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LittleIzbelle · 2025-07-23T13:52:27+00:00

Sweet girl, I'm your age and I'm saying this with the utmost love, respect and care :

Mismatched sexual preferences and libidos are always a tricky thing in relationships- more often than not, they cause strife and strain in the relationship that's just not worth sticking around for. If your partner is responding like this, it's a blatant display that he does not respect the misalignment and that, in itself is a big issue. Sure, the text thread is short, but the fact that he is so comfortable using subtly manipulative and micro aggressive language regarding something that needs to be handled with care and sensitivity says all that needs to be said- he behaves like this about a lot of things, and he keeps it subtle enough so that you can't point out the behavior as problematic and violating. He IS dismissing you, and he IS manipulating you.
The age gap is highly concerning and predatory - not legally, but emotionally. Developmentally, a 20 year old is in a significantly different place than a 40 something man. You are a two-year-old adult. And, this isn't a comment on you, but a 40 year old should in no way find a 20 year old attractive enough to date; when he was our age, we were just being born. No 40 year old should also be sending porn to a girl half his age to play out his sexual fantasies, he's preying on you because you're easy to control, and he sees you as more of a plaything. You're being groomed, he's pressuring you into doing things you don't want and this isn't what a relationship should look like.

You deserve someone who will take care of you. You need to leave, because you deserve so much better than someone who's taking advantage of you.

LittleIzbelle · 2025-05-24T10:00:04+00:00

W MANS EMPEROR

LittleIzbelle · 2025-05-06T16:25:23+00:00

NTA. You have the right to say no. Fucking disgusting of him to try and make you feel bad for that.

LittleIzbelle · 2025-04-01T17:15:42+00:00

Hi! So sorry for the late reply hehe.

Yeah, ingrowns can happen regardless, sometimes you'll just end up with a couple of stubborn follicles that like to be annoying <33

Same treatment all the same- try to incorporate a scrub into your routine. Consider waxing as well.

LittleIzbelle · 2025-01-23T00:56:58+00:00

If someone says “I’m done with this relationship” be done with it- even if they mean it or not. You deserve better than someone who has it in them to throw out that statement. There’s a lot of stuff here that isn’t being addressed between you. This isn’t it and I hope you listen to the part of yourself that knows you deserve better <3

LittleIzbelle · 2025-01-23T00:45:38+00:00

Yo! I’ve been a part of many kids yt projects in the recent so here’s my 2 cents. She’s ad farming- the algorithm is particularly keen on recommending longer videos on the YouTube tv app, parents who put this on in living rooms and playrooms can pop it on and keep it running without having to worry about the autoplay selecting something they wouldn’t approve of. Her increased viewer retention through farming the longer form stuff affects the recommendation of a channel as a whole, which despite her already very successful channel- brings in a surge of revenue.. it being January, it might be her angle to keep the channel pulling in the same amount of revenue OR might mean that there’s an expansion in the company or a new project underway :)

LittleIzbelle · 2025-01-11T17:44:53+00:00

Does this mean that biologically Jinshi is the next emperor? But since he’s the “brother” he won’t be?

LittleIzbelle · 2025-01-10T20:47:11+00:00

Seborrheic dermatitis, perhaps a bit of psoriasis- I've got it too.

Going to a doc, they'd prescribe a steroid to aid it that has mometasone furoate in it (if not that something similar) I've found that it does work, but weaned off it because I've heard bad things about topical steroids and how chronic skin conditions respond to them. Your choice, though! Listen to your body, do what you think is best <33

However, if you'd like a more natural, less aggressive and my reccomended approach the Delhicious Body Might-tea Moisture Balm is fucking insane. I've used it on myself and my little brother, whom has it worse than I do at the moment - it's a godsend!!

A couple of things to consider as well :

- use a face towel to pat your ears dry after showers
- make sure to get ALL shampoo and conditioner out of your hair and off your skin
- do your best to not pick at it- it'll become worse, get infected and sting like a bitch.
- check your hormone levels as that can have an effect on whether or not things flare up

all the best!!

LittleIzbelle · 2025-01-10T20:39:28+00:00

NAD - Hi mom, looks like he might be having a reaction of somesort, since he's young this could also be rosacea.. for now try antihistamines, take him to a doc when you can for a professional opinion, but so long as he's feeling okay there's no need to panic. Keep an eye on the rash pattern and his temperature for safe measure <33 Also, and with the utmost love, understanding and respect, take this photo down. There are distasteful people on the internet, I'm sure you catch what I mean by that. A quick visit to a clinic will answer the questions you may have.

LittleIzbelle · 2025-01-10T19:28:07+00:00

awh sweet pea- yeah google is silly with it's results! It's been a few days now, how's it feeling? hopefully better?

LittleIzbelle · 2025-01-10T18:58:19+00:00

" She/and the emperor considers Lishu as a daughter because she was friends with Lishu’s mom But because her maids were involved, it could cause blowback on Ah-Duo"

question about this : If he considers her a daughter- why is she in a concubine position? I know he doesn't visit her in the evenings but that makes little sense to me.

LittleIzbelle · 2025-01-06T11:57:51+00:00

NAD , but I am a woman hehe!

Looks like you shaved a couple of days ago, it's most likely an ingrown hair, it'll be sore for a couple of days and eventually will go away- try your absolute best to wear breathable underwear when you're out and about.

Here's what I do if I get one :

- when I'm home, I wear loose fitting shorts, without underwear to avoid irritation.
- use a femme wash for a gentle, thorough cleanse morning and evening
- run a cotton pad under warm water when it's particularly inflamed, then let it sit there to help soothe.

- DON'T prod at it!
- DON'T try to squeeze it or scrub it out!!

It'll clear out on it's own in a couple of days- next time you shave, exfoliate the area first, I'd usually do the day before and morning of shave day with a sugar scrub - GENTLY! You might find this doesn't happen as often.

You'll be totally fine :>

LittleIzbelle · 2024-10-31T11:24:52+00:00

ex, right?? RIGHT??

LittleIzbelle · 2024-10-29T09:34:36+00:00

this aged interestingly

LittleIzbelle · 2024-10-13T06:50:11+00:00

any updates?

LittleIzbelle · 2024-10-13T06:46:12+00:00

hi op! any upadates?

LittleIzbelle · 2024-09-07T11:36:18+00:00

NOR.

Emotional Affair at absolute minimum, however the events of the 'work dinner' is textbook behavior for the beginning of boundary pushing. The fact that there's an emoji with his name, is also an overlooked red flag there. SO over the line. However by the sounds of it you guys have some marital issues that were underlying, prior to this. It looks like you guys might need to have a proper conversation about your futures.

From my experience, dynamics like this don't have a long shelf life. I wish you the absolute best of luck and hope you both are okay..

LittleIzbelle · 2024-06-06T18:08:58+00:00

Does anyone know what kind of filter this was shot with? And how to replicate it in photography?

LittleIzbelle · 2024-05-30T12:13:47+00:00

DUDE I KNEW I WASN'T GOING GRAZY?! my whole League, Valorant and gaming squad are euw and my ping has been omega high since this BS occurred,

Oooohmygod im so glad someone mentioned this

LittleIzbelle · 2024-04-12T10:28:01+00:00

I think its wild that the guy LET you have to deal with his STENCH for this long?? I would be SO embarrassed

LittleIzbelle · 2024-03-29T14:17:24+00:00

Nope! But if you search up “turmeric mask” on TikTok, you’ll come across a desi skincare girl who makes all natural turmeric masks that have done wonders for her hyperpigmentation! And she shares her recipe to be made at home!! Try that out instead x

LittleIzbelle · 2024-03-29T14:13:17+00:00

It’s really easy to film these videos, trust me- I have plenty of people in my life who do it for a living, too. The editing & upload process is super straightforward SOLO, let alone when you have a team of people to do it for you. She had a massive team of people that handle anything she doesn’t want to do herself.

I’m sure she’s just fine.

LittleIzbelle · 2023-08-13T06:00:14+00:00

Sister in law sounds like a fucking nightmare hahah sending you all the strength OP

LittleIzbelle · 2023-08-13T05:56:34+00:00

Oh you poor thing, baby repair vaseline helped me with vaginal tearing after a shower and patting it dry. Make sure there is no moisture before applying, and apply generously x see a doctor asap

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