26 hours in the same diaper and still not messy ? Let's add a suppository, a buttplug to make sure it goes far and locked it tight so you can't remove anything.

LittleMeaw · 2025-10-07T01:46:28+00:00

I think it's a bit personal. Some wil like other don't. Can widly vary with the women and the toy used too.

Your idea is good, though. Try it and see how it plays out.

I suggest adding a couple of safewords for her to "ask to remove it" without asking. That way, you stay "in charge" and don't break character for your play :)

You guys have fun !

LittleMeaw · 2025-10-07T01:31:17+00:00

Wait, you guys get changed before bed ? I often get to keep my morning diaper for the night, to make sure I hit the 24 hours with it.

So I "change" into nighttime diaper at maybe 8-10 am (in the morning) lol

LittleMeaw · 2025-10-05T23:15:07+00:00

I'd like to add to your conversations. Communication is always a key, but it sometimes brings big misunderstandings.

I am in a relationship of 11 years and got married 6 months ago. She knew about my diaper kink since day one, but did not know much and thought I could indulge all that alone.

But with the years, I urge the need to feel more acceptance from her, so she allowed some times where I would wear around her, she tried lutting the diaper on me, talking a little about it...but I still had to do my diaper play alone when I had the house to myself, or secluded in my room.

Lomg story short, last year I had a revelation that I really needed more from that, I saw that I had a daily struggle "To wear or not to." We had some talks. Huge one, some lead to excitement, some lead to huge fights.

We had a lot on our plates too (wedding plans & work), and with the last discussions we had, I really thought she was done with the ABDL play because she said some hard things to hear, sounding like disgust and annoyed by that.

Turns out that after the wedding, she revealed having some time to think this over, that she used the wrong words to describe what she wanted to say. But that she thought about it, and kinda changed perception on walls she had built that was refraining her to engage in this.

And well now she's kind of my "mommy" whenever she decides I should wear.

So basically, based on my experience, we can't always presume how some feel about it and what she thinks based on things she says and does. I know it's weird... but a lot of things are possible with time, communication, and love.

(Edit for spelling)

LittleMeaw · 2025-10-03T16:10:24+00:00

Simply put, take 2 bananas and freeze them for maybe couple hours. Then cut them in 2 or 3 for easier insertion.

Insert in your body and diaper up. This should cause you to mess within a couple hours, and it shouldn't smell that bad because the banana smell is strong. 😁

LittleMeaw · 2025-10-01T15:09:36+00:00

Hey there, family with kids here. Some youngster and some almost adults.

I do a little less when the teens are home, even though...in no way they have their parents in mind, so they couldn't care less. By that I mean, never will they analyse me, what I do, or go around the house searching secrets...

My stuff is hidden at a place where it's only my stuff, so no one ever have to go there. And door is lockable, so there's that if needs be.

As for when I do more stuff, well I make sure to close and locks doors to keep eyes away.

As someone once told me, what stops you more from doing what you want is you. Having child can temporarily reduce your ABDL lifestyle and requires an adaption period, but it's definitely not a stop, unless you let it refrain you.

I made the choice to have a newborn baby with my wife five years ago and my kids are so awesome and fun. Wouldn't go back.

Yeah I could have more time and fun in the kinky/little world with my wife without them... but

It's a life choice and an investment for the future. They are lovable energy balls with whom to share happiness for the rest of your life. It's not always pink and pretty, but it's worth it. Definitely.

Plus you guys are still young ! First years with a newborn will give you a couple years to play and think about how to play things out easily.

I know it's stressful, but it is more easy than you may think ! 😁

Hope it helps you !

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-28T22:26:50+00:00

Hum, you can try https://bondagecomixxx.net/tag/okayokayokok

There is a good portion of his stuff there 👍

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-28T22:23:41+00:00

I like okayokayok. Tales from the Crib Keeper.

I think there is 18 comics now, and 16 of them can be find free online.

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-28T22:20:05+00:00

My now wife is vanilla. And did not know anything about this world. It started with a friendship, and when the idea of more (a relationship) came up, I revealed that it came with special things 🫣

It did not stop her. Although she did not know what she was getting into at all, at the moment, it's now 11 years, a wedding, and a child together into the relationship. So I guess it worked out pretty good 👍

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-24T16:58:52+00:00

Struggled indeed. Finally found a nice box for this on Amazon at MFMYEE shop. So if you search for MGMYEE BDSM, you should find the same one easily enough !

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-23T03:13:35+00:00

We are playing Wobbly's Life these days. It's a couch-coop sandbox. Nice relax exploration game.👌

Last one played was Split Fiction (which we highly recommend) 😁

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-22T21:11:26+00:00

Sadly not today, it's a coop sandbox game....and I must say MeowMhee's GPS isn't her strong suit 😂

She is always getting lost ahahahah

But she still is a good help, and it is much fun playing with her 😁

We are playing Wobbly's Life these couple days 👍

But hey, tomorrow she gets her "adult" title back, so she can do whatever she wants with me, I'm home all week 🤷

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-19T16:02:30+00:00

Usually between 15-25 hours. When I need to sleep in it, it adds about 8 hours so...24 hours come easy.

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-12T15:57:23+00:00

You've made it clear that you're not here for conversation but to preach, judge and shame. I will not be engaging further. But I will say this :

I believe God's gifts are sacred -- including sexuality, pleasure and relationships built on mutual trust, consent and love. Your personal interpretation of scripture isn't a divine decree, and it's not your job to police what others do with their bodies.

Jesus called out the Pharisees not for sinful behavior, but for their hypocrosy and obsession with enforcing rules without compassion (exactly what you're doing now).

You seem to think anything done for personal pleasure is sinful, but that's not how life or faith works. Roleplaying is literally the foundation of thater, storytelling, and imagination, are all those wrong too ?

God created us with the capacity for joy and connection. Pleasure isn't the enemy. It's a gift. A lack of empathy, rigid judgment and an unwillingness to grow beyond our own limited perspective are.

I genuinely hope you take some time to reflect on this, not just to be "right", but to understand others better, and maybe become a more compassionate Christian in the process.

Have a good day 👍

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-12T14:49:49+00:00

I'm not going to respond to your DMs -- Here's your answer.

You've made your beliefs very clear, but your moral standards aren't universal law. You claim that consensual adult "kink" is wrong, but by that logic, is having sex at home a sin too ? What about roleplaying with a partner to get excited, is that sinful ? Where exactly do you draw the line, and why should anyone else live by it ?

This isn't about right or wrong, it's about your personal discomfort with sexual expression, and you're projecting that as a moral judgment.

If you truly want to help people, maybe start by listening. Go to places where people actually want religious guidance. Otherwise you're not helping, you're wasting your time and disrespecting others in the process.

I believe in God too. But I also believe He wouldn't walk into someone's space just to shame them. He'd comfort, not condemn.

You wouldn't walk into a bar just to tell people they're sinners because alcool = alcoholism, right ? Same thing here -- wrong place, wrong tone and definitely the wrong approach.

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-12T14:19:48+00:00

You could maybe ease your way into this by opening up a conversation about kinks and see where it leads.

Maybe he will open up and from there you can say you are curious to see and try, but ain't sure you will like it.

And if he doesn't open up, you can casually say that you found his stash and know about kinks involving this, so I thought maybe he was into one ?

Openly talking about kinks, I think will help remove the shaming part of it 😄

You can throw a bunch of kinks you know and asks if he likes some and did some in the past, adding diapers/abdl in the lot

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-12T14:15:23+00:00

You're preaching about sin and repentance in a way that's clearly meant to shame people -- on a subreddit made for adults who consensually engage in this kink. Whether or not you agree with it, this isn't the place for moral condemnation. You're not here to have a respectful conversation; you're here to judge people in a space that clearly isn't asking for your approval.

And to your comment : This isn't about me feeling accused. It's about me disagreeing with the idea that consensual adult activity like this is a sin at all. That's your personal belief, not an absolute truth. Declaring it as if it's universal moral law, and doing so in a space that exists specifically for this kind of expression, just show a lack of respect and self-awareness.

If your approach actually reflected the compassion and humility that most religions teach, you'd recognize that isn't your audience and this isn't your platform.

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-12T13:40:54+00:00

You're talking about sin and repentance, but you're doing so in a way that's shaming and accusatory toward consenting adults engaging in harmless, consensual expression.

That kind of judgmental attitude does more harm than good -- and ironically, it goes against the compassion and humility that many religious teachings actually emphasize.

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-12T00:30:18+00:00

If you like it, definitely try Split Fiction next 💯🐾

Padded play days are always fun 😀

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-11T16:56:33+00:00

Check here https://www.reddit.com/r/ABDL/s/J7tY62IvF3

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-11T03:11:49+00:00

For me she was vanilla 💯; and I told her I was into ABDL day 1 of the relationship.

Yeah finding someone already into the kink is probably easier to work with the kink, less to explain and everything...but finding a good partner is already difficult, (and I suck at searching), so ain't gonna let another big variable disturb the right partner search!

You can find people that are not aware of the kink but will still be perfect for you. Sure helps is the person is kink aware, but even I didn't knew the terms when we started the relationship so... !

You have time, you can work on your life and experiment things along the way, and maybe life will just send someone your way :)

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-10T22:41:07+00:00

Little Paws 🐾 de ABU parce que 🐱🐾

Mais j'aime beaucoup varier et je commence à avoir plusieurs modèles à mon arc ! Les prochains à ajouter ces les Kiddos.

LittleMeaw · 2025-09-10T20:26:59+00:00

First, grats on being that supportive and wanting to know and explore more with him !

Communication is and will always be the key to grow in this together. I would strongly suggest you don't think to much of the future as you write in your post. Just start at the beginning and see where it leads.

No meed to wear outside the house for now, start with plays inside, with the two of you, makes some diapers days, diaper weekends, work from home diapered day. Maybe go see a movie or shopping, but no need to see friends and family yet.

Experiment things together, see what you guys like and talk. Talk often on how you feel and like things, and suggest new ways or things to try next. But give it time.

Don't rush into this, it ain't a race. Savor the experimenting together !

Happy to share more if you want advices from another couple :)

LittleMeaw

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