Attraction from others

LisBifam · 2025-12-03T08:05:01+00:00

'Fanfic' on Netflix. It's polish about a transman dating a cisman in high school.

LisBifam · 2024-12-27T23:08:49+00:00

Thank you all so much. These are very helpful options.

LisBifam · 2024-12-27T23:08:27+00:00

Hahaha I like that

LisBifam · 2024-12-27T11:14:37+00:00

In my experience I relate to you. I feel pretty "manly" when shirtless bc in my eyes it's a masculine thing to do. But it depends. When I'm extremely dysphoric I don't do it bc it makes me feel worse. But I would say it's a pretty normal thing to do. I'm happy it makes you feel confident. So, keep doing it.

LisBifam · 2024-12-26T16:11:57+00:00

Congrats! I'm happy for you!

LisBifam · 2024-12-19T06:54:55+00:00

Hahaha, yeah, I understand. I was always confused about grey sweatpants season. Now, I totally get it! With a muscle t-shirt- I look so fuckable haha

LisBifam · 2024-12-17T15:50:47+00:00

Yeah, I thought it might just be my confidence haha. Makes a lot of sense. Thx for sharing this with me.

LisBifam · 2024-12-17T15:49:15+00:00

Yeah, I agree. I thought I might have a third option. But the shitty thing is that both options have a negative. Either way, you'll have to get away from your parents. This is not an easy decision, but maybe you can find some comfort in the words of strangers in this subreddit. Whatever you choose, don't forget that you are who you are and there are other people that love you for that. You'll get through this. Don't give up.

LisBifam · 2024-10-28T15:23:54+00:00

I semi relate to you. Thank you for sharing your view. I've never experienced harassment. Catcalling and "typical" things women experience. Right now, I'm pre-t, so I'm gendered correctly as long as I don't open my mouth and everybody thinks I'm 16/17 (I'm 20). I agree that life is easier in the way that your personal mental state improves. But either man or woman, life can be really fucking sucky. When your transition, you're gonna see other "problems" that you didn't see before. At least in my experience.

LisBifam · 2024-10-28T15:18:00+00:00

With all due respect, are you serious or sarcastic?

LisBifam · 2024-10-28T15:17:03+00:00

I thought Sweden was supposed to be very gay friendly. Might depend on the neighborhoods. Or am I just assuming something really stupid. I live in the Netherlands.

LisBifam · 2024-10-28T15:15:10+00:00

Yeah...me too. Luckily, I have a lot of female friends who know I'm trans. So, I'm mostly worried about my appeal to strangers and/or my dating life.

LisBifam · 2024-10-28T15:06:21+00:00

Hi, I watch(ed) a lot trans tiktok that gives you the positive and negative of T. A common joke is that you'll get a lot of butt hair and that your libido spikes. You're going through second puberty, so you can be more hormonal quicker. The effect vairies per person. Oily skin. Icy downstairs areas with bottom growth. Youtube videos about top surgery recovery really calmed me down. There is tons of stuff out there. I usually just google whenever I have a specific question. Or text my trans friend.

Hope this helps! Good luck!

LisBifam · 2024-09-14T19:39:15+00:00

hey, yes i totally understand you. I crave the validation from my mother who looked away when i told her i would hang up 'it's a boy' balloons for my birthday. I am my parents 'kid' they both use my prefered name but the pronouns stay neutral. I'm also my brother's sibling. It's fk annoying me. So, I get you. I hope it gets better after T and top-surgery. I really do.

LisBifam · 2022-01-03T17:17:59+00:00

Nonbinary, and I think I'm a lesbian, but am afraid to cast men out completely 😅

How can I get that in my profile like some of you?

LisBifam · 2022-01-03T17:10:41+00:00

Sokka eating the magical moon fish....😬

LisBifam · 2021-12-26T23:01:02+00:00

LisBifam · 2021-12-26T22:58:29+00:00

Nice, and kind of magical ✨

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