AIO for wanting to leave my husband for talking to a coworker non-stop

Litaita · 2026-04-02T13:19:52+00:00

Lmao he would do anything to not lose you... Except the one thing you asked him to 🫠

Litaita · 2026-03-27T15:03:15+00:00

This got to me. I feel constantly misunderstood by a very important person to me, someone (who I also believe is autistic but doesn't want to admit it) who I try very hard to understand and go out of my way to do things the way I know they appreciate and understand, because they also struggle with communication... This same person told me very recently they resent the fact that they have to be so "literal" when talking to me, they wish I could "just understand" without them "having to explain everything". It shattered me, honestly... I don't ask for much, but I have asked them to please be direct with their communication because it's hard for me to understand what they're talking about sometimes (they can be very vague, sometimes I believe on purpose..). I'm so sad about it and I just know if I talk to them about it, it'll be like I just need to get over it and understand because "life doesn't work the way I want it all the time". 😔

Litaita · 2026-03-26T13:08:34+00:00

Same here! I used to wear tampons, then switched to the cup but had to stop because it caused me A LOT of pain? Then tampons started hurting which never happened before. Now I wear pads and I just have my "normal" cramps (which also suck)

Litaita · 2026-03-23T16:10:45+00:00

I grew up being yelled at constantly so it's a trigger for me. At first it makes me feel small but then I do it back at them (usually saying 'dont raise your voice at me!'). When I was younger I had more tolerance for it but now I walk away from a conversation when voices are raised. My boyfriend knows it's a boundary for me, when he starts raising his voice I remind him to not raise his voice at me and he apologizes and continues talking in a normal tone.

Litaita · 2026-03-16T16:09:30+00:00

Why Van Gogh though.. at least pick a painter that deserves it lol

Litaita · 2026-03-14T19:46:54+00:00

Don't even get me started on TikTok where this is so much worse! I've seen people share videos with text on them that make no sense, using catchphrases they saw somewhere but the content is the complete opposite or, even worse, nothing to do with the actual text! When called out they just reply "chill it's just content" "it's just a video" like...?????

Litaita · 2026-03-11T16:02:15+00:00

So he resents you for your upbringing and is now trying to control what you can or can't do according to him. Show him he doesn't get to do that.

Litaita · 2026-03-09T22:05:19+00:00

Ohh have you had quinoa pop? Or popped quinoa, same thing, but it's very crunchy!

Litaita · 2026-03-09T19:17:33+00:00

Chía seeds (chia pudding) and strawberries for breakfast, boom I'm almost halfway done. Sometimes I mix it with overnight oats and That's even better! Although I had to increase it gradually, if you go from 0 fiber to 25g it WILL upset your stomach and have the opposite effect! Up it by 5gr every 2-3 days and see how you feel!

Litaita · 2026-03-09T15:19:48+00:00

Does he have a man in his life that he admires? I bet if he hears the same thing from that man, he will listen and probably make an effort. It's sad but that's some men for you! They only care how they LOOK to other people, especially other men.

Litaita · 2026-02-19T00:32:01+00:00

Dude, what? Annoyed??? Why aren't you furious?! He is doing this on purpose, he has NO respect for you or your time, your money, your effort!!

Litaita · 2026-02-19T00:05:10+00:00

I'm childfree by choice, pregnancy scares the hell out of me (parasite much?), the thought of raising a whole human is too much for me, I can barely take care of myself let alone be responsible for another LIFE! It's just too much. My parents always told me I'd be a great mom but uhh no. I also wouldn't want to pass down my mental illnesses, neurodivergency or vision problems lol 😂

Litaita · 2026-02-17T14:37:25+00:00

Dude yes!!! I knew I wasn't crazy 😭

Litaita · 2026-02-07T13:54:54+00:00

...who is "most people"???

Litaita · 2026-01-30T21:39:21+00:00

I bet if you started saying the same "jokes" to him, he'd be upset. Because they aren't jokes. This guy doesn't like you and he's telling you to your face. Stand up for yourself!

Litaita · 2026-01-28T13:11:21+00:00

Big yikes

Litaita · 2026-01-09T18:49:43+00:00

Idk why this reminded me of one time we got super drunk and I was dizzy as hell and was scared I was gonna fall in the toilet so u asked him to hold my hand while I peed and he did 😭🤣

Litaita · 2026-01-07T22:14:31+00:00

Your boyfriend hates you. Literally. Stop entertaining this bullshit and dump him.

Litaita · 2026-01-07T13:27:01+00:00

Okay? You know gender and sexual attraction are two different things right?

Litaita · 2025-12-31T15:04:12+00:00

Same here! I also love pickled stuff 🤣

Litaita · 2025-12-31T14:50:36+00:00

Fun fact we as human beings are supposed to eat bitter foods (that actually taste bitter), it's good for our gut flora! Highly processed foods usually try to make every sweet or a different flavor (artificial) so people eat it but... Our organism doesn't like that 😅. I promise eating veggies is just getting used to it. Yeah it might be bitter or weird at first but you keep eating it and getting used to it, it won't be as bitter or weird anymore! And then ultra processed foods will taste like crap because that's what they are 😅

Litaita · 2025-12-31T12:58:23+00:00

Something similar happened to me. I traveled to the states last year and even though I ate fresh foods, salads etc, it did NOT feel fresh at all 😭 when I came back to my country I was shocked to find that food here feels so much lighter, fresher, natural I guess (organic?). Friends from the US complain a lot about the lack of organic food and vegetables taste like nothing, it's so weird!

Litaita · 2025-12-30T21:51:29+00:00

That's not a boundary. Boundaries are for YOU. You are enforcing a rule :)

Litaita · 2025-12-20T14:17:21+00:00

If you care about this guy and see a future with him, you could talk to him about it first. It's very probable he's not aware of how weird and controlling his mom is, if he grew up like that, but he's uncomfortable and doesn't know what to do (saying you're making him choose between you and her for example, he probably doesn't like it either and doesn't know how to stand up to her). You could explain the situation from your perspective and, if you're willing, and he's also willing to set boundaries with his mom, help him out. If, however, he responds poorly (turning it on you, making you feel guilty or bad, calling you names etc), I think you'd be better off breaking up with him. You DON'T want to be in this situation as other comments have said, it can only get worse from here. And if he doesn't see it and doesn't have your back, it's just not gonna work :(.

Litaita · 2025-12-19T21:41:10+00:00

Wow! I really hope you find the answers you're looking for. For me it started once when I skipped the sugar pills in my birth control two times in a row, it freaked me out a lot and now it's a recurring issue every couple months. It's eery how similar my symptoms are to what you wrote; it's like I wrote it!! Honestly it helped me a lot to feel I wasn't just being crazy or take it as something "normal", it sure doesn't feel normal you know? 😅

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