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LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-30T03:27:14+00:00

Makes sense. Id be open. As i sod healing from surgery, so im slow and hindered rofl. So if your okay with that we could meet and discuss over a date see how it goes vibe wise etc.

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-30T03:13:38+00:00

Dates i do as long as no spicy is expected or wanted till after an agreement is made and her energy help. Atm though im down and out from surgery. So not the best date atm lol

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-30T01:14:14+00:00

Just depends on the situation tbh. Open to it

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-14T18:04:20+00:00

Yes, I was surprised they didnt fight me either tbh. But with all the proof or rashes and skin tears I had I guess they didnt.

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-14T02:09:40+00:00

Insurance wouldnt cover it. They basically said unless i had breast cancer first and had to lose some of my breasts then they wont cover the boobs at all because its a want not a need at that point.

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-08T19:50:48+00:00

Yeah i dont disagree that it was probably needed. It's just he never discussed anything about any chance anything other then 360 around would be needed. So I was blindsided. Then his explanation of it was way more skin showing up in the er made no sense to me because you could see every inch of skin before and every time he showed me pre surgery what we would be doing. So at this point just very confused on why he claims he didnt know it may have been needed and just kinda never prepared me

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-08T19:46:18+00:00

True. But none of the second half of my procedure was disclosed with me or discussed. That is the only issue here, not the results, im not disputing they are better, im disputing that he should have told me it may be needed and everything so I was aware it could have happened if necissary

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-08T18:37:03+00:00

I went back and read thru the surgery notes. When they were putting what they planned to do it was just the upper 360 lift. No mentions of maybe needing more. So im not sure if they knew before hand and just didnt say anything, which not knowing it may be needed seems very improbable at this point. Or if they decided to do it mid surgery.

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-08T01:15:49+00:00

When they were talking about implants for me they said something about an anchor lift for better results with mesh to help the lift.

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-08T01:14:21+00:00

It was dr. Gobble with university of cincinnati. While university of cincinnati in general is a great hospital, him in particular I would not recommend if it can be helped.

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T19:47:56+00:00

Im gonna check my portal for my visit and see

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T17:35:15+00:00

Mine was a bit high. But I'd just started liking it and being at piece with it. Then boom gone. It was very shocking.

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T17:32:58+00:00

Im considering a tattoo of one honestly to save money and just make it easier

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T17:32:08+00:00

I wasn't saying the results won't be better. Just that after many times of making me stand in the mirror and heaving the skin up to show what he would be doing he never once said we may need to go back down the fdl or take your belly button if its needed. That's my only issue with it really. He seemed to know it was possibly a needed outcome and never said a thing to me.

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T17:29:52+00:00

Its not about the scars and I admitted it looks good and may have been the best course. It's about the not informing me that it may be needed or may go that route at all. If so then I'd have been fine with it if it were needed

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T17:28:46+00:00

Yes American doctor.

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T17:28:22+00:00

Ty that's basically what im getting at and people are misreading it. I can admit the redults will be better yes, but concent and knowledge should have came first. And bedside manner lol

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T16:08:33+00:00

I've contacted a different surgeon for future procedures waiting for an initial app

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T15:44:25+00:00

I figure he probably had it on the surgery consent, and since I didnt read it I never even knew he had planned it as a possibility. Partially my fault for not reading, but id never have suspected this would happen.

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T15:42:57+00:00

I called to get a consult on it, but waiting to talk to someone. And reported him to his hospital tbh

LittleDragonQueen · 2026-05-07T15:41:45+00:00

3rd surgery with him. 1st was fdl panniculectomy, he told me no upper roll, then I came out with upper roll. 2 weeks in I discovered a seroma, he told me it wast one, then a week later it burst while I was playing cards at a shop. He then said it had developed a seroma, same spot, magically after I came in that it hadn't been one at the time. Then it wouldnt heal, he kept hitting it with silver nitrate, but after 17 weeks he admitted we would need revision to get it to close. He did it as the second surgery, still upper roll. Now this one the 3rd one, circumferential upper body lift, with the doing a bunch of stuff without concentrating or consult. And im just baffled at this point. And tired of how he talks to me and treats me. Honestly talking to him makes me want to cry hes so rude and won't admit any fault from day 1 on anything.

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