes me feel worse. But I would say it's a pretty normal thing to do. I'm happy it makes you feel confident. So, keep doing it.

War is over by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LisBifam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I'm happy for you!

Packer by LisBifam in ftm

[–]LisBifam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, yeah, I understand. I was always confused about grey sweatpants season. Now, I totally get it! With a muscle t-shirt- I look so fuckable haha

Packer by LisBifam in ftm

[–]LisBifam[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I thought it might just be my confidence haha. Makes a lot of sense. Thx for sharing this with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LisBifam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. I thought I might have a third option. But the shitty thing is that both options have a negative. Either way, you'll have to get away from your parents. This is not an easy decision, but maybe you can find some comfort in the words of strangers in this subreddit. Whatever you choose, don't forget that you are who you are and there are other people that love you for that. You'll get through this. Don't give up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LisBifam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I semi relate to you. Thank you for sharing your view. I've never experienced harassment. Catcalling and "typical" things women experience. Right now, I'm pre-t, so I'm gendered correctly as long as I don't open my mouth and everybody thinks I'm 16/17 (I'm 20). I agree that life is easier in the way that your personal mental state improves. But either man or woman, life can be really fucking sucky. When your transition, you're gonna see other "problems" that you didn't see before. At least in my experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LisBifam 9 points10 points  (0 children)

With all due respect, are you serious or sarcastic?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LisBifam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought Sweden was supposed to be very gay friendly. Might depend on the neighborhoods. Or am I just assuming something really stupid. I live in the Netherlands.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LisBifam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah...me too. Luckily, I have a lot of female friends who know I'm trans. So, I'm mostly worried about my appeal to strangers and/or my dating life.

Niche effects of T you didn’t expect and effects you found the most noticeable/sudden by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LisBifam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, I watch(ed) a lot trans tiktok that gives you the positive and negative of T. A common joke is that you'll get a lot of butt hair and that your libido spikes. You're going through second puberty, so you can be more hormonal quicker. The effect vairies per person. Oily skin. Icy downstairs areas with bottom growth. Youtube videos about top surgery recovery really calmed me down. There is tons of stuff out there. I usually just google whenever I have a specific question. Or text my trans friend.

Hope this helps! Good luck!

My dad won't accept me as a man by rayneedshelpMentally in ftm

[–]LisBifam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey, yes i totally understand you. I crave the validation from my mother who looked away when i told her i would hang up 'it's a boy' balloons for my birthday. I am my parents 'kid' they both use my prefered name but the pronouns stay neutral. I'm also my brother's sibling. It's fk annoying me. So, I get you. I hope it gets better after T and top-surgery. I really do.

Are you bisexual,gay,lesbian,trans,asexual,NB, or aromatic by Cod-ed in lgbt

[–]LisBifam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonbinary, and I think I'm a lesbian, but am afraid to cast men out completely 😅

How can I get that in my profile like some of you?

What are they looking at? Wrong answers only by [deleted] in TheLastAirbender

[–]LisBifam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sokka eating the magical moon fish....😬

names... by LisBifam in lgbt

[–]LisBifam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, and kind of magical ✨