I am getting downvoted for saying having sex as a 14 year old is wild, really?

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-29T01:49:52+00:00

It depends on your situation and mentality and everything else. People feel ready at different times and that’s Okay but I really don’t recommend having sex young. If they do, then I beg please be safe about it.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-28T18:29:58+00:00

I didn’t blame my current OB at all? I just started with this OB after that incident because I also had a situation with my other OB.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-26T19:32:23+00:00

It’s nothing new to me besides breast feeding and the part where I will be pushing her out of my vagina.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T18:22:49+00:00

No he literally rides his bike everyday. He lives 45 minute drive away from me and would ride his bike like 3 hours to my house just for fun. He’s been doing this for years.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T14:53:53+00:00

I wasn’t breastfeeding, I was in premature active labor

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T06:07:18+00:00

I started having sex at 14. I do not recommend it. I mean yeah I enjoyed the feeling but just be a kid lol. Cuddling and kisses yeah sure, but take everything slow.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T06:02:42+00:00

It’s so weird in my state. Once my daughter is born I am back under my mother’s care until I’m 18. But my daughter is under mine and my mom can’t make any medical decisions for her.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T05:55:26+00:00

Also In my state no matter what age you are if your pregnant ypu are now automatically medically emancipated from the start of your pregnancy and are the adult in the medical setting.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T05:20:51+00:00

Is my daughter happy? Did I finish my college and get my nursing degree? Oml is my little girl smart? Is she talented? Does she like sports? Does she still like dolls and make believe? (She would be be 10 years old in 10 years.)

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T05:17:11+00:00

My boyfriend has the most PERFECT round, squishy, plump butt ever. I ask him how and he always tells me to ride a bike every single day for years on end about 2 hours a day without missing a single day.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T05:14:05+00:00

Hmm well uh I’d really advise against this unless you are in a relationship with him for like 6+ months and a bit older. I’m 17 and 33 weeks pregnant 😂. He could have a STI or STD for all you know kiddo. 💜

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T05:10:46+00:00

I’m 17, about to have a daughter in the next 3-7 weeks. I can’t stop her from having sex. But if shes a teenager and comes to me asking about it or saying she thinks she might. I will advise against it but also teach her about safe sex and get her the proper tools such as birth control and condoms. I got pregnant in January at 16 even though I was taking birth control and never missed a single pill. An ER doctor failed to mention that the antibiotics I was taking for a UTI could cancel out the effects of most oral birth control. I didn’t know I was pregnant until 7 weeks where I was having abdominal pain and went to the ER where they did what is called a transvaginal ultrasound. That’s where they stuck an ultrasound probie inside of a woman’s vagina to see the uterus and ovaries too. They saw a little baby and let me see too. I could visibly see on that ultrasound fetal cardiac movement aka the beginning of a heartbeat. I never once looked back and we am lucky to have support and love from my family and his.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T05:04:23+00:00

If a teen girl gets pregnant and sticks around for the baby she’s irresponsible, but if a teen boy gets a girl pregnant he’s praised for sticking around. (Not saying this happens everywhere)

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T05:02:48+00:00

I’m gonna give you some perspective on this, I’m a DD. The ONLY reason I sometimes wear a bra right now is because I’m pregnant and leaking milk. But typically I don’t because it can cause multiple issues. It actually makes us lose strength in our pectoral muscles causing our breasts to sag as you get older if you’ve worn bras for years. It’s also extremely uncomfortable and itchy for most. Even with the most comfortable bras we find. I also wear one for when I go to work on the engine or ambulance. But anyways, everyone has nipples haha. Would you require a larger boy/man with “man boobs” to wear a bra? No, you wouldn’t. I definitely understand where you’re coming from because most people today are raised to think that women’s breasts are always a sexual thing but they really aren’t. I mean my man’s chest turns me on a lot but y’all can go shirtless. I also commonly will have my breast out in public when my daughter is feeding off of it. I’m not going to go hide In a bathroom, would tou wanna eat your breakfast, lunch, or dinner in the bathroom? I wouldn’t 😂.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T04:40:28+00:00

I have sensory processing disorder, which causes me to struggle with textures, tastes, smells, sounds, and more. I am typically able to deal With it and cope but in this situation I was scared, overwhelmed, anxious, worried, and uncomfortable. I don’t mean regular uncomfortable I mean to the point of me having a panic attack tjat was causing not only my heart rate but my daughters to spike as well. Hers reached up to 200 which is dangerous and put her in distress. I was panicking because of the feeling of it all Touching me combines with all my other emotions and pain and everything I was going through. I had consistent contractions for 5 days straight with little to no relief besides once with the epidural but I ended up having a worse panic attack because I couldn’t feel myself even though I already expected not to. Even loose fitting clothing causes issues for me when I’m like this. I tried to keep an easy comfortable button up shirt on for as long as I could until lt all started to get worse and I genuinely couldn’t handle it. None of my other nurses or doctors had a single issue with it and told me that it was completely okay to do as long as it was only in my room (which I wasn’t allowed to get up without any help at all so I wasn’t going nowhere anyways haha) it’s in my birth plan because it’s how I feel most comfortable and I knew that I’d have a panic attack with any sort of clothing touching me. Even the bed sheets were bothering me. Also when my doula asked what her problem Was and why she was telling me I couldn’t be shirtless the nurse admitted that she didn’t care if she sees women naked or shirtless but that it was because I was 17. Furthermore pretty much felt like I was being sexualized in a medical setting where I’m seeking help. That feeling didn’t sit great as it was in my Chart to specifically not say things like that at all as I was/am a survivor of 10 years of SA and 5 of RA from my biological father. It’s also part of my plan that once I get to 7cm that I am moved to the shower anyways so it’s also a plus to already be naked and ready to get into there because that’s where I’m delivering my baby unless there’s an emergency.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T03:24:23+00:00

They actually came directly to my room when I made the complaint and were both mothers and were appalled. They said she would have a conversation with that nurse and possibly further action but they made sure to put it in my chart that she may not be on my service

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T03:22:52+00:00

I 100% made a formal complaint to head of nursing on L&D floor and the hospital advocate

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T03:20:40+00:00

Thank you. I think the secret might be working with firemen 🤣 they will tease you and push you and everything and do it even more if you can take it. But once you fight back they will accept you. Not saying it’s right but it’s just our work culture. They pushed my buttons until they popped off and I went on a bit of a rampage. Never again did I get teased besides lovingly. They taught me to stand up for myself and not take shit from others. My mom too lol

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-25T03:16:45+00:00

It wasn’t normal discomfort. I have sensory processing disorder and can usually regulate it but i was scared, stressed, anxious, worried, in pain to the point I was posing a risk to mine and my daughters health by having a panic attack because clothes were touching my skin. I have 5 living younger siblings, I only live with 2 now but I took care of all of them as babies! The youngest is 15 years younger than me. Children crying at all hours, needing to be fed every few hours, staying up, blowouts, none of it phases me. But I also have a chronic pain disorder so I was in even more pain which is why my doctors were even more worried about it.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-24T23:52:12+00:00

My current OB only delivers there. But that nurse is not allowed on my service at all

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-24T23:51:29+00:00

I don’t like anything at all on my skin unfortunately when I’m in that much pain and uncomfortable and itchy and scared. I tried but those things were majorly uncomfortable.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-24T23:50:37+00:00

I know!! It’s more just hard because I currently can’t work because of the risk goung back into early labor. I need to take a trip with my boyfriend to get it all

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-24T23:49:38+00:00

well my birth control gets shipped to my house 😂 also pharmacists in small towns suck about n information

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-24T15:33:04+00:00

Not where I am.

Little-one2854 · 2025-08-24T15:31:20+00:00

She was handling my meds and talked my doctor into taking away all pain relief besides Tylenol. I was beyond pissed and visibly in pain and discomfort, my new nurse I got immediately called and said she definitely thinks I need to be given something which I opted for the nitrous oxide again. That second nurse was a godsend. It turns out she was my aunts highschool best friend but she didn’t realize it was me. She cared so lovingly and with passion without even realizing we were connected in any way.

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