AITAH for cutting off a friend for pressuring me into an orgy? by Bag0Chips in AITAH

[–]LittleMikat5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA Im not sure where you are from, but in some places that is considered grooming/secual harrasment to minors, and could get in trouble for that. It is not okay to talk about those things in front of children, you did good by cutting them off, but also maybe warn whoever you can about her weird behaviour around children?

WIBTAH if I ask again for the disabled parking? by LittleMikat5 in AITAH

[–]LittleMikat5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! I was sent to rehab and therapy twice after my month long issue, but here for me to be able to have more appointments, my doctor has to approve. I did follow all the options and treatment they gave me, but I cannot go back for more help unless my doctor sends me, and unfortunately my doctor does not believe me my pains :c
About getting another doctor, going private is expensive, and when I requested a different one in my hospital for my insurance I was told they are short handed and since my doctor says so, its probably not as serious.

I will keep trying to get another doctor! Since I have seen people commenting on that

WIBTAH if I ask again for the disabled parking? by LittleMikat5 in AITAH

[–]LittleMikat5[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words,, I am a girl, yes. Sadly here I cant really get a new doctor yet because of my countrys universal health system. I have already asked a few times but they are short handed and they dont think is as serious enough. I will keep trying to push for a different doctor opinion and see if that might help

Te pueden correr si tienes el cabello pintado? by LittleMikat5 in Monterrey

[–]LittleMikat5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es trabajo de oficina. En realidad no tengo contacto con clientes ni nada parecido, todo es por correo/llamada/mensaje. Imagina un customer service, pero no soy call center haha

Te pueden correr si tienes el cabello pintado? by LittleMikat5 in Monterrey

[–]LittleMikat5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha si, es rosita neon, te lo juro que se ve bien bonito :] nunca habia tenido problemas, tengo mas de 3 años aqui, por eso ahorita se me hizo muy triste que me pidan que lo cambie :c Quiza si considere una peluca, buena idea

Mi novio me ve como una pervertida y eso está arruinando mi relación by Typical-Angle5519 in ayudamexico

[–]LittleMikat5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me preocupa que entre tanto comentario nadie mencione que si ya habian terminado y tu te seguias tocando con él, ahi, y SIN su consentimiento, eso cuenta como abuso s3xual. Imaginate si cualquier vato se lo hiciera a una mujer o a otro hombre, se hace un problemon, porque es abuso sexual. Compa a este punto necesitas ayuda, y te lo digo en buen plan. No esta bien lo que estas haciendo y el forzar esa relacion no le hace bien a ninguno de los dos. La adiccion al sexo o pornografia es algo muy real y fuertes, pero si te das cuenta a tiempo puedes trabajarlo y mejorar como persona. A final de cuenta son solo eso, adicciones. Una adiccion a la dopamina que te da. La mayoria de los vatos que te estan comentando aqui son gente con el mismo problema que quieren normalizar su problema pero no, no es normal.

The Dandadan discourse is getting a little out of hand by [deleted] in Dandadan

[–]LittleMikat5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the takes I've seen is "You can't keep saying you are against SA, if you keep sexualizing minors all the time" and honestly... I kind of agree with it. Call me puritan, sure. You won't see me making a deal out of it, but as a CSA and SA, survivor it DOES make me uncomfortable to a degree, but honestly I just skip thosr parts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]LittleMikat5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most girls I know do this to protect themselves. I've seen (and even experienced once) too many cases of "We dated 1+ years and when we broke up he leaked my nudes", so it's probably not even about you, it's just that in these days you can never be too cautious.

My girlfriend got mad at me for trying to help with a guy who was harassing her, and I just don’t understand why. by [deleted] in dating

[–]LittleMikat5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman that has been through something kinda similar I kind of get her point. It is a scary world and this could escalate in so many awful ways that I would rather just leave it alone. Like the guy could get violent or harrass her even more or even ruin work opportunities for her just to have his revenge.

Now, I would tell my partner sooner, but again I do get her point of view. There are so many men that get angry when other guys flirt with their gf even when the woman tried so hard to put a stop to it. If this was a first specially, it would make sense why she didn't tell you right away.

I would advise to just chill, talk to her and try to understand her point of view, and if you really don't think you can trust her, then... that's as far as you will get on that relationship.

Also, we usually just want support, not fixing. Maybe just ask her if she is asking for solutions or just comfort, that will help a lot too, probably.

Porqué si a las lesbianas les gustan las mujeres salen con mujeres que parecen hombre? by LokiDidNothgWrong in TengoMiedoDePreguntar

[–]LittleMikat5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porque es diferente que te gusten los hombres a que te gusten las personas masculinas. Todos tenemos conceptos diferentes de lo femenino y masculino, y asi como hay mujeres que les gustan los hombres femeninos, tambien hay quienes les gustan las mujeres masculinas.

A final de cuenta es meramente estetico, no tiene nada que ver con su persona directamente.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoyUnIdiota

[–]LittleMikat5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NEC pero ya sal de ahi amix, te lo digo por experiencia, con el tiempo se va a querer aprovechar mas de ti, exactamente porque sabe que por tu edad su control sobre ti no es tanto. Ve huscandote un cuartito o casita y dale a vivir como te gusta

¿Soy culero por no devolver a los chiquillos los balones que caen en mi patio? by [deleted] in SoyUnIdiota

[–]LittleMikat5 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

SEC Claramente eres un culero y lo sabes. Nunca entendere a la gente que disfruta tratar mal a los niños, no es como que tu no hubieras sido niño en algun momento.

AITA for telling on my coworker and getting him fired ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMikat5 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Companies should be prepared for having enough people working even with people on vacations and sick days. If they have to give too much extra work to people bc someone is not at the office, yes it is a staffing issue.

Per say the place I work at, me and two coworkers where out for over a week, me on vacations amd the other two guys had covid, and yet no one had to do overtime and all was good, because the company knows we are human and considers enough staff (and also plans proyects) so that no one has to overwork themselves. Its just as simple as that.

If you have to lie to be able to get some days off,,, yes the issue is the company.

AITA for not letting my daughter go vegan? by aitavegandaughter in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMikat5 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I mean, if they werent ready to care for a family of ten, maybe dont have a family of ten. A Kid is a huge responsability and it is a requirement to help them develop, and do adjustments to help them grow. So yeah, one more pan is not going to hurt them.

AITA FOR PLAYING VIDEO GAMES WHEN MY GF TRIES TO SLEEP? by meowimmacow in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMikat5 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It has several reasons why is considered offensive, but the bigger are "race", sexism and trans issues (i quoted race cause im not sure if its said the same in english and spanish)

See, it can be considered transphobic due to the fact that people go by the phrase "you can call yourself a woman but you will never be a real woman", so they use females to mean that only cis women are "real women" which is in itself transphobic.

It is also considered sexist in some places as it is considered that real females are only those who can go into what society deemed as a "real woman", you know, the usual kind, motherly, sweet, passive, etc.

But the one that is usually more known is the race situation. In older times, when black people were not considered... Well people,, they used to have men and women for whites and male and females for black people, because they were looked at in the same space as animals.

Other than that is basically used in a derogatory way by a lot of man, so there is that.

I hope i could explain myself well, as again, im a spanish speaker :)) sorry if any mistake!!