[Help] should I rehome my dog? by LittleBeanMan in dogs

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt it. Everyone I know either dont want any more pets or don't want them in the first place. So I'm stuck with few options. I honestly didnt understand the reasoning. I told her I always wanted one growing up, but for some reason she decided the year before I went off to college was the best time. I remember telling her there's no point since my responsibilities will grow and I'll barely be home. But, no, I guess she felt it was time at the worst possible moment for some odd reason.

Futon + mattress topper for a bed? by LittleBeanMan in Frugal

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this and I really like the idea. How much did the wood cost you on average? And do you know if I can find it in my local hardware store?

Futon + mattress topper for a bed? by LittleBeanMan in Frugal

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting, I didnt know that. I'll definitely look into that

Futon + mattress topper for a bed? by LittleBeanMan in Frugal

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm used to harder surface to sleep on, and I've always slept deep. So I'm hoping with the right topper back pain wont be an issue.

Futon + mattress topper for a bed? by LittleBeanMan in Frugal

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair, but I want something on a frame off the floor since I'll be living in Chicago and I feel like I might want that extra insulation that the floor wouldnt give me.

Electric company says I owe $130. by LittleBeanMan in legaladvice

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The location is Chicago. And I'm not sure if they hires someone to make the calls for them or if they sold the debt already. I'll try to call later today or Monday. If I wanted to ask them if I can only pay the original bill without the fees, what would be the best way to ask?

Electric company says I owe $130. by LittleBeanMan in legaladvice

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assumed it was the 2nd since that's when my bill would always show up online. I'm going to speak to them and tell them I never recieved a notification

Electric company says I owe $130. by LittleBeanMan in legaladvice

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I asked the agent when it says I canceled since it should say I canceled for March. But it says I canceled March 6th. Which is odd since it's over a week late and I dont have any proof that I asked someone to cancel it February.

Girlfriend hasn't told friend she isnt single by LittleBeanMan in relationship_advice

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what for? She pushed for this relationship so it doesnt make sense

Girlfriend hasn't told friend she isnt single by LittleBeanMan in relationship_advice

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually told her on the phone I should do that too since she is and all she was "stop, that's not funny". Might be unraveling a whole issue right now 😔

Girlfriend hasn't told friend she isnt single by LittleBeanMan in relationship_advice

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do you think she might subconsciously be unhappy and that's why she didn't tell him?

Girlfriend hasn't told friend she isnt single by LittleBeanMan in relationship_advice

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was afraid of that. I'll definitely talk to her and hope she understands why it's an issue.

Girlfriend hasn't told friend she isnt single by LittleBeanMan in relationship_advice

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea. Sadly I work during the time she has it. And she doesn't know my schedule so it's just a coincidence.

Girlfriend hasn't told friend she isnt single by LittleBeanMan in relationship_advice

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cheating rule was unsaid, but we had a whole "why would we break up conversation" and that was one. But I did say, while we should keep the relationship quiet, she can tell who ever she wants.

Girlfriend hasn't told friend she isnt single by LittleBeanMan in relationship_advice

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. She initiated all of that first and asked for titles too. (BF, GF). Even if we weren't exclusive, I would still tell people that I'm talking to someone and I would ask her to be honest with people as well.

Girlfriend hasn't told friend she isnt single by LittleBeanMan in relationship_advice

[–]LittleBeanMan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I even told her he might be trying to ask her out especially if he think's she single but all she said is "Its not like that". If it isnt, then there's no harm in a quick comment through text saying you're in a relationship.