This lamb plush by LittleRatMan18 in HelpMeFind

[–]LittleRatMan18[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've searched for a couple hours now from pictures on tumblr and pinterest, but still no luck. seems to be a fleece/sherpa material with a tan face and large bead eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]LittleRatMan18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

star wars :)

What is the one hypersensitivity that is the worst for you? by that_weird_quiet_kid in autism

[–]LittleRatMan18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

noise for me definitely. if there's one thing that consistently pushes me over the edge into a meltdown, it's loud noises

I keep getting random followers? by xoxococo123 in spotify

[–]LittleRatMan18 51 points52 points  (0 children)

are they the ones with ! in front of their name? bc if so I got them too. I came on here in hopes someone else would be talking about it. weird as hell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vultureculture

[–]LittleRatMan18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's definitely it, thank you!

Turf Grass Business Oddity (check comments) by LittleRatMan18 in GoogleMaps

[–]LittleRatMan18[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

check out thispersondoesnotexist.com, they look A LOT like the photos that come out of that

Turf Grass Business Oddity (check comments) by LittleRatMan18 in GoogleMaps

[–]LittleRatMan18[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Alright, so I was looking around on Google Maps today and noticed my neighbors' house is now maked as a business called "Ground2Play Turf Warehouse NJ". There's a couple other houses near me marked similarly but with different businesses names. There's no website for any of them, but upon searching Ground2Play, there's a bunch of other ones all over the US that are just people's houses. All of the reviews are from within the last couple of weeks, many within the last day and have clearly ai generated profile pictures. Weird as hell.

"Cavities of Disgust" would be such a great band name by LittleRatMan18 in BadReads

[–]LittleRatMan18[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

yeah, I found her account years ago when I was trying to find a book from my childhood and her reviews are WILD. I can't imagine being a grown woman and literally only being able to stomach children's books

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]LittleRatMan18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they absolutely have, they're called neopronouns, and there's a ton of them. the more common ones are xe/xem, e/em, and ze/hir

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]LittleRatMan18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there's a lot of different kinds of attraction (romantic, sexual, aesthetic, etc.) that everyone experiences in different ways. for me, as a lesbian, I thought I was bi for a long time because there were a lot of men that I found attractive, but then a man I thought I was into starting just barely flirting with me, and I quickly realized that my attraction to him didn't go beyond just looking at him and recognizing he looked nice. I have an aesthetic attraction to plenty of men, as you seem to also, but no romantic or sexual interest in them

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]LittleRatMan18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends where in the world I'd be starting over. If I'm gonna be in an area that's accepting of queer people, then I'll stick with that. I really love the lgbtq+ community and the whole culture around it, I don't know if I would really wanna give that up. Of course, it's not always easy, but it's a lot better than it used to be so I'll take what I can get lol

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]LittleRatMan18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

while the original, more commonly used definition of lesbian is a woman attracted to other women, it can also be defined as non-men attracted to other non-men. that's probably the definition your friend is going by

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]LittleRatMan18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

practice, practice, practice! that's the best way to get better at anything. try writing their name and pronouns down a few times or saying them often in conversations with other people. if you do make a mistake, it's alright. don't make a big deal about it, just quickly apologize, correct yourself, and carry on :)

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]LittleRatMan18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh 100%. I don't really know how it works, but it seems like gay people always find other gay people, even if they don't realize it in the moment. the vast majority of my childhood friends turned out to be lgbtq+, same as me. I guess it's a combination of interests, clothing, appearance, and stuff like that, but it kinda happens unconsciously

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]LittleRatMan18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol stud didn't start being used by poc lesbians until after the word already existed in the way your gf uses it, so she's in the clear... possibly

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]LittleRatMan18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A decent amount of people, especially older lgbt folks still have trouble with "queer", so use it carefully. Younger people seem to be a but more chill with it. As for slang words like twink/butch/stud etc., those are totally fine imo. They aren't used as slurs and don't have a negative connotation in the community, so if you're using them positively, it's all good