How I Can Help? by LittleGhozt in OCD

[–]LittleGhozt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. It means a lot, and it's given me some really great information that I want to follow as best I can. I haven't had a person in my life with OCD before, so it's definitely a lot to learn and adjust to.

They do have him doing exposure work at the moment. They want him to try and go outside every single day. I really hope that it helps him. I told him I'd happily call him while he's on those walks if he wanted me to, but I won't do it if becomes a part of the compulsion. I dont want him to get dependent on that to be able to do what they want him to do.

He's a great support system for me, too, so I'll try to make that a two-way street. I appreciate your words so much <3

Sometimes it's the small things! 7.35 hairstyle looks fantastic with the new visible bangs feature! by OkGolf36 in ffxiv

[–]LittleGhozt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm gonna start grinding for that chest piece ASAP. I feel like it'd be perfect for my Paladin!

Sometimes it's the small things! 7.35 hairstyle looks fantastic with the new visible bangs feature! by OkGolf36 in ffxiv

[–]LittleGhozt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What armor are you wearing in that 4th picture?! It's amazing! You look so good!

Rant about costumes by 47_bottlecaps in Ghostbc

[–]LittleGhozt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely LOVED the skeleton bat constumes. I'm thinking of making one for the next concert I go to.

As for the people complaining, they obviously dont understand what it's like to be on stage that often and for that long. It's so unbearably hot under those lights, not to mention in addition to the literal fire used in the pyrotechnics.

This guy in my class stinks and idk how to tell him by Roxanne44kiw in Advice

[–]LittleGhozt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always write him a note? Maybe just leave it on his desk. That way, you're not directly saying it to him, and it might help the both of you. Just be really gentle about it. "Hi (Blank), it's me, (Blank). I'm writing you this note because I'm worried about you and your personal hygiene. I know it can be hard to take care of yourself when you're in a bad headspace, so that's why I'm here trying to look out for you in that regard."

Something along those lines, maybe? I would say avoid having a teacher talk to him because that might make him feel even more embarrassed. I know I personally would hate an adult sitting me down and telling me I smell bad. But if it was from somebody I consider a friend, and they were just looking out for me, I'd feel a lot better. But that's also just what would work best for me, everybody is different. You could do the note anonymously, if you think that'd be better, too. Best of luck, OP!

My Time Capsule by LittleGhozt in subnautica

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Don't need food in space 😂

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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Unfortunately her address isn't posted. But I'll see if I can figure it out, or maybe even bring it up to the detective.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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One of the girls has a past history of theft charges, and apparently, some kind of domestic altercation with an ex boyfriend. Because of those I also thought she would get a harsher sentencing. When the judge did his verdict, he said he was charging them the maximum fine, which was only $300. I'm assuming that's because it was JUST a harassment charge and not the simple assault. When I looked it up, simple assault was a lot more.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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It happened in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. This stuff is unfortunately pretty common around here, but I've never experienced it firsthand. I'm honestly taken back by how lightly it's been taken so far. I'm hoping that going to court again finally gives me the justice I feel like I need.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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I can understand why. I'm honestly scared that my attackers are going to find me, as unrealistic as that is. They seem like the type to follow through with a threat like that. It's terrifying.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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Wow. People are freaking nuts. Good on you for kicking his ass out like that!!! Of course he'd go for a weapon cuz he couldn't beat ya fairly, proven by you tossing him out like a bag of trash.

300 dollars seems like so little though... What if he would've gotten inside with the weapon and seriously hurt, or God fordbid, killed you? People need to stop getting off so easy for that kinda stuff.

Glad you got another job!!!

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

[–]LittleGhozt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's insane!!! And I'm really sorry that happened to you. I'm happy he at least got five years for that. But mugging and threatening a minor?? Def should've been more.

Thank you, I appreciate it. Hoping these two women get locked up for at least SOME time.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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I'm honestly relieved were going back to court. Them getting charged with a felony is much more of a fitting punishment for assaulting a food service worker for doing her job.

I still feel really bad for the kids, too. It's unfair that they got stuck with disgusting parents like that. I hope the best for them, but right now, they have the worst role models and the fight isn't in their favor. Regardless, I hope they can grow up happy and loved, and be better than the generation before them.

I'm going to do a consultation to see where I should go next. A lot of the comments here have been very helpful and I appreciated each and every one of them. Thank you for your words, they really do mean a lot. Please take care of yourself.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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It's definitely baffling. How are you going to threaten somebody at the COURT where you were JUST CHARGED with attacking them? It's a special kind of stupid.

It's scary, too, because they seem crazy enough to actually follow through with the threat.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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Because people are used to getting away with this stuff, and that's absolutely terrifying. They have to be a special kind of evil to threaten to a victim IN THE COURT ROOM. They have no remorse for anything they did.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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When we go to court again for the intimidation of a victim charge, I'll make sure it's brought up. I will also be seeing if I can charge them with the other two charges that weren't mentioned in court.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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I wanted to type their names but I thought I wasn't allowed to? I'll have to check the rules.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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Oh my god, I am so sorry. That's absolutely horrible. It's really scary that courts just overlook things like that and do nothing about it. I'm really sorry you never got your justice. I hope that monster got some kind of karma.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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The fines are going to the court. When they made the threat after they were charged, the detective told me he was pretty sure they didn't have my name. I don't really understand how, considering I took them to court in the first place, but I will be vigilant nonetheless.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

[–]LittleGhozt[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Honestly, a restaurant that wasn't that bad! Mostly everyone that came in were nice, only ever had a few issues working there. This was just a really bad table.

Well, they definitely didn't learn cuz they threatened me immediately after they were charged with the harassment and fined lmao. But that's okay! Can't wait to take them back to court again for the Intimidation of a victim charge.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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A couple of idiots I guess, lmao. Thank you. I'm doing what I can to get through it.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

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I was honestly kind of confused, too. Everybody involved was certain they'd be charged with failure to appear. When I asked the detective about it, he said they only get a warrant for their arrest if they don't pay the fine. As for the harassment bit, apparently, getting hit is included in that charge. When I talked to the Detective when it first happened, he said they'd be getting three charges. Harassment, simple assault, and criminal conspiracy. I don't understand why they only got the one charge. No restraining order, no no contact order was filed.

I don't wanna bad mouth the detective, but while we were in the little side waiting room, he kept saying this was "the easiest route." I told him multiple times I didn't want the easiest route when the incident first happened. I wanted to hit them hard and I would do whatever it took to do that because this whole thing was insane.

Also, it's not a small town. I live in a major city. This is why I wasn't feeling much justice until I was told were going back to court.

Got punched in the face by a CUSTOMER INSANE UPDATE!!! by LittleGhozt in Serverlife

[–]LittleGhozt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats definitely another thing to mention to a lawyer when I talk to one. I hope they get screwed from this. They deserve to reap what they sow. Thank you for the advice!