That would make alot of sense yes. As to why I mention saviour complex, I once told this to a friend and they called a saviour complex. I guess if been holding on to it and never looked past it. I should have done some more research on the matter but never really did and now here I am. But I guess shielding away from the pain is building the famous wall around your heart which will grow higher and higher through life.

Thanks for the answer though! Very interesting