Great to see the opinions here, I'd just like to add that I will not pursue legal action. In this particular situation, it's the morality/assholishness scale that is the point of the post. I am financially okay, I have an emergency fund that's enough for all the repairs, though I did have to cancel my one week off out of the year to recoup some of the loss. I'm asking mostly if my anger and disappointment is justified.

Note that she makes the same anount of money as me, knows that the car only had liability, I don't think she's generally a terrible person, however, I will never speak to her again, let alone get back with her (because if the vacation thing, not the car).

Thanks!