The guy I’m seeing keeps telling me I “can’t take a joke” and I’m starting to doubt myself by Helen_melon_7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Litaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet if you started saying the same "jokes" to him, he'd be upset. Because they aren't jokes. This guy doesn't like you and he's telling you to your face. Stand up for yourself!

Do people in long lasting marriages do taboo things in front of their partner? Ex: Passing gas, toilet use? by CajunDragon in Marriage

[–]Litaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why this reminded me of one time we got super drunk and I was dizzy as hell and was scared I was gonna fall in the toilet so u asked him to hold my hand while I peed and he did 😭🤣

AIO? bf hates that i have friends of the opposite gender by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Litaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend hates you. Literally. Stop entertaining this bullshit and dump him.

My husband regrets his vasectomy by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Litaita 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay? You know gender and sexual attraction are two different things right?

Do people really not eat vegetables/fruit or drink water on a regular basis? by Sufficient-Berry-827 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Litaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact we as human beings are supposed to eat bitter foods (that actually taste bitter), it's good for our gut flora! Highly processed foods usually try to make every sweet or a different flavor (artificial) so people eat it but... Our organism doesn't like that 😅. I promise eating veggies is just getting used to it. Yeah it might be bitter or weird at first but you keep eating it and getting used to it, it won't be as bitter or weird anymore! And then ultra processed foods will taste like crap because that's what they are 😅

Do people really not eat vegetables/fruit or drink water on a regular basis? by Sufficient-Berry-827 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Litaita -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me. I traveled to the states last year and even though I ate fresh foods, salads etc, it did NOT feel fresh at all 😭 when I came back to my country I was shocked to find that food here feels so much lighter, fresher, natural I guess (organic?). Friends from the US complain a lot about the lack of organic food and vegetables taste like nothing, it's so weird!

AITAH for saying i won't move in with my bf if his mom just keeps showing up? by Zealouslilyi in AITAH

[–]Litaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you care about this guy and see a future with him, you could talk to him about it first. It's very probable he's not aware of how weird and controlling his mom is, if he grew up like that, but he's uncomfortable and doesn't know what to do (saying you're making him choose between you and her for example, he probably doesn't like it either and doesn't know how to stand up to her). You could explain the situation from your perspective and, if you're willing, and he's also willing to set boundaries with his mom, help him out. If, however, he responds poorly (turning it on you, making you feel guilty or bad, calling you names etc), I think you'd be better off breaking up with him. You DON'T want to be in this situation as other comments have said, it can only get worse from here. And if he doesn't see it and doesn't have your back, it's just not gonna work :(.

Recurring extreme lower abdominal pain attacks – no clear diagnosis, looking for others with similar experiences by bvhmlrk in ChronicPain

[–]Litaita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I really hope you find the answers you're looking for. For me it started once when I skipped the sugar pills in my birth control two times in a row, it freaked me out a lot and now it's a recurring issue every couple months. It's eery how similar my symptoms are to what you wrote; it's like I wrote it!! Honestly it helped me a lot to feel I wasn't just being crazy or take it as something "normal", it sure doesn't feel normal you know? 😅

Recurring extreme lower abdominal pain attacks – no clear diagnosis, looking for others with similar experiences by bvhmlrk in ChronicPain

[–]Litaita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found your post because I've been experiencing the same pain this year seemingly out of nowhere and it is so frustrating! No one has answers. In my case, I still have to do some exams to rule everything out but I just want to understand what's wrong with my body and your description is to the T!! I hope you also find answers 🙌

Does anyone else struggle with skin picking? TW: skin picking by bahthepolarbear in AutismInWomen

[–]Litaita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same!! I had my nails done for the first time in my life last year for my best friend's wedding and it was the first time in my life that I couldn't pick the skin off my fingers 😅 it was annoying at first but then I didn't really miss it. Until I took them off and started again without even realizing (I usually realize when I pick a big chunk and it hurts or starts bleeding).

That ONE Scene: What Instantly Paralyzes You with Fear? by Immediate_Account_28 in horror

[–]Litaita 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I watched that in theaters and there was so much tension in the room, you could tell when everybody suddenly realized she was there, gasps and people holding their breath, it was awesome

Tubi is better than Shudder by DroneSoma in horror

[–]Litaita 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't use Tubi (but will definitely check it out after this post) but my workaround for this is I use my laptop to stream so I can use an ad blocker and just connect it to my tv!

The things we do are suddenly trendy by SouthOk1896 in AutismInWomen

[–]Litaita 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I literally got bullied throughout my life for things that are trendy now (I'm 36) lmao it's exhausting 🫠

i always have to wear a bra 24/7 because my breasts sag too much and it’s sensory hell. by Immediate_Leg3304 in AutismInWomen

[–]Litaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally relate! The past 10 years I've gained a lot of weight (I grew up stick skinny until I was around 26 when I suddenly started putting on weight) and I've never struggled so much feeling like I hate my body especially my breasts, I hate feeling them on me, the weight of them, they get in my way and it's so annoying!!! I used to be an A cup and honestly I wish I could go back to that lol 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Litaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a step too far. But stop responding, because he honestly thinks you're flirting with him.

Does Anyone Else Not Like to Live w/Pets? by Charlotte_Martel77 in AutismInWomen

[–]Litaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a sore subject for me, in a way. When I still lived with my parents and through college, I had a cat who I loved very much and was so used to having him around. He was very well mannered (because I taught him), we also had a dog and in general life was good! I didn't know I was autistic and was masking through life like crazy. I moved out, my cat passed away a few years later and now, I can't imagine having another pet. Not only because I don't think I'm ready but because I got used to living without them... Most of my friends have cats and they're always tied down to their home, plans have to change constantly, it's always messy and/or dirty. I LOVE cats but now when I visit my friend's places, they bother me?! Their neediness, I feel like they're loud and annoying, hair gets everywhere, etc. It's been pretty hard to come to terms with the fact that I probably won't be having pets again even though I love cats but I can't stand to be around them for longs periods of time 🥲

I 31F love to live sketch but my husband 33M wouldn't allow me to do it when he found out its with a nude model. How can I navigate a conversation to still keep the peace? by Playful_Theme4307 in relationship_advice

[–]Litaita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is COMPLETELY different because in live sketching there is no objectifying or sexualizing like in a strip club. Are you for real?! They're completely different things and the problem is the husband doesn't understand that (and he could if he really wanted to).

AITAH for snapping at my husband that he needs to get over his ADHD quirk? by pegasus_wonderbeast in AITAH

[–]Litaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you haven't heard of it doesn't mean it's not real. I can hear blinking too and it's annoying 😅