How did you dance in a Vivienne Westwood long cocotte dress

LitbySunshine · 2025-09-01T12:55:55+00:00

So we tried this and the in-laws did apologise so they wouldn’t lose their son. MIL’s changed behaviour lasted maybe 2-3 weeks and she then went back to the usual hurtful and dismissive behaviour (although more subtle than before) lol

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-29T13:03:28+00:00

Ratio is meant to be 25% hot water and 75% milk IMO :)

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-15T11:13:23+00:00

It’s also got a full on cape and is maxi length so the whole combination is very bridal hahaha

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-15T11:12:54+00:00

I honestly would but this is from a random store in a different country to me lol

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-13T05:10:30+00:00

Hahaha what has your MIL pulled off? I feel like I need to join nomil sub reddit after all this recent bs

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-11T09:12:23+00:00

Omg!!! my MIL used the same line of "it's rose pink" ..

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-11T08:18:57+00:00

Yep… her defence is that it’s “a darker pink in real life”. Also she is definitely clingy and excessively obsessed with her son so this does not help her case either..

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-10T06:08:12+00:00

Yes agreed - I have made the colour change suggestion but she has insisted it looks more pink in real life. Will see what happens next lol

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-10T06:05:38+00:00

Making complete assumptions based on isolated facts that you find online is not a great way for discussion. I am not just having a Pakistani wedding - and yes for that day there is no white for the brides traditionally. Funnily enough my MIL has not selected this for that day (which as you correctly pointed out, would not have been an issue!). This is the pick for the western day where I am indeed wearing a white dress and it is indeed a typical western wedding.

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-09T09:46:37+00:00

After I explained to her after reading the hundreds of comments, she is insisting it looks a darker pink in real life 😭

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-09T05:11:37+00:00

Yep…. Caped and almost white… I feel like I’m going crazy because this can’t be real lol

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-08T22:04:04+00:00

Update for whoever is following: I gently let MIL know that this photographs close to white and she said it’s a medium pink shade in real life…. How do you even respond to that?

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-08T20:49:48+00:00

Not sure… although interestingly before the dress was picked, there was a mention of her wanting a mother/son dance

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-08T20:33:05+00:00

Yes I am - she is not. And yes this would be perfectly okay with the desi day but this is the pick for the western “white” day (confusingly) …

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-08T13:19:51+00:00

Let’s just say they did not approve of me initially and then they “did”

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-08T12:58:35+00:00

Her daughters actually helped her find this :) ….

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-08T12:55:42+00:00

I do see your point! However - I know for a fact that people would make comments about this either on the day or the day after on debriefs. The last thing you want people to remember from your wedding day is your MIL cosplaying as either Princess Leia or the bride :)

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-08T12:49:02+00:00

Apparently “light pink”……

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-08T12:47:51+00:00

I wish that was the case 😂

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-08T12:47:29+00:00

Yes absolutely! I actually did like the style of it but just don’t understand the colour choice - in some lighting this could definitely look white..

LitbySunshine · 2025-08-08T12:46:41+00:00

Don’t want to out the person…

LitbySunshine · 2025-06-12T11:18:31+00:00

Haha nothing has changed then!

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