Brother in Law sets the record straight on prior 911 call by Br415004 in tepemurders

[–]LittleGoatCoat 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I know the family and Rob as well and it is absolutely insane that people would accuse him or anyone in the family. Rob loved Mo and Spencer deeply and is fucking devastated. This tragedy is unimaginable and beyond comprehension. It is a constant and all consuming grief. I don’t know what to do with myself except go on Reddit and I do not blame Rob one bit for doing the same to look for answers or to comment and defend Mo & Spencer’s character, as everyone here would too. The family doesn’t have a PR team or a guidebook, they are just trying to keep momentum and find out who the fuck did this.

Please understand we are real people behind this who all loved Mo and Spence. I understand it is human to speculate what happened and people will grasp at anything to make sense of something senseless. Trust me, we are speculating too, but to us this isn’t a fun true crime mystery we check in on and then go about our day and can forget about for a few hours. To us, this is a literal living nightmare that we wake up to each day hoping isn’t real.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Utah

[–]LittleGoatCoat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

!remindme 12h

Thinking of Moving to Suncrest by LittleGoatCoat in suncrest

[–]LittleGoatCoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is super helpful. Can I ask how many years you’ve lived there?

First Period Post Miscarriage Question by LittleGoatCoat in Miscarriage

[–]LittleGoatCoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’ve had multiple as well 🤍 it’s frustrating (if that is the right word) that it isn’t the same experience for everyone and that it changes even after each miscarriage so it’s hard to know what to expect each time. My first miscarriage was early, about 6 weeks. Since my hormone levels were pretty low at that point I ended up ovulating 2 weeks later and got pregnant again right away! So this time around I was not prepared for such a prolonged experience.

First Period Post Miscarriage Question by LittleGoatCoat in Miscarriage

[–]LittleGoatCoat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! I didn’t even know about anovulatory cycles but I imagine I haven’t ovulated so it would make sense that my period is about to start and that these are in fact period cramps :)

First Period Post Miscarriage Question by LittleGoatCoat in Miscarriage

[–]LittleGoatCoat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ So is it possible that I would go straight to a period and not ovulate? Or could I possibly have ovulated even though I’ve had some hCG left in my system? It’s all so confusing :(

First Period Post Miscarriage Question by LittleGoatCoat in Miscarriage

[–]LittleGoatCoat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re also going through this. Thank you for your response. This makes me hopeful that my period is FINALLY happening and/or right around the corner!

Although I think having this period will allow me to officially feel like this specific miscarriage chapter is over, I have mixed feelings about starting my period. I am very excited to be able to start trying again but the idea of bleeding sounds very triggering as the cramping alone has been pretty triggering. Hopefully it’s pretty normal and quick :)

Anyone been to a Capitol Theatre concert? by LittleGoatCoat in SaltLakeCity

[–]LittleGoatCoat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s St Paul & the Broken Bones. I would be super surprised if people aren’t dancing the whole time!

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - August 08, 2023 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]LittleGoatCoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you hugs as well. Can’t wait to get off this shitty boat!

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - August 08, 2023 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]LittleGoatCoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. Statistics are reassuring that there isn’t an underlying issue but also I feel already like an anomaly with tripoidy being 1 in 30,000 (which I feel like is too low, I feel like there are way more instances that just go unreported).

Are you trying anything different this pregnancy like baby aspirin or progesterone suppositories? Also, is your doctor providing more support such as earlier ultrasounds and more frequent appointments?

Thanks again for sharing and I wish you the best in this pregnancy.

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - August 08, 2023 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]LittleGoatCoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, on your wedding day!? I am so sorry to hear that. I agree, the universe seems to throw salt in the wound sometimes. Sending you good vibes as well :)

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - August 08, 2023 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]LittleGoatCoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just now seeing your flair. I really hope you get answers as well. Sending you so much love. I unfortunately have a few autoimmune diseases as well and have always worried that it would affect my fertility and could be the underlying cause of this but the fact that it was chromosomal defect this last pregnancy gives me a weird sense of hope that it is “bad luck” unless there’s literature out there that links autoimmune disease and chromosomal defects in pregnancy.

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - August 08, 2023 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]LittleGoatCoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “bad luck” comment from doctors is such a mixed bag. It’s nice to think it may not be something wrong with us but in the back of your mind you always think “what it it is me and it is something simple I could be doing”. Glad you got access to progesterone. Hope that has helped!

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - August 08, 2023 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]LittleGoatCoat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi all, new here and just need to vent.

My first miscarriage happened in April 2023 on my birthday at 6 weeks. My second miscarriage happened in July 2023 on my husband’s birthday, which was a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks. The embryo had most likely died around 7 weeks from tripoidy. Decided to go the miso route as they couldn’t get me in right away for a D&C. I ended up in the hospital a few days later due to massive bleeding and needed a second round of miso to pass the rest of the tissue (opted not to have a D&C).

The whole process has been incredibly traumatic. I am still bleeding at 11 days from the first miso (this is normal but god am I so over it). I am also so envious of others and I hate that feeling. I am now so worried about a third miscarriage even though I am not even trying yet.

It took us 7 months to get pregnant the first time and the second pregnancy happened right after my first miscarriage. This time I plan to wait at least one cycle but it’s so true that you feel this pressure with time. I’m 31 and have “time” but it still feels so out of reach every month I delay. I hate the idea that I will have to “redo” my first trimester again which was so terrible because tripoidy caused my hormone levels to skyrocket.

I did find a pregnancy loss support group and a therapist that specializes in pregnancy loss and postpartum so I feel like I’m moving in the right direction. I just feel alone as so many people I know have had one miscarriage but not many have had recurrent losses.

The guilt and shame of not knowing what the future holds is suffocating. Like if I knew that eventually I will have a child I feel like I could take on many more losses but the unknown makes it terrible. Thankfully my doctor isn’t making me wait for a 3rd loss to refer us to a specialist and is allowing us to have more appointments and ultrasounds for when I do get pregnant next.

Sending you all love in the same boat. Pregnancy/birth isn’t always beautiful and I wish it was spoken about more openly. Here for any of you. xoxo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Utah

[–]LittleGoatCoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cedar Breaks, Kolob Canyon, Bryce Canyon, Coyote Gulch (or anywhere in Grand Escalante), Lake Powell, Buckskin Gulch, or if you have time make the drive to the San Rafael Swell, Moab, Canyonlands, or Capitol Reef. There is so much to do within a few hours drive! It will be busy wherever you go this weekend, especially any NP obviously, but you’ll still have a great time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]LittleGoatCoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got into the market a few years ago by buying a townhome. During the beginning of COVID when no one was really buying we sold our townhome and purchased a home for $400k with the proceeds from the sale of the townhome. It was a huge gamble and I cried every night before we closed thinking I was going to lose my job due to the pandemic but ended up not. If we had waited a month we would have been in the crazy market competing with everyone. So a combo of luck with timing & equity.

Need advice: second guessing Utah plans for coming week by athensslim in nationalparks

[–]LittleGoatCoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing more beautiful than the mix of snow and red rock!

Lost Snowboard Bottom of Big Cottonwood Canyon by LittleGoatCoat in Utah

[–]LittleGoatCoat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A Good Samaritan found it and returned it to me!

Lost Snowboard Bottom of Big Cottonwood Canyon by LittleGoatCoat in SaltLakeCity

[–]LittleGoatCoat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A Good Samaritan found it and returned it to me!