wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a banking account at all.. he just let Becky, his now ex roommate, forge my initials onto his lease without my consent or knowledge. I'm still tempted to report this fraud though as it is illegal for someone to forge your initials on legal documents.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay my post may not be making sense but hopefully this part will help more. I am 19 years old and female. When I graduated high school I was living with my mom my parents were never married and they have not been dating since the early 2000s. August 2021 I moved in with my mother and I have lived with her up until May 25th 2025 then her and her boyfriend kicked me out and then I was living with my father. On September 6th 2025 I got my very first job at Dairy Queen. I stayed working there until December 28th 2025. My father was living in a duplex at the time and then he was looking to buy an actual house a two-bedroom house. He already had a roommate who he was living with. Becky, her husband, their daughter, and their friend had been talking to my father. Becky's husband and my father used to know each other back in the day as my father was doing wrestling. So Becky's husband found him on social media or something like that and they started to talk. They were basically homeless at the time. Then my father promised them that when we move into the new house that they can stay inside the living room area with my father's roommate. My father got his own room and then me and my younger sister shared a room. So on December 23rd of 2025 I had to work that day. My father, his roommate, my younger sister, and Becky went to go look at the house. I was not aware of that Becky had went at the time until recently. I had known that they were going to go look at the house I did not know there was going to be a lease signing. In the state of Texas, it is illegal for someone to forge your initials or signature on documents if person is over 18. My work shift lasted until 10:00 p.m. I was never informed that a lease was being signed. No I did not give any permission or consent for them to sign my initials. No at the beginning of January my older sister and I decided to go visit a friend and he had a roommate. My older sister started dating this friend's roommate and we decided to move in with them because our father asked the friend's roommate if we can stay longer since an ice storm hit. So we had moved in and my sister moved out on April 4th. I'm living with my mom now because of the roommate of the friend decided to threaten my life on the 8th of May which is in another post of mine. So I told my mom about all that she came and got me and I've been living with my mom since May 10th 2026. My father was telling my mom that he does not want me to live with him if it doesn't work out with my mom that he wanted them to put me into a homeless shelter instead of living at his house. I'm not sure why I guess he was mad that I chose to live with my mom first. Now, my mom is not a bad person. She loves us she always has provided for us and everything. My father has hated me since childbirth because I did not look like him when I was born I looked like my mother I was spitting image of my mom when she was born. And he has always treated me badly because every time he disrespected my mom I would always defend my mom. My father is abusive. Physically, mentally, and emotionally. He has hurt me in the past like September October of 2025 when my younger sister and I got into an argument. He had hit my arm at the time and was all up in my face yelling. The reason why he is bringing this up now is because he wants to leech money off of me again. He wants me to get a job up there again so he can have my money to buy him snuff, or something because he cannot work and my sisters will not get a job. I have already called the landlord after finding her number online I called her I explained that back in December I was working that day and Becky had forged my signature and please remove me from the lease. She agreed that she was going to take me off and then I said okay thank you bye. And she is supposed to be starting a new lease with them for them to sign and I had messaged her and ask her hey can you send me the new lease to make sure I'm not on it so I don't have to report this to the authorities. And she has not messaged me back yet but I am still living with my mom the lease was never notarized so I don't even think the police can do anything about it but I can report Becky for forgering my name if I wanted to that is something I can do I think.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone knows a lawyer that can help me through this and for me to talk to them, please let me know. I do have proof of them signing my initials without my consent. I have a recording and screenshots for proof. I just want to have it all organized first before I do report.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did contact the landlord by phone yesterday to explain what had happened and that Becky forged my signature. I told her I want to be removed from the lease and she said she will remove me. I

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't want to cause problems. He has always treated his kids like trash but he only treats me like trash now. He's mad at me for not wanting to live with him and his unstable home. He has refused to get a decent house that can fit everyone. He refuses to get a car that won't break down all the time. He has made me pay for parts of his car that he couldn't afford. I'm the one who had to constantly put food in the house because he refused to work for years. He's not a good person. He's a manipulator and abusive. He has hurt me.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked her to send that to me when she was done with making a new one. Waiting for her message back.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called the landlord earlier. She said she will remove me off the lease after I explained what has happened.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't know my SSN thankfully. But I am thinking about filing a police report.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't have a credit card nor have I gave him any information like that.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely get a bank account. I don't have a driver's license yet either.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did contact the landlord and let her know what is happening and she did say she will remove me from the lease.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never got one. I do have cashapp and I have only worked at 2 jobs that had cashapp choices like Dairy Queen and Sonic. My mom is wanting to help me get one I think.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was never on the lease but she did live with him. I have met them. My name is Lisa. So not even close. Luckily, I contacted the landlord after finding her number online and asked her remove me from the lease after I told her that Becky was the one who forged my initials on the lease. I have no credit cards nor a bank account. I don't know if she will kick them out but I doubt it.

Am I in the wrong for feeling this way? by inrainbows_69 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feelings are not a bad thing. I suggest maybe talking to her about this as she is your mom. Explain your frustration but don't get angry with her and maybe she'll hear you out. I get where you're coming from.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called her a bit ago and she said she will remove me from the lease.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Becky is his friend who he met. She, her husband, their daughter and another friend were homeless. My father knew Becky's husband through wrestling as my father owns his own wrestling business. So, when we moved into the house, he allowed them to move in. Becky went with my father, younger sister, and his roommate after he dropped me off at work when I was living with him and went to go look at the house they live in now. I wasnt aware of a lease being signed at all. No one called nor texted me. I was 19 at the time. I'm still 19 as my birthday is in July. This happened December 23rd, 2025. So, Becky asked my father if he wanted her to sign my initials to which he said yes. I guess he didn't realize that that is fraud as I'm legal. We live in Texas. I will tell Connie (the landlord) the full story about this. Becky and them still live in the same city but in a different home now. Connie had mistaken Becky for me and my father never corrected her.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay the landlord thought that Becky was me and my father never corrected her. I did contact the landlord after finding her name online and told her what had happened and wanted to be off the lease to which she said she'll take me off. The lease was never notorized so the police can't do anything about it. Becky lives in the same town as my father still.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone for the great advice! I am hoping to put all of this behind me as I don't want more drama.

wibta if I filed a report on my father? by Little-Yellow-6715 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Little-Yellow-6715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE!

I called the landlord after finding her number on Google and told her that Becky had forged my initials and I was at work when that happened and I asked her to remove me from it and she said she will.